 Can I please give a very big shout out to Brenda Marangi? She just gives a very big smile on face. Thank you for making my job so easy. Matinjeru na kwa na kwa. Ndia na baya sodom. If ya kwa supo wa kwa na. Okay? Alright, so you're watching Why In The Morning, where it's 5-4 on Facebook. At Why In The Morning, my name is Valentine. Or at color me val on everything. Yani val wa Marangi. Yay! So if you're just joining us too, welcome to the second part of our discussion on girls talk to not only that, or rather to not discuss keeping it safe. Or just keeping safe. Girls, ladies, we gotta keep safe guys. May use your situation. Yes, thank you. Alright. Sochkona vikas meshpoze. Vikas a.k.a. vmega from Kaka Mega. Hello Kaka Mega. Just abstain it or walk with his boy or chick and it's not safe. Even girls walking in a group because they will have increased the supply. Atte what? What do you mean they will have increased the supply? Alright, we have Nyaberi Collins. Let our campus ladies respect themselves and live within their means. Remember there are consequences. Consequences to all evils we do. Alright. But also gents should respect themselves. I have a problem. You can see I'm fighting for this. Yes, I agree. I agree. But okay. Let's just be sincere. Most ladies are the source of their troubles. Ladies should not even taste a drop of liquor. We are not men. We are not men. We are not men. We are men who are just a little bit of a child. We are not women. We have to be a role model. We have to be an example. But what are the reasons for the trouble between women and food? Like I said, take one. One glass is enough. We have to be drunk, we are tipsy. We are drunk. Tipsy to feel is that I am poor, I am high and I am poor. Wachia po, you see and they beyond because if you get drunk kuna jitaftia tu shida Houta semam tu munginendu alikule tia shida Just be tipsy, don't be drunk Ok, kuna kommenti nga chani kwa mbethi tiana Shady Mungo says hello the issue of sexual harassment and abuse It starts from grassroots of our brothers and sisters They learn what we do so it's so painful and we need to put a lot of counseling And have moral values Like help me touch touch on this this comment here please Ivy He's right Yes the issue of sexual harassment and abuse starts from the grassroots As in it starts from within yourself like Trust me even though you go a drink kuna bitu houta fanya You'll still go home safe, you'll still get home You'll still call your friends and tell them I'm safe, I'm home And then they learn what we do Like kama ulkone na shule kama you're going to work But if you're not principled You go out with people Chini houta fanya Misiji kama ni right but I'm sure it's not right So whatever you do it but ita kule tia consequences No na you're right See me meet again go please Ita kule tia consequences later on in life Na houta regret too Yes What would ok, what's here Ok na hini wanyali kwa na trombethi kuna I have a question for you He said or the person said Tuna fa inanza with our brothers Or people we know What do you want us to tell you ndo ujuwe Don't take advantage of us Nini nini, ji me bakisa tuwaze kushaut Let me tell you in European countries I might just my choice Kuna wanyali demonstrate on the streets Naked, naked, naked And they said I am not asking for it Just because I'm naked Kuna ilikwa tuwaze kushaut What do you want us to say So that you understand that no matter what we wear That does not give you license To touch us the way you want One thing I can say is that First of all Europe has their own culture And Africa, Africa we have our own culture So there's no way And you know kwanza, kwanza let's say Nasi hati na watetia but one thing that really Provokes those that Mentality haki wneza fkri ani Ana fkri ani Kwa kichuha kia na semen kanakunisha Dabu iwi azini unu lemtu ani Culture haki kodi But now there are other people Azini ani do nambianga Ladies always stay away from your surroundings Kuna kwa kutuna atu ani They just bad naturally ani Azina person is just evil naturally How can you tell yo Una jo am kudina lebo Of course bethe ni nungubu kutel But ya ni Let's say once kuna kutiri tongwa Once kuna skia atu ani Ina kwami ani You just feel something is off about a person Ata kama nile kunda date nubu bebe shite ako End atu Lakini ya ni pia ya ni Uskwe tu azini ani Never trust anybody Adi wana semenga trust no one And by no one Because I've had cases of girls Being abused by their cousins Wengini uncles People you've known all your life You've grown up with them Abuse in you So azini ani never trust no one Kwanza A person like that Kuna ziliya sayings Ata kwa tukwana onesha And bethe comments He make azini ani Small things you can pick up About a person ya ni So azini ani Whenever you interact with a person Kwa azini ani Kwa tumachu kabi So such that Uke onatua ata semaktiote Ta kutu off kido Gotu iwi Iruanoi from it But now also You must know We are in Africa So we have a very Conservative culture Una ya natuangali ya So is to resituati Una tembe akadres Kana fika Wea itchalu pitea Ata kutheali Tupi gwenu opepo Upepo gani Uke poko opepo Sikuna fan Apo nida mua kwa Kambe liha fan Siliin So azini ani Conservative Because you can't compare Nakitungini kwa nmikuwa mbio Wazungu wakulet select 300 years ahead of us ya Nia zini ani Pia mentality ya Una mentality to see the same So instead of fighting It's you just Confirm to the culture ya Nia zini ani Kua conservative Nia zini ani Titu matakamdi fne keka Nia zini ani Presentable ya Okay So is that like a standard For presentable Or does it differ for all the men? Uumigina na nzawana Ua kupresentable Uumigina na nzakata So mna takaji? Manu mua teme kwa mbe Any man Kuna ilengu Demi akama bibi Akia na nzawa Ana yuni All men All men Ura kuna de mama bibi Kuna ilengu nzawa Kwa mbe wecheki Rudi Ando change Nukuna mi kwa mbe Evo As in every man Mwafrika kwanza Kuna ilengu nzawa Evidu mwambia tunenda job Mwambia job Gani Rudi Nukata kuchenda Raka mbe low-endi job Nani evo Nia zini ani Acha kwa mbe evo Out of two Nia nile tuwati Uiwa mani Siku kusumbua Siku kusumbua There's a reason behind that So What is the reason? Nia zini ani You see Yok tu mewa Nia ilengu tu Eka manu Umimi attract attention Nia kei mependerza Yoni kitu azidi ani Kanku valia kwa nyumbia Kupege kone ya kwa nyu mbalakini Sia yon Diot na fakuwa Yangingin attract wa tua tuo Kwa nyu wa kwa tuangini wa tuangali Kutaii shivi Azi machiwa na kwa sya mbisha orili Sakula mbisha naka mbaliwa na truiki See what you tunitembeni kwa mewa Wan si lazimani Isa lime kila Um tuwa chafu reiwa kule na macho African man ata macho min Yabua na peke tuinafwa kula Hallelujah You're on your way On your way please Apuwe bedia mezimu ukweli Tutuko 21st century Naka kila umtuwa nataka fashion Hmm. на on Nu Sa na piya traiko utambiliuchtengurna mawanbuyu milanya it's just your own language Shima laki Na she ma pii hidumu So it was entertaining changes to avoid this harmingi 4eana on facebook And 5eana on twitter Lazing Dokis telling me rape has nothing to do with indecency We've heard of men who rape babies as young as one year old and this is true Yes I veto yo kwa mene Uwea mese mani Uwea luka mese ma ani kuru kwa kito merukwa We'll come to you I feel what do you think? It's true. In other families kunaizu keseza like uncles, even dads raping their own kids. I would say if a dad does that to a daughter, her own daughter, that guy, Hana Akili, he's so insane. Like you don't, you can't get a, okay, you can't get a daughter or a son in your house and then you do such a thing to her or him. I mean sorry, I mean like how do you feel like, how do you feel when raping your, I mean raping your daughter? As in, haiku hwant like how we feel like un imtoto waungu, my blood. As in, umtoto, like ita fika a point what you did to her, ita kuja kukahunting in the near future. Eita uta kuwa so desperate, ama uta you won't live like, vinyemungwa may decide like you won't live for long. Un ni blessing ni ako, a daughter or son is a blessing to a family, so you just don't go, ni ni messing up with your kids. So I would say like she's saying like she's right, but it's not, si puwako kwa nye watoto wako, kwanza your own blood, like it's not. I'm not saying atawing ni puwa, but imagine doing that to your kids, it's not right, right? Is it me, ame, isto na kuguza maali, nona macho, ame, it's naturally passionate. Yes. Alright, so we have someone else again, what if I form Facebook, at what for, channel or Twitter. Ati, you can't, for me, you can't change a person, okimari, appreciate her for the way she is, it's a white, it's a white, what from salome mukami, ok, I think if I try and translate this. So to say me, maybe I point to her, dem aki ona, uki moa, ali kwanza vavi to Fupi. Now that she's in your house and you can have her say what she's doing, you want her to wear long clothes. What is the problem? Bili, no, no, kwa nga kitu katim pendebili ako, you see, uki wa single, there's a reason you dress there, you dress. Ni ele, because you never know your suit and meet me somewhere. Una attract ni ni, so you ni kani, hani. Have you ever seen kama? Let me give an example with animals. Unona ikifka let's say the mating season. Unona bili a bad ni, there's some certain bad, before kujie, so that it rules the female. Ina kujega nama highlighted, it spreads inone shaka lazot as ni ani, kwa attract female, as ni ani ina go the extra mile to attract the female. And once, once it gets the mate, yo bad ina kuji natulia. Sa una patata yuma do domingi aiko. Same case with humans. Once let's say you get your husband. Sa kuna jingina gani when the two evo's ini. Ani because your husband anafakukfanya uski visuri juhia about yourself. Ani such that even though you wear long dresses, anu pia compliments you feel about yourself. So, and one thing about ladies, ikitu ingine moja, usually go wrong, don't generalize men. Ile kitu kwanza na somangera ni umadi na skia. We have felt that sharp pain in your heart here. My twist. My chest is a little high. Adika breath kana trokka. When you say it, he may not trash. First of all, your father is a man. Was he trash? So, kama ni mtu ali kukusia? Wait, that's a point to nenda na on a mic. Mic backing like the point here. So, you see now, nile the person who was at your mum tumunya li kusia. Kama ni tuwa Kevin. Kama Kevin was trash. Kusia kisi weta kwangoria. Kwa wee there with you? Sasa ni kipatu na itua kevo pia wewe. Sintajam? Kama Kevin one, but kama Kevin two. See, but now don't generalize us here. Kwa iwa ani, you know, everyone is different in their own way. So, kuna ulem zuri, kuna ulem baya. Because there are women on your way. Kuja waka pacha mabuanua zuri azim. They are just good with their lives. Na uski angi azini ani waka kuja. Lakin nisa ulem moja tuwa me kusiawa. Anakuja tuwa na mage liya. Inki kwa mage. Mage uti na ribika. So, some of us are good out here. See what I mean. Okay, but I feel like na sana squeeze it. Tuna sa idea girl child sana. So, yes, this is girl's talk. We're talking about girls keeping safe on Queens Wednesday. But pia, nimona was tana tuja kwa wazuri sana. Na namna jam na manomem nendakam na mdunga manzeh story meisha je. Ebo first educate to advise your fellow men. Amasin do tu kwa mbiem tulie. Anzini ani fellow men. Mwajik kwa sii shama demi roba. Ndapa tomei nua. O, sana squeeze it. Please be careful boy child. Don't just go playing with anybody's heart. You will find someone who kwa zuri squeeze it. It's the truth. But it's true na. Nivini ani waka nasimatu kama ma nome. Pia boy child kwa skara dana amadim because you can find the stories about nyeru. What happens in nyeru? Stays in nyeru. Evo. And then you find the other car Ms. Naivasha, the queen. What she did to her boyfriend. So ani ani, everyone ani we should stay safe. Ani ani ani, nowadays violence ani amadim peke. Because we have men when pia squeeze it na kanya gwa na bibi vbaat. Anan zini ani. Kuna wadi wali fungu waji zi. Batad men. We have Linda Lin. Hi, it starts with you and the company you keep. Otherwise say hello to Ivy, my classmate back at high school. Wow. Oh, kuna ma fandom. I'll see you. And someone else is saying men need to control themselves. They claim ati when we expose ourselves we provoke them. The same way they control themselves okinda kwa beach ama swimming pool. They don't go around raping every female dressed in bikinis wakweneo self-control pia kwa streets. As I said, not all men are the same. Men kikuna na bikini I'll control myself. So, mi snaga shida. So, but now pia iskwe ati na toku not after shida. The way I said wezi piti shani ama mbele asi mba Ivy. Asi mbe kwa say attention kwa say kwen da apu. So you see just try and be conservative. Ani ani you don't have to prove a point. We already know you are pretty ni ni ni ani we appreciate you. Oni go to the excess ni boi chalu na cha boi chalu tu. Kwanza wei wa see na watdez wene ma de moa penda ngeku pita mali ma boi kiyo meka bezivi. Do bless kwa na. Get bless kwa na. Kwa su na patu watwa na ni ni ma bebe tu. Ani na ume pita apu na yo mi ni skat atu na jua behautka mi tapu ali. Kwanza wana kwa ni anambali. Eh madam ebu kuja, kuja. Kam you even now just go back in shape. And you could avoid that kamatu kwa dress tu ataka polaitia ni even above the mini so you see. Boi chalu ni wule wule. Laki ni ona tu pima. So meskia juzi how many Pakistan girls who are imported so that they can come belly dance for you alafu sisi to buy above the mini muna taka je praise praise praise these double standards I told you they are many at Y24 on Facebook at Y24 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is why in the morning. So I hear you guys are texting us and we're loading them so we can give you back your feedback and have it discussed on the panel. So kablat fenevo e naka maybe to wrap up I want us to give our last comments because mazwaliziki kamui we usually get a bit carried away. So what would you like to say about the skipping safe thing? Okay. I'd say like everything starts from okay that's my favorite because my mam usually tells me and she's watching. Hi My mam ananyambianga killer time chene una fanya like kikitoka like deep within like yourself like don't let anyone else at ya kwambia like do this because at any case like she's my okay maybe she's he's my best friend sometimes he's right yes but kuna witu zingina neza maybe neza ni mislaid so whatever you do fanya chene hati na kwambia and then follow your instincts because trust me like my instincts are always right like killer time if I feel like this is not right I won't do it if I feel like this is right I'll do it so do what is right avoid what is wrong keep safe know your friends what you're like just know everything about them drop in your anayishi what they do and let me tell you Patkunza your friends you'd find like previously we said that you'd find that people are being taken advantage of by guys who are their friends but what happens kani dema na kuseti she's your friend but anakuza kwambia imutonge kido go apatuneza so approximately one of my best friends is ten bear now kentwa nakini top up go aha it all kama hei on the first 21st century na i tte oro I like you na kwambia mimi manzi na kwambia ni ta tata nyoni un שלet ano on ishi kok Rico Right now, I'm in the other side of the market here. A few days later, you'll know I was fucking everywhere. If you don't like me, don't like me. If I like you, you're welcome. So, when we open the Psychology Council for a few days, I'll be wasting time, given the potential for the related issues. You'll still be the reason for all these details. If you don't like her, keep on wasting it. See, last meeting, where she is begging you to solve anything. Inu na na kajilu weigh-in na kawalian na Penzi Kusababu, God created Adam, Daka created Eve So kila time mandiwa na fahukwe head So atu dem na kosana na chalia kumnansa kuryusha niyam dho mo i-fi kabusa comu na mikikosana kwa chatukama mejam, kwa chanana na ea kul sila mamrudishiya naeni ni maneno Because we are told to respect them we kuhuwe mahenu if you are example we kuhuwe mahenu umkutuwe na word We want you to give us in a nutshell what you think we have land or what you want them to remember about keeping safe For the girls you know your limits and also never compete with a man in some things For example kakuleo Even though you are drinking, if you have a limit, if you have some point to scheme and you want to compete We just relax, we go outside and do something But if you have a point and you have the ability to compete You want to compete So stay safe, there are your limits And also the way we said If you have a location and you want to compete with a man in case of anything happens And you want to compete with a man in case of anything happens So stay safe And also for the boys you know I want to protect women So if you want to compete with a man in case of anything happens Take your time So for the boys out there If you want to compete with a man in case of anything happens Be above you So that you can protect So for the men out there Respect to our queens Let's live happy lives there Happy lives, happy people I think that's quite important We are of different body types None of us have the same body shape What happens? Ya ya kipita na Anapendeza na kumuma So na za kumusum Namema jeans Like she's decent A mejifu ni kata woning ozi No, nothing She's well put together But you know You're going to notice things Na kuna mingine wan jibi Mwenyambe bariki wana habitu zingine Sindio Now Does it give you license to start harassing aunty And touching her because Mwenyambe na pita Well, for a while wana pita nga pita nga Nga zini anu wana shika shika I can't advise for that But for me, let's say Niki wana kitumuzura zini ani Bode tepia kumipita And I like it Bode tepia kumpe Nampe a tu kumplu enwan Be doko smart kumipenda Uzi rigia tiyati yukulega Just say thank you story ishe Niki na sayi kifkeopu entia kuchika shika sa ua chana Ujihaipata place nikienda dunda wa say It's crowded, crowded A little bit me dance dance Kumbeku na ka kafisika me punye me liya na Uko sona jifaya nenda cho Arakuja kame Maaze umeski anga eni Okay, now we are coming back to the call Ume rapapiyetu Ume tupea rapapu ready Me mademtum jerespect Vavilio Kamuna takaku respectiva jerespect Na aslong as you are comfortable in something Kia watu ataku respectable Kamau yukua comfortable Siva ingwenyutenda you are not comfortable me Ketiyu na nzakfanya fanya sujiwa Just be comfortable Kwanza yu opatia instant skete me sama It's very amazing what your body can tell you If you listen to it Leku neza pita mali usketu I na sayiku pita apa But sujiwa inini Be conscious Listen to yourself Fountain of wisdom Napia mademtu ache kutraeku fitting A wrong is a wrong even if everybody is doing it And a right is a right even if you are the only one doing it So takia ni baye vits No, just don't try to fitting Ka, sama fanya kazi je baye vits Bili ata Bili ata uta nua vits Okay, but I like big things Anthony saga ai I don't know how to pronounce it Minko na uyo boy child Ay, ay, ay Baka miss change position Panelist till the end Why in the morning I see you And the next one By the way to get up here is at WhiteFive channel on Twitter Hashtag is why in the morning Or Facebook on Y254 Mimi Nabak uyo yut Wazungusi wa Afrika Afrika we have cultures and respect Kalamivalu natuka kwenye sama Na ushao nekani wana bonako Ama chaliako Nasiati wana umeni wanyama Hawana feelings Nenda wum expose Sam How half of your body Okay We have come to the conclusion That we should leave a lot to the imagination So fungi vizuri Yo ingine wa ima Wa imagine Kamawai 254 Nyabey Collins The only person to trust is you Man will rave with you And marry some lady The respect somewhere Hallelujah Kaeni radda ni 2019 Ni 2019 All right Next Valm's comedian Dressing Whomata Sana I feel that's correct Kus you know Untua kikuna for the first time Anakuna venyomeva Then we have Linda Murugi Valm's comedian Not really Oh not really Doesn't matter What can you say about those who rape little children Some people just have a mental problem Okay we are saying there are people Special like those ones And there are those Tuneza Was idea To jifuniki And now Was seen ini Sindio Jessica Gathogo Hai Val I like the topic Thank you Queen Telefrent telefrent telefrent Kefa Kevin You guy Leave the Kevin's alone Laki ni ma Kevo Wek kwazawe na Broyo Umbra kuja kumni ambiya You guy Leave the Kevin's alone Lengina The society should learn To teach the boy child To respect the girl In this modern day world The way you dress Should never be a reason For you to be a victim Of sexual harassment Okay Nimeambia wa tuko Afrika So when you're in Rome You do as Romans do When you're in Africa You do as Africans do Just you can look nice And be presentable Okay baby This is okay In fact this gives us Creative license Sampa kato tuko e creative Niveli tuna kapua So it's I feel like it's a win-win Yes Whitefifon Facebook At Whitefifon channel On Twitter hashtag Is why in the morning Huw Nimongi ampaka I think wadzimation So kini patatao leo After this Na sinaneno Nime maliza say I'm sorry At color me val On every day And we will see you tomorrow On Reggae Thursday From 7 to 10 thatre I wish you A fantastic day To wave maze Bye