 Alright, Karibu Sana, this is still wine in the morning and good morning to you. My good name is Sakwa and as always you can interact with us on our socials and it includes Facebook and on Twitter at Y244Channel, underscore on the ground. Personally, you can check me out at Brian Soko 101. The hashtag is wine in the morning. This is the last segment of the day, also the last conversation of the day and it's an interesting topic. Today also being a wild population day. It's an interesting day that actually, let me just find some one, two, three statistics on it. It's marked on every 11th of July, which is an urgent event. Main purpose of this day is to bring awareness about the rising cases of global population and the issues and problems that arise with overpopulation. So I definitely, to answer that, I'm going to be telling you which is the most popular country as well. The one has around approximately 8 billion people. Initially, we were around 7.9 something billion, but it seems like as time goes by, the population keeps on gaining, so 8 billion people in the world. But though which is the most popular country in the world? Please tell us. You can tell us but we'll be talking about that and much more. But away from that, we have an interesting question that we had asked you on our social media and be rest assured, keep your feedback coming and be sampling it to us at tail end. Je m'adam nirangi dunyani to do, and also what contributes for families to have more females or more baby girls as compared to the boy child. Is there something that we should do? But you know, having a conversation with someone who's telling me that even in the Bible days, men were given much priority than women, so I don't know. The dominance, I think it should be the other way around. Since men were given more dominance, ladies should be more. What do you think about it? Tell me. But joining us in the studio are two powerful gentlemen who are going to actually take us through this interesting topic on that hashtag, which is why in the morning we have Musita Dennis, who is a student leader at the University of Nairobi as well as Daniel Nyambuki, who is a journalism student as well. Thank you. How are you doing? How are you doing? How are you doing on the threads, the Monda Manu and the concussions, what have you been up to? On the weekends I've been up for two hours, although I'm busy after the week in Indonesia, being there, there was new uptreads. How are you doing on the Monda Manu? Median threads? Obviously. Do you have threads, ladies? They are like, it's not what I was talking about. So you have a first of all no matter what, it's not just that. There are ads, there are ads, definitely. There are ads, you know, and then maybe you are subscribing to a certain team, maybe it's a good cost, but... So I'm still taking statistics, but today... I'm still in trades, and my trade is... It's going to be good, but do your thing. The drink. Yes, I will join. Okay, hopefully you will. So back to the question, This is an interesting conversation. As much as today we are marking World Population Day. But there's a way that, you know, there's so many stories in between. So, Jim Bonhamadem, Mademoni, Wengi, Kushinda, Machali, and then, Kona Adi Samoen, the Bible that says that time will come when seven women will be fighting for only one man because there'll be no man to marry them. So, I'm confused. But let's take to Kenya right here. Do you guys feel like also in Kenya, Kona Mademu, Wengi, Kushinda, Machali? I'm not sure if it's a balance or if it's a conception, or if it's a research. Is it true that Mademoni, Wengi, Kenya, Kushinda, Machali, maybe we can start with you, Dennis. Thank you. According to me, from reliable sources, actually, in Niesasema, Wastina and Wengi, when you consider about the X, Y chromosomes and the X, F chromosomes, the men have X, Y, which means they have the male and the female chromosomes. But the ladies have the X, X chromosomes, which means the Wastina can be illuminated. So, if you think about giving birth to a woman in Kenya, she's not a career, sorry. What I want to highlight is giving birth to a lady. She's a woman from Wengi, not just in Kenya, but also worldwide. Yeah, Wastina and Wengi. Okay, thanks. What about you, Daniel? Do you feel like Mademoni Wengi, Kenya, Kushinda, Machali, experience your own opinion on the Ghana? Okay, as for me, I think Mademoni Wengi is also from Machali. I think that's true. But... I don't know if it's true or not. Is it? Do you think Mademoni Wengi is also from Daru? Yeah, actually. Do you think Mademoni Wengi is also from Daru? I think last year, Mademoni Wengi was from Daru. And I think at a camp out in Kitembe, I see Mademoni Wengi as a boy. At Wukwinju Kitembe, I think, yeah. But what I can say, I think that if a boy is exposed to COVID-19, it's a dangerous thing. Leading to death rate. So maybe I think that's one factor which makes it the graph to be like that. And back to you, Dennis. Do you feel like maybe to traffic at a place where as a man, it's a big plan? Because of hard stories, even medical ways, there's a way you can plan to... For example, if it's your first pregnancy or you're in a marriage and you're not having time to eat, and you intentionally are looking for a boy. So there's a way that a man can prepare for that. I don't know if it's mentally, psychologically, but it also includes sexually as well, even medically. So maybe in African tradition society, there are some two, three stories around it and philosophies. And then there's also funny, there's that communities that believe the first born child has to be a boy. So what are some of the stories you guys have heard? So today, actually, first of all, leave all those outdated myth and conceptions about who should be the first born or who should be... You know, I'm a lawyer. And in your community, you can either... Actually, it's not like you're a man. You're a woman, you're a woman, you're a woman. It's all over. I may say this, there's this what we call the mental health of a person. We have what you call masturbation. I can say it, they call it kunyonga. So it affects especially boys, especially if you're in a story in a long-distance relationship. The kind of foods they are taking, and sometimes the kind of cloth one avalia. When you do this, for example, come up to me, for example, ume valia, as long as it's tight in sauna, especially when you want to sleep, actually, when you're free, your body should relax. No, I don't mean it's really not going. But at least, when it comes to the foods we are taking, when you're in a relationship, and the food you're drinking is taking very hot steps, it doesn't affect you at all. Right. And to be honest, out of sight, you'll be uncomfortable. Right. Yeah, you watch. I'm comfortable out there. You know, I'm really building up to the examples. Okay. You'll never be able to contribute because you're about to eat them. So, let me go this. Actually, let me now be straightforward. For example, when you're eating, what you're watching today, especially when there are platforms that are all over social media, you'll be able to get to at least a feel like you're releasing. Yeah. Exactly. We're going to adapt to websites. Yeah. These websites, for example, Right. Actually, this will lead to erectile dysfunction. Yeah. Like lead to erectile dysfunction, and maybe, it's said, Right. And he has to join the cause again when I say that. But when I'm at it, like, if you're going for sexual activity with your wife, actually, like someone who prepped for it. Yeah. Be prepared for it. So, when you're watching this, it'll affect. Okay. And maybe, we'll end up with one minute to memorize your work. No. You'll be able to do that. And then, okay. You'll be able to talk to the people who expect. So, it'll affect, especially when you're with a boy, right? Right. It affects and especially their system. Okay. And it'll affect the children who are pregnant. Right. And it'll affect the children who are pregnant. Right. So, I think I've heard, your story sounds familiar to what Pasta T said. I'm a big fan. He's a good friend as well. There's a point I want to see what you're saying that, you know, when you're used to that, you just don't know the energies you're releasing. Maybe, the energy you're releasing is the last energy you get released in your lifetime. That's true. But now you released it like 15 years ago. And now here you are. Maranza Kombe or Toto Kanissani, but it's not coming through. But, you know, interesting, interesting. What are the crazy ones you've heard around that as well? As for me, I'm not sure if it's because I'm pregnant. I'm not sure if it's because I'm pregnant or if it's because I've escaped from Toto. Inaribu or Toto. So, but, I think I've never proved it, but I have heard, like during young age, you should not be taking hard stuff. Yeah. Yeah. That one is one which is leading to being important. Okay. The second one is those people who ride bicycles or cyclists. Yeah. Yeah, it is somehow dangerous to... I didn't do that. I'm a bicyclist. Okay, bicyclist, I can say bicyclist. Yeah. Because when you're bicyclist, I'm not a cyclist. Yeah. But, bicyclist, he's not a peddler. So, we can interrupt. Okay, sure, sure, sure. Yeah. So, when you're bicyclist, you're not going to be able to do it. Okay. See, I'm not going to do it. No. Okay. You can start... I know you're going to be able to do it. You can do it by yourself, your muscles, and... It is good. And you can do it by yourself, even if you're going to be able to do it. I'm going to do it myself. Okay. You can do it by yourself, if you're going to be able to do it. Mm-hm. But they are comfortable. No, they are other which are comfortable. But I'm not going to be able to do it. And why should you sit on a seat that is not comfortable? Because, for example, when you're a black man, you're a Brazilian. Mm-hm. You can do it by yourself, by using plastic and anything. Mm-hm. I'm not going to be able to do it myself. I'm going to do it myself, and then I'm going to do it myself. So, I'm going to be comfortable. Yeah. But I'm going to do it myself, because I'm going to be able to do it when I'm a black man. Oh, that's scary. Mm-hm. I'm going to be comfortable. And I'm going to rest. Yeah. Mm-hm. I'm going to rest and I'm going to do it myself. So, I'm going to rest, like, in a persistent way. Yeah. In an effective way. Actually, the general sexuality of a man. Yeah. Because there's so many things in that. What about history? Like, if you drink alcohol a lot, you know, you're likely to be important. It also affects your productivity as a man. Yeah. Because I believe you're talking about the sex, health factors that lead to, like, probability of you getting a male kid or a female kid. What about kunyopombesana? But I know people drink a lot and still, in fact, the family is balanced. Equal to self. I think there's no debate about that. Uh-huh. Okay, okay. Nika mani mazreya, let us say, let us be realistic. Actually, I would like to speak with the realism. And maybe many of us may think it's a fuzz. Mm-hm. But sometimes I'm even left in quagmire and I try to understand, like, if I know this thing when I take it, actually to leave myself in a quandary, maybe to my health status. Mm-hm. Alcohol as a man. Not even as a man, even as a woman when you take alcohol. Yeah. So it affects your will. Mm-hm. It will affect your hormones. Mm-hm. And even if it's in a continuous use, actually for male, let's talk about male, we can't do anything to do with it, for example, I'm just kunyopombesai. Mm-hm. We don't, at least, we're not married, we can't do anything to save our life. We're not married. No. We can't do anything to save our life. So it affects your will. Mm-hm. right. Let me say she's okay. When I say okay, I just better have covered everything like mentally, physically, and physically. And this last one, especially when I celebrate, I get an example. Because actually it's very true. Like you realize that they say the population, the ratio between male and female. Okay, I can say in recent research this it said that we can contradict ourselves. Okay. In recent research of the United Nations in 2019 to 2021, it said that for every 1.05 male born, there is a hundred females. So in Afanya, male one is female. For the time being, I can also say that one of them is female. The reason being that one of them is male, one of them is female, and one of them is more than three. Yeah. But one of them is female, and one of them is more than three. Yeah. I'm sorry to say this without fear of contradiction. Look at the other religion, the Muslim. One of them is more than four wives. So you see this as a man. For example, if I'm... Is it more than three or more than four? Or even more? Okay, let us say they are polygamists. Yeah, they're polygamists. Yeah. So if today I'm going to stay out, not today, this man, because I want a boy child. Right. But sometimes in effect, we can say whether in effect peer. Sometimes... So you're sure to spend your time with a fast wife and all the X and Y chromosomes they can. We also talk about the population policies. Maybe for example, for example, she's my wife, but there are some certain things that she's not telling me. So for these policies, I'm not for family planning. So I think I'm not just trying to get my work done. Now Jewy. Now Jewy. Only to realize later that all you can be alpha is... All in the family planning. And all the chromosomes And they are these three, but they are not going to go there. They are not going to go there. Sometimes they are going to go back in time. Sometimes they are not going to go there. Maybe it's a God. I just said I'm going to go there. I'm going to go there. Like it's biology. You know, in science they say it's biology. But Christians say it's God. I'm a holy spirit. So we can say, for example, there are no invalidations in the church. Aha. There are no invalidations, meaning? Maybe, for example, in the church, there are no invalidations. There are no invalidations. Aha. Like the church, the church. So, the church is open. There are no invalidations. Yes. There are no invalidations. Aha. Now, let's try to understand. So, maybe for leisure and exposure. Aha. Yes. So, like, come on in with an experience. There are two, like, okay, I want to advise our mothers. Our mothers, for example, they fear that their children will fall into a ball before they age. Like, mostly high school kids. Especially in the rural areas. Yes. There are some who say, if you have a family planning, at the risk of pregnancy, it's very low. Yes. It's very low. It's dealt with. But if family planning, okay, take, we don't have children in Cuba. Yes. So, the moment we are going to introduce you, see Maramorja, Marambili, Maratatu, you are risking her chance to have children. Yes. So, it's like, most of the time, if you have children, that one kind of affects them very much. Like, it might lead them to be infertile. Infertile, infertility. Yes. And also, there are some who say, like, they say, they like to have children who are fast born. And then, there are some who say, with these wives, women are like that act of having children. Yes. The first round, there is a problem. The second round, there is a problem. And some say, they might consult any physician, any doctor, to deal with the problem. So, there are some who say, they try, they try, they try, they try. They end up having children. And then, they start thinking about having children. So, they have to consult, like, they try, they try. Maybe, sometimes, some are from the same family who have children. And they need to go and consult a doctor who says, like, this is the issue here and here. And then also, there are early pregnancies. But, mostly, people are from the village, but at the same village, this is Kenyawid. There are some people who are in the campus, who are at the ball, and then, they go and like, to have a holiday. And then, I was like, it will be big, or so. Some people decided to abort the, the pregnancy. So, in that process, they abort the pregnancy. So, in that process, they abort the pregnancy. Which is, maybe, they want to take the baby out. Right. So, like, the moment you get pregnant, and they want to take the baby out, it will be big. It will be huge. When it is huge, they decide, as a child, and try to get the baby out. And so, when they are born, they say, you need to get the baby out. And also, I think we take drugs mostly, in effecting their chances of having a child. So, I think they should consider that also so that to save the population. Right. And then she said that one of my uncle, C.A.T. how are you? There's this excerpt that says by Corey, it says the human sex ratio changes across a person's life and about 106 boys are born for every 100 girls. 106 in total, which is a big number to the ratio of girls. But by the age of 70, there's about 70 men for every 100 women, towards age in Africa 70. So there's also a significant difference in sex ratio in different countries and this is actually what brings the disparity. There's a kind of like 10 men for every seven girls. But by the time life's running and the later, like my boy child, what are the two of them mysteriously through either just life-happening diseases. And also, we are looking at also health risk factors like, you know, women are more conscious in terms of their health, in terms of their welfare, security as well. Like for us men, we are more prone to dangers. As in, women and women are in the trailer when their jobs become good. But them and their children. So such factors actually lead to, you know, actually mortality rate in terms of like health, life lost and what not. But then, I'm also looking at from a spiritual perspective, you know, I've heard so many stories and so many philosophies that, oh, we are legeribu, we change. Adia can change, adi bibi. I can change the familial, I can divorce bibi. In the name of looking for a male child. Are there like maybe now real spiritual issues? Or are there spiritual factors that come in? They say, hey, I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. You know, in family, especially in African culture, if you have a story, you say, oh, I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. There's always something, an African story regarding, oh, you know, some dark past. Maybe. I don't believe in Akiakwaes. I can say that sometimes, this especially affects those who are very loyal and very faithful by the way. My brother said that But have you tried outside? I can talk about experience maybe from where I come from. This man, he came to my house. He told me, I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. And then this man just decided, no, I'm not going to divorce bibi. Intentionally, I'm not by mistake. This is intentional. You want someone who is going to hear it. Vent it by accident. It's not accident. It's not a coincidence. I'm not negligent. So you can say, I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. The village wants you. For you to be recognized as a village, where we come from, let me say about community. Where I come from in my community, in the Luiya community, you have to be recognized as a community. Who is going to inherit after you pass on? And for that reason, I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. I'm not going to divorce bibi. But I'm not going to divorce bibi. I don't like to encourage men, especially in the women, who will be like, they should now go outside in the house. They should seek the wife to be loyal. There are many women. But if you're a traditionalist, you can go that route. If you're a traditionalist, maybe you can try, but I don't encourage. So today when you walk along the streets, most street children, most of them, according to me, according to me. So in the end, I don't think I'm going to be able to go out and stay at home. Not unless maybe I'm going to be in a village and I'm going to go out and stay at home. I'm going to go out and stay at home, fall in love and go to the streets. So in that sense, I'm not going to go out and stay at home. So I'm not going to be able to go out and stay at home. I'm not going to be able to go out and stay at home. Sometimes you can tell your friends about your social life. Then another person will talk to you, and you'll be surprised. So by that, you'll be desperate and say, oh no, I'm going to go out and stay at home. Sometimes you'll feel relaxed. Sometimes you'll feel like you're going to be drugged. Sometimes you'll feel like you're going to be treated like a sweet guy. So according to me, there's a story about cheating. Cheating? In a relationship or in a marriage? In a marriage, like trying to go outside the house, I'm not going to be able to go out and stay at home. But to advise also of others, the moment when you go outside the house, you're not going to be able to go out and stay at home. Like it's a family breaker. But in a relationship, you will just discuss with your wife. Even if you don't know, I'm not going to be able to go out and stay at home. This may be the fourth round or the fifth round. I'm not going to be able to go out and stay at home. So maybe I go cheating. I'm not going to be able to go out and stay with my wife. Can we try something else? Like, can we hire? Some people don't hire like they carry on. It's called a surrogate. Yes, a surrogate. Can we hire a surrogate mother? So that maybe, if you want to go out and stay at home. So maybe this lady, and she'll let you go out and then you'll be okay with it, like, but you'll be treating the boy as your own. But I feel like that example applies to like, now advanced versions of like, now we are intentionally looking for a male kid. For those that have money and awareness. But traditionally from what you said, our personal hard stories here, like your family sits with you as a man and advices you that at this point it would be to source them. So, maybe I don't know if you guys watched these Afrosinema movies. This king, this prince, or like, I think it's still happening in Swansiland. We're like they intentionally, until, until my battle of thought is like, you know, why is this thing recognized a lot in Africa and not like developed countries like U.S., China, U.K. The funny fact is where I come from in Kisi, Kuwaitu, our first born Nidem. Our neighbors on the right side, the first born Nidem. On the left side Nidem. So like, I think it's just to get civilized. Do you remember at ECG or Kijana or maybe first born Nidem. It should go like, like let's be civilized. Do you know how people in Kijana and in Kuwaitu there are other ways to sort it out. In Kuwaitu. You see at EO, the first born Nidem, we must have a, there are some people who know Nidem. They know Kijana, they know Shidah. And they're good, they're happy content, and they're thanking God. They know Nidem, but they don't know what content is. So it's more like, it comes from a personal content, a personal place of self-belief, and they say, there's even witchcraft stories that come in, you know. But as a matter of fact, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. I think this is now the African, our parents, especially my grandfather, would definitely agree with you, maybe girls you have, the more wealth you have. But then also, the more girls you have, the more unsafe you are in a home setting. Especially now from the Louis and the Louis side, you're like, hey, that home is not safe, because it's not safe. The mothers, the Apostles and the Oralea were in a place, the mothers should raise their kids in a standard way, like, okay, some of the mothers should go home, most of the children are at home, mostly at the campus, most of the parents are forced, they are used, Sunday is church, Saturday is church, they go home, they say hello, they say hello, like, most of the time, when you're at home, you're free, but when you're at home, you're at the same place, but when you're at the campus, you're in a different style. So what I can advise me, like, our mothers, we are in a digital world right now, let's expose them. My mother exposed me to classical music, so, like, I know what a phone can do and what a phone cannot do. And like, if I say, if I listen to music, if I listen to music, if I listen to music, if I listen to music, my mother will listen to it at early life, and I'll cancel about them. They'll take a role, they'll bring up their ladies to avoid these future problems. Okay. Maybe I should ask, how does this affect if you're exposed to a phone? Maybe sometimes, we live to learn new things. Yeah. Maybe today, I'll say, for example, we tend to have access to food, we try, we try, we try, and then you just realize that when you see, you have data bundles, you have Wi-Fi, you tend to wonder how it affects you. And maybe to say, for example, social media, it affects you. So I really don't know how that affects you. Maybe what I can say, Brian, according to me, and maybe we should just accept this, that sometimes population is not just affected by the male and female, the male and female. Population is affected by the population policies, migration, urbanization, the population characteristics. We can talk of the gender, I mean, sorry, the age. We can also talk about the socio-economic factors, for example, when we focus on the people and on living. Even climate change. So perhaps I can say that it also gives an impact to our population. Let us think about outside the books. All right. We are out of time. We actually have a minute. There's somebody here on Twitter who says, let me get it right. Let me get it right. Almost escaping. Right. And I say, man should just embrace polygamy. Do you feel like polygamy can solve the ratio of male to female? Absolutely 100%. But me, I sharply contrast. Because there is no credibility in that when you embrace polygamy, like, you can have three wives, but all of them give you female children rather than men. That's perhaps the problem. That's why I say we should not say that it will solve 100%. But it may solve, but it's not a promise. But anyways, we are out of time. We can't continue any further. I definitely will hold it at that. But you had mentioned one of the traditional ways is that as a man, maybe there's food stuff you need to eat, food stuff you need to avoid. Not scientifically now. If you are intentionally looking for a male kid. But I wonder how many men would subscribe to that meal plan and diet. You're intentionally eating some certain food stuff. No pate to your kiyoma. I think it's a difficult plan for men out here. So it shows people to wakubali. Do we have more women in the Bible than male? I don't know. But you know the story of God being a man and not being a woman. God is a woman. And he contains both X and Y chromosomes. So definitely we will put it at that. We can't continue any further. Thank you. And for coming to social media. On Twitter you can get me at danwis.com on Facebook you can get me at danwis.com on Facebook you can get me at danwis.com Instagram the same. Threads the same. Threads are the same. So in some cases we will be sharing threads humble as well. Thank you for watching I'm still in the morning. See you tomorrow for health and entrepreneurship Tuesday. Have a fantastic Monday.