 How can you change who you are? Okay, so you may be thinking, well, I don't want to change who I am. I like who I am. I'm a good person. I don't want to change. Nothing could be further from the truth. Everybody needs to change. And in this video, I'll give you the steps of what you need to change, why you need to change and how it's going to help you live a better life. Hey, I'm JR Fisher. Thank you for joining me on my channel. I really appreciate it. If you haven't subscribed yet, do me a favor, hit that subscribe button. I'll move my arm so you can get to it. Right down there. See it? Subscribe button. Do it right now. It'll change colors. Watch it. It's magic. It'll go from red to gray real quick. Ah, and then a bell popped up over here, right? And it looks like this. This bell. Make sure you ring the bell. Turn on all notifications. If you do that, you'll become part of the Fisher family, the BIP group that gets notified every single time I do one of these videos or goes live. And you can talk to me online. That's pretty cool stuff. I also have put one of my courses below. It's a $97 course. You can get it absolutely free by just clicking the link and learning. Click it, learn simple stuff. Hey, in this video, let's talk about change. Now, some of you may say, Oh, I don't want to change. That's bad. And I don't want people to say, Oh my gosh, you've really changed. You're not the same person. You should change. Nobody should remain the same person their entire life. You should grow. You should become better. You should become smarter. You should achieve more. You should do more. A human is meant to change. That's what they're meant to do. And you know, if you have a friend from the past and they say, Oh my God, you've really changed. And they mean it in a negative way. Like, you know, maybe you're sleeping in the gutter now and maybe you have no money. That's bad. Okay, that's a bad kind of change. But if they mean, you know, you don't hang out at the bar anymore and, you know, you don't get in trouble. And, you know, you don't do all these bad things we used to do. Well, that's a good thing. You've changed for the better. And we should all mature in a certain way. I have conversations at home. My wife and I, you know, and in the time we've been together, which has been 10 years, we've both changed. We're different people than we were then. Hopefully we're better people, but we've changed. You don't want to remain the same. So let's check out these steps and things you can do because you are meant to change and these things will help you. Number one, see yourself outside yourself. What I mean by that is step back and look at yourself and say, you know what? This human being here, you know, what could I do different with this human being? What is their physical appearance? Do I need to work on their physical appearance? They need to lose weight. Do they need to gain weight? Do they need to get healthier? What do they need to do with their physical appearance? They're intellect. You know, what do they know? What's their potential? What could they learn? What could we change about that? What about helping society and helping other people and giving back? What could we get this human to do to help other people and then actually work on those changes? But you got to see yourself from the outside first. Number two, find the habit that's associated with the thing that you want to change. So maybe you are overweight and you say, well, I'm gonna focus on doing setups, okay? And you keep doing setups and you keep doing setups and you do setups for six months and you get zero results. That was not the habit you needed to change. What you need to change was the lunch buffet and the dinner buffet that you were going to every day because you could do all the setups in the world you want, but that wasn't the main issue. That's just gonna tighten up the muscles, but the habit you needed to work on was the change of diet. That was the thing that you needed to do. Now my wife and I are working on learning Spanish and just to go out and talk to Spanish people, it's hard to do, right? It's hard to do that, right? And understand what's going on or to watch Spanish TV. So we set aside some time each night. We have a little app. We go through a few words. We learn a few words and we build on that every day and that's a habit. That's a habit we do every day so we can get better at that thing. So what you want to do is concentrate on the habit, not the thing. Number three, do it consistently, okay? I just mentioned that we work on the Spanish thing and we try to do it every day. Now we may miss one or two days a week, but for the most part we do it every day. Sometimes we'll look at each other and go, ah, Spanish, oh my God. All right, let's just get started. Let's get it done. And we just do it, okay? Because you're not gonna feel like doing this stuff most of the time. When we exercise, when I exercise, when you exercise, you're not gonna feel like doing it most of the time. Most people that are in great shape will tell you that 99% of the time they don't even feel like doing it. So if you're waiting to feel like doing that habit of learning a language or losing weight or exercising, you're just, you've already defeated because you're never gonna want to do it. You have to just practice every day no matter what. No matter what occurs, that's your number one thing because you're gonna achieve that goal. And number four, these set goals, okay? Too many people don't set goals and I hear people say set realistic goals. I don't know what a realistic goal is. I really don't. I know what goals are and I know a goal is something that can be monetized or it can be quantitatively looked at or it can be counted but it has to be specific, okay? The goal has to be specific and it also has to have a time deadline on it. If it doesn't have a time deadline on it, then of course you're not gonna achieve it. So you have to have all these things and you have to have that goal and you gotta look at that goal every day. That goal is not so you remember what you said for your goal. The goal is there to remind you what you said you were gonna do. Number five, consistently look in the mirror. Now, I could mean a physical mirror if you're losing weight or I could mean a mental mirror if you're supposed to do something else or learn something else or gain something else. But the point is you have to consistently check. Where am I at? Am I getting anywhere? Am I making any progress? Now, I wouldn't say if you're trying to lose weight, you should weigh every single day for a week and if you don't lose anything, you should quit. That's not what I mean. But what I do mean is if you're trying to lose weight and after a month, it's still the same weight, you need to readjust because if you don't make these small adjustments like the example I gave of the sit-ups losing weight when the problem was how much food you were eating, you gotta figure out what it is that's gonna work to help you get to your goal. And if you don't check your goal and you don't check where you're at, it's really hard to determine if you're gonna get to that goal because it probably won't happen if you don't check the components of that goal. What are the habits that you're doing to get to that goal? If I wanted to learn Spanish and I listened to a Spanish TV show every evening for 30 minutes, I probably would not get good at speaking Spanish because I still don't know what they're saying. But if I get a Spanish app and I look at the words on there and I look at English and I look at Spanish, then I start to learn it. So the habit, even though I spend 30 minutes watching a show and say 30 minutes with an app, the app's gonna do me a whole lot better, good than watching that TV show. So you have to consistently look in the mirror. Number six, surround yourself with people that tell you the truth, okay? You don't want a bunch of yes people. You don't want people saying, oh man, you look great, you're awesome, you're wonderful, you're this. That kind of person is not gonna help you. Now I'm not saying surround yourself with negative people. I'm saying surround yourself with honest people, honest, good, quality people who will tell you, are you getting there? Are you achieving what you wanna achieve? Having friends like that are priceless. I've had some friends, my guys that was thinking back, I have a friend from high school and I talked to him on a regular basis and I've known him since I was about 14 or 15 and we're both pretty honest with each other. You know, yesterday we were talking about family issues and I was asking him about some of his and why he's got these issues and I'm gonna be honest with him and he doesn't mind because he knows me and I know him and we can do that. If you can find people like that, gosh, it is really priceless guys. Number seven, you have to take risk. You've gotta take risk, okay? Understand that nothing is certain. Even certain things aren't certain. If you say, well, I know my car is outside, I'm gonna go get in it, it can be stolen in the next minute, okay? Matter of fact, that's actually happened at our house. But the point is, nothing is for certain. You've gotta take these risks. When I started selling online and to give you a short story, I didn't know what to do so I started selling cell phone cases and I reasoned that everybody had a cell phone and I could sell a ton of cell phone cases because a lot of them were sold on eBay so I started selling them on eBay and I would buy 100 cell phone cases and then I would try to sell them and I would sell three or four of them and then people would change their phones. And I wasn't making really any money, maybe 30 or 50 cents, sometimes a dollar on a cell phone case. And then the rest of the cell phone cases that I didn't sell, I would just set them aside because nobody was buying them anymore because phones had changed. I would buy more cell phone cases and after a while I ended up with a lot of cell phone cases that were totally useless. And that was a risk and that was a loss. And I could say, well, you know, you failed at that. You didn't do very well. You don't know how to sell stuff online. Selling online doesn't make you any money. Now, fast forward to today and I have courses. I have survival food. I do coaching. I have all kinds of different, I have this YouTube channel that you're watching right now. And it's all because I took more risk. I said, well, that didn't work, okay. Let me try some more products and some more products and some more things and do some more things. And that's what you're gonna have to do. These risks that you're gonna take are gonna get you there. And the reason they're gonna get you there is because most people face with a risk, face with a failure, face with something that's not gonna work. It's gonna make them stop. And that's what they're designed to do, okay. Problems are designed to stop failures, okay. You can't fail technically. If you try something and it doesn't work, you can always go to the next. So you didn't fail. But you can become a failure. And the way you become a failure is you quit. Those are the only failures in life or quitters, that's it. If you don't quit and you're still trying, you know, it doesn't matter if it takes you a year, 10 years, 20 years, as long as you're still trying, you're a winner because you keep doing things. So that's what I'm gonna recommend you do. Now I kept doing things and then my cell phone case has evolved into some camping gear. And that evolved into selling somebody's survival food. That wasn't very good, I will tell you. And that involved me getting my own brand of survival food, which I started selling on other people's websites. And that involved into me teaching a course on how to make money online. And that evolved into a Facebook ads course. And that involved, you know, two or three other courses. And then I got involved in doing coaching and other things. And did I have failures along the way? Oh my gosh, yes, oh my gosh, yes. A lot of things that didn't work out. A lot of things that I didn't make money on. A lot of things I wasted time on. And that's the fear of failures. Failures are afraid they'll waste their time doing something and get nothing out of it. And I'm here to tell you, it will happen. It will happen, but if you keep doing these things over and over again, if you keep trying new things, you keep improving, you keep increasing your knowledge level, you're gonna stumble on some things that do work. Everybody wants to say, you know, well, tell me the five things I need to do to be successful. There aren't five, you know, there's probably 5,000 or 5 million, I don't know. But the point is if you just keep trying things, you'll stumble on the ones that do work. You will do this. It's really getting in your head that you can't fail as long as you don't quit. You just keep going at it. Now, if you wanna keep going at it and be successful, check out somebody who's already done it and I'm gonna give you a course on what I've done and it's below there. It's a $97 course. 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