 What's going on you guys? Welcome to the Single Guy Channel. My name's Lloyd. So today we have a question from a viewer. He writes, hey man, big fan of your channel. I had a question. I know you talk a lot about confidence and how important it is for attracting a high quality woman. I was wondering if there was a way for me to know how confident I am with other women, oh sorry, how confident I am in comparison to other guys. I feel like I am a pretty confident person in certain areas, but not in others. How do I figure this out? Thanks again. Love your channel and look forward to hearing your answer. Okay, cool. Well, this is actually a pretty good question because yeah, this is something I work on a lot with guys and you'd be surprised. Most guys, I'd say, are not confident. We live in a society today where a lot of the messages that men receive, a lot of the education they get in terms of school and how they grow up, it's really making them less and less confident. I'd say the men today are less confident in themselves as their fathers and grandfathers were in the past. And so the way that you kind of know if you're a confident person or not, I mean I can tell just by looking at somebody really quickly if they're confident. Even by talking with them on the phone for about 15 seconds I can tell if they're a confident person. Sometimes even the first second I can tell just by their tonality and everything. But really it's a question that you have to ask yourself because like this guy says, you know, there's certain times where he feels confident, certain times where he feels not confident. I'd say that's probably around pretty average for most guys. And typically a guy like that, I would say your baseline of confidence is not that high. The reason why I say this is because even in a given situation where I don't know what to do or I feel unprepared, I can still feel confident that I'll put my best effort forward. So there's still a base level of confidence that I have pretty much everywhere. And it didn't happen overnight. Like I didn't develop this just out of nowhere. Like I remember being very unconfident for most of my life and a lot of things. And sometimes a little bit of, you know, of doubt in yourself is good that causes you to improve. And that's a big motivator for me why I chose to improve in the future. But it's not a very good indicator of actually being successful in business and professional life or maybe in a sport or whatever it is you're trying to do. You should have a lot of confidence in yourself to be able to learn things and go after things. And that's why in fact women rate it as the most attractive quality a man can have. Because it indicates your ability to be a good father, to be a good provider, to be, you know, good in the bedroom, to all of that stuff. Confidence is hugely attractive for all of those reasons. And the guys who are sometimes the most successful in terms of society, they got the most money, they got, you know, they're famous, whatever it is, or they're super good looking, you know, these guys are sometimes hugely unconfident. They have very big insecurities. Okay. So what I've done is I've actually created a test. So if you guys want to know how confident you are, I gave kind of a rough test for you guys to click on. It's in the description box below. So just click on it, fill out all the questions. There's only like five. And it'll kind of give you a brief estimate or an indicator about how confident you are. Obviously, it's rough. So don't don't rate your life completely by it. But if you score very low, or even if you score in the mid tier, I would recommend trying to do some things to maybe help out with that because, you know, you owe it to yourself to be a confident person. You know, I know if you're watching this video, you're trying to improve. And so if that's the case, I would, you know, encourage you to do the things that you can do to try and make yourself the most confident person you can be walking through life, feeling unconfident and not feeling good about yourself. Fricking sucks, man. And so to help out with you guys, you know, I'm doing more, I'm doing more events to try and be able to help you guys out. For instance, this Saturday, we're going to be doing a seminar on how to be more confident. Really, it's how to be a how to have a high value mind because if you're sometimes people can be too confident and then they go into the arrogant realm. And that's actually not a very attractive thing as well, too. It's being arrogant, not attract women don't like that. So having the high value mind is actually really where you want to go. You want to be confident, but you also want to be intelligent as well, too. Okay. So one exercise that I can give you guys as well, too, is if you are, if you feel like you need help with your confidence or if you, you're wondering where you stand, it really comes down to the questions that you ask. So when you're talking to a girl, what kinds of questions are you asking yourself? Are you asking, Hey, what should I do next? I don't know what to do. Or does this girl like me? Or am I looking weird or stupid? Those kinds of questions indicate that you don't have a high level of confidence in your ability to interact with a woman. And it comes across no matter how much you try and work on things. I've noticed that if a guy just has a low level of confidence, it's really difficult for me to be able to mask that. So, one of the things that you should really try and do is make sure you bring that confidence up. And the way that you start is first of all, no kind of where you are at and where you want to get to. And if that's the case, then you can ask for help, but just go out and start achieving things and doing the things in your life and do small activities. I think small wins are great to start building that up. I'm going to be talking more and more about confidence later on. In the next video, I'll be talking about how to create long lasting confidence. I've spoken about that before in the past, but I'll be more specific in this next video. So yeah, guys, if you want to have more information about this, I would recommend that you fill out the questionnaire and see how confident you are. And attend the seminar this Saturday. It's totally free. It's for you guys. So if you want to sign up for that, there's a link for that in the description box below as well too. Thanks for watching you guys. If you made it and consider subscribing, I come out with videos like this every single week. Good luck out there, you guys.