 Hello everyone, welcome to another Knox Fiver live video just out here at the park tonight so today I'm going to be talking about how narcissists are fearful they may seem tough they may seem intimidating but they are actually more afraid of you than you are of them and you can recognize this in their behaviors everything they do is out of fear because they feel like they're losing control they feel insecure which is why they desire to have control to have the upper hand to have an advantage because they're experiencing a lack of security and stability which they are unable to provide for themselves and that is why they are fearful because they're deficient in strength and vitality which normal people are able to provide for themselves but the narcissist is unable to do that they're unable to survive on their own without using a manipulating people and that's why they need you to be their source of supply yeah they may act tough but the reason why they act that way is actually because they're very afraid of you they feel your power and that is why they have to gain control of you at all costs they cannot let you slip away they have to contain you they have to secure you as their source of supply because that provides them with a sense of control a sense of security and stability which is what they desire because they feel out of control they feel unstable emotionally perhaps in other aspects of their life as well so that's what they need you for to bring some stability to their lives because they can't do that on their own that's why they need you and often this will be emotional stability but it will also be financial stability as well because narcissists are very reckless with money when they came to you they probably had nothing in the banks that they saved up they're very reckless they don't think about the future it's all about the here and now they're very impulsive so they have difficulty controlling their finances but they also have difficulty controlling their emotions and that's why they need you it's not because they care about you it's not because they love you it's because of that stability that you're able to provide to them that's what they need you for and it's kind of sad when you think about it because when you realize this you realize just how empty they really are I mean they really have nothing to give to you they really have nothing to bring to anyone they just go around using and abusing people until those people have nothing left to give and when you've got nothing left to give they discard you and they do the same thing all over again they move on to someone else while knowing that they have nothing of value to bring to anyone they have no value and that is why no matter how much of your time energy and money you invest it into them you never got anything of value back in return but if you invest your time energy and money into the right things things that are valuable trust and believe that you will see a return on your investment but narcissists are empty black holes anything you put into them you lose and you will never see it again because they have no value and that is just another reason why they're so fearful I'm sure we can both imagine that if we had no value we'd probably be very afraid as well because people don't want to be around someone who has no value someone who only wants to take someone who can't make anything happen on their own someone who has nothing to reciprocate to give back to you people don't want to be around someone like that you might not mind helping someone out occasionally helping them to get back on their feet but you don't want to be you don't want to be doing that for the rest of your life that would make you an enabler and in fact that is actually a form of abuse because you're disabling someone who should be able to do things for themselves yeah that's just another reason why they're so fearful because they already know they can't make things happen on their own that's why they have to target a source of supply that's why they need people around them at all times people and people who support and validate the illusions of their false self yeah it's true narcissists are very afraid the Rangers stopped so thought I'd come out for a little walk at the park here it's a very beautiful place especially at night I'm gonna get I'm gonna head back now and get some sleep and then wake up in the morning ready to start a new video for the channel more videos are on the way so do click that subscribe button down below so you can receive the notifications for my future videos and as always please give this video a thumbs up it helps to support the community share this video if you'd like to book a one-on-one with me you can do that from my website it's narksviver.co.uk and check out my Instagram as well I'm posting videos and pictures of my travels every day on there and also some short videos on narcissistic abuse and quotes as well so check out my 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