 You've been on your dating apps. You get success. You're banging women a lot of 49ers Lot of guys will tell you that they're banging a lot of women, but I don't mess with fat women though I'm like 60% of the world of the United States is fat women Like your number statistically probably included some of them just to guess Because the you ain't banging the hot ones. They already married half of them are married half of them are bipolar All right, 25% of women are on headmats. Did I talk about that in my iceberg theory? Okay So you only got like 25% of the good ones right the skinny ones or whatever it is Got it. Okay, but you get tired of that. You're like, I can't take another big single mom. I Wasted a lot of time What do I do? Well, there's a whole bunch of life out here to live. There's a whole bunch of value to build There's a whole bunch of authority. There's a whole bunch of you can learn about men I was a guy that I was like the church ain't nothing out here My mom used to tell me to go to church all I saw was a lot of rejects in there And them trying to pair them up with good men in the church. I was like, damn They go on the singles retreat they take all the single moms then they bring all the good men in there trying to do Right by the Lord And then guess what all y'all pair up y'all be good All right, I saw that too much. I was like, I'm done with church Only to figure out that what was missing Was a good church. Okay. I was like, damn We actually that's what we needed. All right now you can take the spirituality out of it. Okay Take the religion out of it if you want But where a lot of this indoctrination that has also come not only from the public school indoctrination camp but from church They're leading men right into the wolves, right? So you get tired of it What else can I do with this life a lot? Men there is a lot to do all by yourself People watching you do it. All right, that's the benefits about social media. I'm gonna do your game I'm gonna make you watch me live this life and what are women gonna do they gonna watch you and say damn I want to do that too Now all it takes because we're talking about low quality when all it takes is two or three women to see some value in you But unfortunately men want validation from a hundred percent of the women out here Every time you walk by a woman. Oh, she didn't even look at me. Your self-esteem goes down. Oh She didn't even give me choosing signals. Your self-esteem goes down Because all your value is in what she thinks about you and I'm telling you that is not a good strategy For your life. Okay the third thing that lets you know if you're gonna be ready for this is When you're ready to see your value to you truly increase I'm having a talk with coach Greg Adams. Welcome to the show. Thank you very much Further ado, please help me unite the coach gang by welcoming coach Greg Adams to the stage Thank you, brother. Thank you very much. It is coach Greg Adams back in here at the 21 convention Without further ado, let's let me welcome back to the 21 convention stage coach Greg Adams It's under welcome for the first time ever to the 22 convention stage coach Greg reality is The real people that watch my show know what I'm talking about here. They hear this a lot