 Do you have a hard time making friends or been told you're scary? Self-sufficiency is sexy, but it also gets a bad rep, mainly because others may misinterpret it for conceit or arrogance. But this is far from the truth. In reality, you're simply just comfortable in your skin and don't waste your time trying to impress others. Does this sound like you? Here are 10 signs you have a strong, intimidating personality. One, you question things. People with a strong mindset aren't narrow-minded, nor closed off to exploring new theories. Rather than blindly following a system, they're able to analyze its efficiencies, flaws, and strengths and take time to deconstruct its nature. It is scientifically proven that we learn best by asking questions. Thus, mentally strong people also make wise individuals. Two, you don't tolerate ignorance. There's a difference between the lack of knowledge and the refusal to understand. People with strong personalities will not judge you if you're an eager learner with only basic knowledge under your belt, but they will not tolerate dismissive behavior. Instead, they will respect those who are kind-hearted, aware, and open to new experiences. Three, you don't seek validation from others. Do you find popularity or social status important? When you're not attention-seeking, you're also at zen with yourself. This means you don't have a problem with eating alone, having hobbies others may find eccentric, and just doing you in general. And this is exactly what makes you not only strong, but so incredibly confident. Four, you don't make excuses for yourself or anyone. Making a mistake is one thing, but when someone continues making the same one, you have no problem calling them out on it. You recognize that it is not your responsibility to carry the weight of someone else's mess, so you don't put up with anyone's problems, and in return, you uphold yourself to the same standards too. Five, you're careful about who you let in. It's not that you necessarily have a hard time trusting others, you just know what kind of people you like to surround yourself with, which doesn't include the majority of the population. Some people might perceive you as closed off or apathetic, but this isn't true at all. You just hate small talk and prefer making meaningful connections. Six, you overcome your insecurities. No one is completely fearless. After all, fear is what biologically helps us survive, but you don't allow your fears and doubts to rule your life. Instead of giving into your insecurities, you find a way to propel yourself forward despite the negative thoughts. You recognize that not taking risks is the biggest risk of all. Seven, you allow reason to drive your decisions, not emotions. Do others often come to you for advice? Do you excel in jobs that are logic-based, like science and technology? People with strong personalities have a good head on their shoulders and are not easily swayed by impulse or emotion. Rather, they are self-disciplined and look at facts to make a decision. Eight, you stick to your morals. You take ethics seriously. So when you see someone doing more harm than good, you're not afraid to confront them about their problematic behavior. You stand up for what you believe in, and this doesn't just make you strong, but also a hero. Nine, you're driven and goal-oriented. Are you ambitious and hardworking? People with strong personalities are decisive in what they want and take the proper measures to go after it. Instead of being reckless and hasty, they take their time, set realistic goals, and are strategic about their action plans. Ten, you see problems as learning opportunities. Life will often throw curveballs our way, but how you handle them sets you apart from others. Rather than complaining, sulking, and growing agitated with setbacks and failures, you learn to embrace them and get up every time you fall. You understand the process won't always be kind, but you recognize those moments deserve your attention too, so you can learn how to problem-solve better. Want more self-care and personal-developing content? Check out and subscribe to Ruina Sai. Approachable, ambitious, and wise, she offers many lifestyle tips, tricks, and friendly reminders. If you also like this video, be sure to give it a thumbs up, and as always, thanks for watching.