 What's up guys eyes like here in today's video? I want to talk about eye contact about eye contact and Especially I want to discuss why guys can't hold eye contact the real reason See something interesting has been happening on YouTube. There's been a whole bunch of these videos popping up talking about how You can practice your eye contact these videos called Titled videos for practicing eye contact now basically these videos have a attractive female looking at you for about five minutes In the premises if you watch these videos every day, you can get your eye contact down packed unlock. I Could complete another fucking bullshit. All right Eye contact is not a technical issue Anybody can look at you in the eyes like a baby knows how to look at you in the eyes You're born able to look at people in the eyes. It's not a technical issue. Just look at someone's fucking eyes The issue is deep rooted in something else and you need to find out what that thing is and it's usually Something to do with yourself Especially with guys a lot of guys struggle to hold eye contact strong eye contact with a female while they're talking to them Now one of the disempowering beliefs that they might hold is that they are afraid to show Attraction or show their intention with a woman They're afraid to Let it be known that they're into a woman. They're scared of their own masculinity It could be a range of things that contributed to this fact for one Could be the new age Femminazis, you know the ones I'm talking about the female supremacists that are to actually feminists But quote themselves feminists The society we live in these days has kind of disempowered a lot of men in regards to Talking to women and rather you guys to relaying to a woman as a man should relate with a woman in regards to show that Attraction they feel like it's something shameful something they shouldn't do so a lot guys are scared because of that But that's an issue that you have to fix not technique issues an issue Another reason you could be scared to hold eye contact with someone is because you have something to hide You're ashamed of something right They say the eyes are the gates to the soul when someone looks at you in the eyes you can feel vulnerable Right, it feels like you are naked that they can see everything This is why some people can't hold eye contact because they're hiding something there's something wrong with them Perhaps it's a sense of self-loathing. Perhaps it's their low self-esteem But definitely something to do with them in their view. There's something that they should be hiding Now people that can't hold eye contact is usually because of some issue there like it could be in They're not living life to the highest standard. They're not living in line with their values of their ethics So they have to hide perhaps they're not really someone who is working hard. Maybe they're they lie perhaps they Mass debate to hand type pornography a lot of things that could make you feel ashamed when someone's looking at you dead in the eyes That's why you're scared of eye contact. It's not a technique issue. It's something else. You're scared of people seeing you for who you really are Now let's flip the switch a Confident man is not afraid of eye contact a Confident man doesn't even think about eye contact. He doesn't even watch videos online to practice eye contact Because he's confident with himself. He knows he's living life The right way he's living life to his values. He's following his mission. He's conquering He's doing shit, right? So when he looks a woman dead in the eyes He can hold that he can lock because he's not afraid of his masculinity. He embraces it There's nothing he loves more than his masculinity, right? That's a confident man a confident man can walk through the world at ease So If you're having issues with your eye contact, just remember this video. Don't Think it's a technique you don't think it can be resolved just by looking at some girls on the screen or practicing that way That could be helpful at later stages if you want to do more advanced tactics, but the fundamental issue is Something to do with yourself. You need to be comfortable walking in your own shoes You need to stop watching the fucking hentai porn You need to do something that's gonna increase your self-esteem and then all these things will fall in line Body language is the same a lot of people Read books on body language and all these technical aspects of body language Which I'm not saying you shouldn't do but the fundamental problem with body language isn't a technical one just like the eye contact It's something that's deep rooted a confident person naturally exudes That aura confidence through their body language through their eye contact No, think about it because that's how the world works. You fix yourself first and it will project ours. So Hopefully you like something from my video if you liked it give a comment and a like and a subscribe and all that good shit, you know Obviously you guys next time. Peace