 When I started reading the course about special relationships and holy relationships, I think most people who read those nine chapters from 15 to 24 about special relationships and holy relationships, they still are thinking in terms of persons and bodies. What they really want from the Holy Spirit is a romantic holy relationship. Quite frankly, you know, they're like, okay, I'll read your book and, you know, it still talks in there as if there's two in the healed relationship, you know, and they call upon the Holy Spirit together and then the Holy Spirit answers immediately and then it gets very disjunctive and it's kind of a way of taking you in and then the deeper you go in deeper and deeper and deeper you get certain to a turning point when you're working with this going deeper you start to see it's about the holy instant about the present moment about letting go of everything that you believe is good and real and true like nothing I see means anything you start off the first lesson to try to unwind you from everything you believe about the world and then you get to a certain point where the ego will go you you don't want to do this course because he's going to ask you to let go of interpersonal relationships at some point because he's saying God did not create this world and God didn't create the body and what's the one thing that interpersonal relationships are based on is bodies when even you ask people are you in a relationship or not you know their answers probably gonna have something to do with proximity of bodies what bodies do together and the frequency of contact of bodies you know and if there's not a lot of that going on it's gonna be like no I'm not I'm single if there's a lot of this going on a lot of contact the more the better if there's a lot of this going on whether you're gonna say oh I'm in a relationship now and and you know and that applies like a commitment and so on and so forth well you can see the Holy Spirit's taking us to a whole different perception of everything that we perceive and everyone we perceive where in the end we're opening this spiritual vision the vision of Christ which takes us beyond the body entirely you know back into spiritual awakening