 and why does it seem like all men just want to talk about themselves? No one asked me questions. I said, you talked mostly about yourself. See, she's not good at asking questions. I'm in the business of asking questions. I'm in the business of teaching women the questions they should be asking. He could be nervous, or he might just be telling you about himself so you can get to know him. The reality is is these days we're meeting total strangers in the dating marketplace and people don't know how to actually get to know one another.