 Most of the blogs out there that I've seen, basically some dude going to the post office and filming it in a kind of cool way, made me think, well fuck, our lives are really interesting, you guys should know about it. Alright, one of my favourite games in Hungary is dealing with the Postal Service, which is stuck somewhere between the Austro-Hungarian Empire and the Communist regime, so let's go and see if we can get my parcel. Sasha Day Games sending me a key from Canada to a safe that we share in Prague. That's all I can say about that. I went to the one at the Basilica, they told me that it was at Baroshter. Basilica said go to Baroshter, Baroshter says go to Bojci Zalinski. It's like a missing child, more minutes that doesn't work, the less likely you're going to find a child alive. Women live very busy lives, just like we do, and it's really important to understand what's a woman's mindset when she's getting approached. She's probably a little bit intimidated maybe, or overwhelmed, or uncertain, so it's pretty key to help her feel as comfortable as possible in that process as well. And that's why being able to create comfortable feelings through the text, or fun feelings through the text, or maybe a little bit challenging, but still in a safe way, that can be a really good way to start to look at this idea of texting and connecting. I think that's a really powerful mindset. The way that you just framed that, which is basically like the idea that you're not her enemy, you're not trying to beat her in the game, you're not trying to win a battle. Something you guys are doing together, it's a shared experience that you guys are enjoying, and you just expressed it so beautifully when you said trying to help her to relax into the experience. So yeah, I went to the Basilica Post Office to pick up my parcel they told me to come here, and then I spent an hour here, and then they said, no, it is at the Basilica Post Office. And I said, why would they send me here if it was there? I don't know. Welcome to Eastern Europe, the price of living in the third world. I want to know how to approach on public transport. I would say the main thing that you have to think about is how are you making the other person feel in the enclosed space and in relation to the fact that there's an audience. Making it very low key for you and the girl so that you don't attract too much attention. So I was sitting across from her, I looked at her until I caught her contact, and then I just went like this and did a tiny little wave, and I didn't go, hey, what's up? I just made it like a little shared moment just between me and her. So I waved her low, she waved back, and then as soon as I saw that positive feedback from her, I went and sat next to her. So it's like, I'm putting out the invitation, do you want to communicate with me? And by her waving back, she's saying, maybe, and then I'm coming and sitting next to her. And I didn't say, hey, what's up, I'm Liam, yo, and make a really loud scene. I kept it very quiet, and I didn't look at her very much. I kept facing forward because if I was just a stare at her the whole time, it would create a lot of pressure, and she would feel already even more nervous. Instead, I just kept it relaxed. I spoke slowly, introduced myself, and then you saw, I kissed her on the hand, and she didn't pull away from that. So I'm like, okay, she's okay with that. Then I kissed her on both cheeks, and I'm like, she didn't pull away from that. She's okay with that. And then I went to, I went, and now here, I went to kiss her on the lips, and she said, no, I pulled away, and then I pulled back. So, I mean, that's me trying to kiss someone I just met on the train after one minute. But I didn't run up to her and just go straight to that. At each moment, I'm testing to see how receptive she is to me getting physical. So the hand kiss, the cheeks, and then the lips. All right, we missed our stop. Yeah, we're supposed to be gonna get off at Kennedy instead. We're gonna have a purge cash. No, no, no. Oh, damn, never. All right. I like your style. You look good. Thank you very much. What's your name? I like the pain, too. You like the pain? Yes, in the gym. So the good pain. Vibrant? Vibrant. Vibrant, okay. Very good work, Bella. Thank you. In a situation like that, it's really easy to get nervous and to want to talk the whole time. Feel in the silence. Get rid of the awkwardness by speaking really fast. And that's my natural instinct is to talk like that. So I have to consciously breathe and meditate, come back to my center, and purposely leave those pauses. And there we have it. Funny old game of Hungarian postal service. It works. Everything's flexible, but it works. How come Hungarian train stations are so windy? The most common question that men ask me is actually not specifically about dating and seduction. It goes something along the lines of this. James, how is it that you are able to stay so calm, relaxed, and centered, even under high-pressurized social situations? Now, I guess a lot of men presume that that's just my nature. I'm just a chilled out, relaxed, Aussie-surfed kind of dude. The reality being that I grew up being somebody that was highly stressed, angry, and cynical. And I went through a long process of self-discovery to be able to bring myself to the calm, centered position that I am in today. How did I do that? In one word, it's through meditation. I went on a long journey, both internal and real, around the world seeking out masters from ashrams in India, Shaolin Temple in China, and seeking out a whole bunch of different modern and traditional teachers of awareness, mindfulness, and very specific and powerful meditation techniques. For the last eight years, I've been coaching men live in my programs around the world in these techniques because it's my opinion that if you want to get good with women socially and improve your confidence, then it's vital that you look inwards, not just projecting out into the world. I take guys through heavy and deep inner transformation during my live programs where I teach them these techniques that I've distilled from all these masters around the world. Unfortunately, I'm only able to teach around 50 to 80 guys live per year and so many men from around the world constantly contact me asking, okay, what's the best meditation technique? I know that it's something that is gonna be useful for me, but I don't wanna have to go and travel to the ends of the earth to find the right techniques. I don't wanna get conned by charlatans and I don't wanna necessarily have to sit in a meditation retreat center for days on end to try and figure out what works for me. So what I've done over the last year is I've distilled and boiled down all of the most powerful, effective, and quite simple to learn techniques that any man can take and utilize for say 20 to 30 minutes per day to have a vast and powerful effect on his internal state, his confidence, and his ability to be focused, clean and clear in his interactions. I call this the martial meditation method and I will be releasing this breakthrough product which is a six week course on the 2nd of December, 2016. If you'd like to stay up to date with the launch as well as receive behind the scenes bonus material, then all you need to do is click the link below, put your email in, and I'll be contacting you immediately. The first thing that I will send you is an exclusive powerful meditation technique which I originally learned from my master in Shaolin temple many years ago. At the time I was learning this technique to develop powerful martial arts applications, but over time I realized that it had a lot of applications for the man that was trying to develop himself socially and sexually. In particular, it allows you to focus your attention and your energy in a way that is clean and clear. Rather than getting lost up in your head or giving in to anxieties and fears, it means that you can get focused, clear in your body, and transmit the message that you want to to the women you're communicating with. 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