 how to make a narcissist regret losing you the narcissist manipulated you they devalued you they cheated they lied they future faked they stole from you and you just want them to recognize the pain that they caused you you want them to recognize what they have done I get it I understand you want them to feel something just as you would feel something for them but you shouldn't really care about what they think it should be enough that you know they're a narcissist you know they're toxic you know they're no good for you and they're not going to change they will only destroy everything in their path but you want them to feel something because they've never shown any empathy they've never given you their feelings emotions or sympathies they've always been cold they've always lacked affection and warmth but the truth is they're never going to feel anything for you or anyone else because they're not able to feel anything for anyone other than themselves but you can get them to react because they're highly reactive they're always scanning the environment for threats and they're hypersensitive to any changes in their so to get them to react you need to use reverse psychology you need to encourage your desired behavior or belief by advocating its opposite you may have a desired outcome or result in mind but you need to use reverse psychology for that to happen and this all starts by understanding the narcissist mind they're very sensitive to criticism they don't like it so you have to do the opposite of what they expected to do to get them to feel guilty which is manipulation you're tricking the narcissist into doing something for you because that's the only way you're going to get them to respond no matter how much they see you miserable and depressed they're not going to care they're not going to consider your point of view because they don't know how to understand other people's emotions so they're just going to take pleasure in your pain it's going to bring them amusement and enjoyment to see you suffering they're not going to feel bad for you even if you get angry they're just going to get angry at you it's just going to make the situation worse the only way for you to win is by not responding by not showing any emotion because then they won't know where you are in the mind they're constantly looking for clues to how you feel in your reactions they're always watching your body language and facial expressions so that they can be two steps ahead of you because they have their own agenda they have their own things that they need so you're not a concern to them the only way that you can become a concern to them is by not giving them a reaction and you don't need to react because you already know they're a narcissist you already know what they're trying to do and when you go silent they will know that something is wrong which they really need your attention they can't live without it so it will make them react but they're never going to see your perspective they're never going to understand how you feel but you can take your power back by withdrawing from all forms of communication by realizing that they don't feel bad for what they do they don't feel bad for anyone they only care about themselves they only care about getting what they need and that's the only reason why they got involved with you in the first place they never cared about you they were only thinking about themselves and as long as they get what they want they're not going to care thank you for watching if you found this video helpful please give it a thumbs up share your thoughts in the comment section hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications if you would like to support the channel you can donate at paypal.me slash nark survivor you can book up one one with me on my website it's nark survivor UK thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon