 So Liz says is aggressive sex okay or is that giving the okay to disrespect you? No, I think it's okay. I think it's fine. I think it's one of those things especially like when people have sex it's like all of a sudden this animal part of ourselves takes over. This primal animal part takes over and it's like we become different human beings and we do this stuff and we're you know we're making all these faces and these moaning and these grunting and this ah you know and just all this crazy stuff is happening and then it's all of a sudden like boom you know we're normal people again and it's like whoa you know just that was crazy you know and it's it's like it's I don't think it's that big of a deal because the world of physical intimacy is a different world than the world of like regular life and so a lot of times that can be in this place where you're doing that and you're experiencing that and it's not really a big deal sorry I was just doing something it's not really a big deal that you're you're doing that during sex because it's it can be cut off it can be different it can be on a different level and so I wouldn't worry so much about that