 Okay, you know, whenever there is a reaction, you know, to anything, it doesn't really matter what you're reacting to, or how intense the feeling is, how minor or major it is, there's a reaction that's occurring. And then Asus was saying, what's really going on for me? What is my lesson in this? To just stop at the reaction, or try to figure out the reaction, or analyze the reaction, or talk about the reaction, or whatever, is not going to really bring about the healing. So that's what all of these stories have started off with that. And Asus was describing it so descriptively, and then coming much further inward, where it's like, okay, there is a lesson for me here, if I'm contracted in any way, you know, there is a big opportunity. She sues you to get to the bottom of it. Okay, here's the reaction. All right, all right. You could spend a lot of time talking about the reaction, analyzing the reaction, and talking with other people about the reaction, and yet it's really, I think we're hearing it. It's a great step to bring it inward, and that's what Sue was doing, saying, okay, then we bring it in. You say, well, what's really going on? I must have made a decision deep inside that was not with the Holy Spirit, for there to be such a reaction. And so we might say, first you spot the reaction, next you bring it inward, bring it really deep inward to, okay, I've got a decision going on. I'm deciding to this. I'm deciding for exactly the way that I'm feeling. Nobody's pushing my button. Nobody's really making me feel this way. There's nothing outside of me that's determining how I'm feeling. It's a decision. And once you can bring it in to that point of seeing that it's a decision, then you're so close to letting it go. You know, you can't really let it go when it's still out there as a reaction, when it still seems to involve Christian or a talk about a woman breastfeeding an eight-year-old or something when it's out. There, there's no hope at that point. It's twice removed from the correction, and the ego is quite happy with just the reaction. But then you bring it in to that point, and you really get in touch as Sue's was this time. I must feel that I'm worthy of love, you know, that's getting down to the core of it right there. Unprotected, unmasked, you know, really looking at what that is. But I've chosen to leave love, and it doesn't really matter whatever the reaction was. It can be a wide range of reactions that starts with that decision. So, you know, when we're getting down here, Frank's really saying, let's get to the, let's hit the nail on the head, let's get to the core of it, that once you can get it inward to the point of just seeing that it's a mistaken decision that you've made, that's when you finally got into the position where you can let it go, where you can give it over to the Holy Spirit. You can't give over a reaction that you think is still outside of yourself. The Holy Spirit's not going to come out into the world on a search and destroy you. Let's find this woman. Where is she? What's her address? Let's call her on his cell phone. We'll pass the phone around. Everybody will give her. Tell her what for. What are you breastfeeding an eight-year-old for? Stop it. You're going to do damage. Blah, blah, blah, this child will be hurt for it. The Holy Spirit's not going to do that, you know, or you're even feeling, let's call Christian right now. Let's tell him, you know, it's or whatever. So we're not really going to find a solution if we look at trying to, you know, change something and form like that old TV thing, you know. Do not adjust your set. The problem, you know, when they first intended on TV, they had problems with television. The problem is not in your set. They were having trouble broadcasting, but we can apply it to the spiritual journey. Do not test the knob on the TV. Do not test the remote. The problem is not in your set. It's a set-up. The ego has made a big, giant set-up, and the mesmerism is so thick that it's easy to forget that it's a big set-up. Or there's that movie, Fifty First Dates, you know, that I showed a clip from where, you know, she has short-term memory problem, and she keeps thinking it's the same day over and over, and then she gets her dad and her brother. They all play along, you know, because if they adapt to her distorted perception, that's the same day. That's people pleasing to the max, you know. Painting walls wide every day, rewrapping a gift, you know, but getting a whole freezer full of pineapples, just so she says, let's go shopping for the pineapple. Oh, we've already got one. Yeah, got it out of the freezer again. And, you know, let's watch The Sixth Sense. Okay, like for the 100th, 200th time, you know, watching the same movie over and over, and you can start to see that same dynamic played out in your lives and your relationships when you kind of say, oh, mom's just that way. You've got to be real careful and gentle with mom, you know, because she's just this way. You'll adapt and twist things around just so you won't, you know, disturb the beast, you know. We don't want the explosion when mom or dad, their anger comes up, so we'll just walk on eggshells very carefully. And then when you start to do that with interpersonal relationships with your partner, it gets really dangerous if you have an explosive partner and you just kind of tiptoe around. There's stress that builds up. You know, you want to shine and be free and splash and be spontaneous and you're like, walking very carefully, and you're not just disturbed the beast. Oh, oh! Ah! You're not ready to do that. You're not ready, you know. So, these dynamics are all really important for us to get into because these people plays and it's so sneaky. You think you're being sweet and kind and nice and you're not really being sweet and kind and nice. You're following into the egos version of sweet and kind and nice and you'll pay the price at some point when this unconscious guilt just comes up into awareness like the Loch Ness Monster just pops its head up and then it's like, oh, I need a therapist. I need something, you know. It gets very intense. I'll do that. Well, if we just go over the steps again, first you have to look at the projection. If you went into any good psychotherapist, the psychotherapist wouldn't say the world's not real. I mean, it would be, I want my money back. You're being too rude to me. If you would go into a psychotherapist, they would say that. Or even to put it more in psychological terms as you walked into a psychotherapist and the psychotherapist said, you are completely delusional and completely insane and you are completely mistaken. Again, okay, give me my money back. That's too, no, it's not helpful. But it's interesting, the Holy Spirit, like a good psychotherapist has got to join with everyone who comes in and mainly through their attitude teach what they would learn, which is that we really are free when we are tuned into our source, when we're tuned into the spirit. We are free and we are not deluded and we are not at the mercy of anything or anyone or the ego. So you might say the advanced psychotherapist is peaceful.