 Hi Virgo welcome back to another episode of what the hell is going on in your love life. Hi everybody, how are you? Virgo, wait a minute, let me just fix my camera, I moved my camera. Yeah this is a channel for Virgos, Virgos only, Virgos Sun, Moon, Rising, or Venus. If you want to get a personal reading there's a link in the description box below. Please do hit like share and subscribe and have a new announcement I'm going to be making very soon so keep watching my videos that way you'll be able to get the the deets on what's going on what I'm gonna be announcing soon. So do hit the notification bell though you guys make sure you hit that notification bell that will alert you because once in a while I will upload a reading straight out of the blue and you might want to catch it. All right so I'm pulling reversals I'm feeling the need to pull reversals. Oh boy, oh boy, OMG. Okay so the bottom of the deck here first of all before I get started I'm going to tell you who's on the board here, Aries Taurus or someone on the cusp of that. Cancer Scorpio Pisces, Virgo Taro, Vorgro and Capricorn. Okay the bottom of the deck three of ones in the reverse okay delays delays delays lack of planning setbacks not sure what's going on here okay hmm the high priestess is also in the reverse so it feels like somebody is not sure about something okay a sense of blocked intuition having a hard time seeing what's you know getting confused somebody is getting confused is it you could be somebody else there's this energy of like too many clouds the fog is not lifted not sure what to do not ready to make some kind of decision plans maybe were made in the past with somebody and things or there was a lack of planning a lot of setbacks okay and gosh page pentacles in the reverse so kind of feels like a little bit of a rebellious energy here someone who's a troublemaker were you dealing with someone who is a troublemaker oh my goodness okay I feel like for some of you you might have been dealing with someone who is just a real I don't know mixed up in a lot of ways and just a lack of follow-through immature and immature energy the love messages are here what is Virgo's love messages Virgo it feels like you're breaking somebody's heart I don't know who breaking somebody's heart or okay wait no I'm not going to go any further they said wait okay worth waiting for deception holy moly what the and codependency I saw this in my mind's eye prior to this reading starting all right Virgo let me see hi everybody in the chat thank you in advance for your super chats okay all right Virgo listen I don't know who this person is this could be somebody it feels like there's there there may be somebody you're connecting with or going forward whichever I feel like when I give you the reading you're gonna understand it but there's somebody here who is very smothering okay quite insecure it may have some addictions or they're very codependent it's like this person keeps coming back into your life or will like they come in and then they're out and then they come in and then they're out okay trying to avoid having a heartbreak or they're chasing after you because you've got somebody else or they think you're in a third party and you know codependency is a form of manipulation and control okay they'll set Piscian energy here I forgot to say that and so but I feel like there's somebody here who's got clarity about something about you it's like they they don't want to let you go I feel like this person does not want to let you go okay they refuse to let you go they're seeing it feels like a heart heartbreak they have their hearts broken and they refuse to accept it or they're refusing or they will be refusing to accept it in November and the more they like in other words refused to read they refuse to accept it and then move on if they accept it that means that they are forfeiting and they're giving up and then they don't want to give up they're gonna wait for you okay four pentacles just flew out so holding on tight holding on tight this person is not gonna let you go Virgo wow ten of swords just these cards are just flipping out as soon as I shuffle right on the three of swords they refuse to surrender they refuse to accept defeat they refuse to accept that they're that you might have somebody else or that you're going to break their heart and go with somebody else so here they are coming to terms with this in the month of November here they are it's kind of like illusions are shattered the truth that is gets revealed to them like they realize that they want to be with you I know I know I hear you I hear you you're like really this again this doesn't have to be a past person you guys you can be meeting somebody new that you just they're kind of like I'm not sure and the more you push away from this person or deny them the opportunity to be with you the more they cling you have a clinger you have a clinger all right show me show Virgo the moon in reverse there's persons like secrets are coming out revealing the truth I just heard somebody this person saying to Virgo okay you're gonna go with someone else okay well I'll wait for you I'll wait till you come back I'm not giving up I'm not giving up on us I'll wait you're worth waiting for you do what you have to do to make yourself happy Virgo and if that means go with somebody else I'll wait I'm not letting you go wow what okay two of wands reverse rejection definitely this person is they got this thing going here like they realize that you're gonna reject them or they or you do reject them and they they they feel their rejection yet it's crazy it's it's like they still don't want to let you go who the heck who that what's the deal with this person huh look at that six of cups in reverse just popped out so okay they see this situation as a setback even if you're not going with someone else and you just think maybe you are they see it as like a small setback they'll let you go they'll let you do what you have to do in a sense where they're not gonna like hound you but trust me when I tell you they're very possessive of you and then they're just gonna wait they're gonna wait they're gonna wait they're gonna wait six of cups in the reverse this is someone who is like completely stuck they have unrealistic expectations this person just lives in the past lives in the past very naive you could hit him over the head with a hammer and tell them we're done I'm not coming back it's over I'm moving on and they still will not accept it so I don't know if that's good for you or if that's not good for you Virgo I feel like you guys have your reasons for why you either may refuse this person in the future or if it's a past person okay you may have your reasons no matter what I feel like this person is not gonna give up on you now here's what I want to tell you and yes I'm gonna go there yes I'm gonna go there like the four pentacles this year twice but deception and the emperor in the reverse and we have the emperor in the reverse male or female this is a person with a big nasty ego this is definitely a quote unquote narcissistic individual okay they are definitely gonna let you know that they're suffering or they're gonna give the impression that like you really hurt them and that they're gonna play the martyr they're not gonna move away from you you're definitely gonna destroy this person okay or destroy the hope but this person is going to be more stuck on you okay and if it's not a narcissist it could just be someone who's extremely egotistical no matter what they're definitely gonna stay stuck on you and the more you pull away and the more you go the more they're gonna stay like you're the one that got away for some of you coming coming through as the one who got away everyone else they may have just said go away from me go away from me go away from me you resisted Virgo and you I don't know you took up your cross you took up your sword and you said that's it you're out and guess what I mean are they gonna harass you I feel like if there's any communication I don't really I'm not seeing communication here right now right I feel like this is just an energy of even if you told this person in the past that you were done or you walked away listen Virgo they are so stuck on you it's not even it's it's ridiculous it's it's not even normal okay two of pentacles with the Hierophant hmm now let me tell you something when we say narcissist right I mean come on like I'm not even if even if you you or I like some of you might be I'm certainly not a clinical psychotherapist if I don't have the person sitting in front of me and I do it like thorough evaluation there's no way for me to know that they're a narcissist labeled clinically okay that's up to you you're you know who your person is but if you've got someone here that's like high on the spectrum that's malignant and you're listening here to see if that person gonna change and finally come through for you you need to click off this the Altar readings because or get away from that person because people who are highly malignant like borderline sociopaths they don't change and if you haven't come to accept that and you're still hoping tower readings are probably not gonna be for you okay this person I feel like they have an element and and let me just also give you a disclaimer whether or not this person is one or not it's irrelevant what matters is how you feel and like I said yesterday if you feel safe in this relationship you can you can slap a freaking sticker on this person's back that you can label them just a complete idiot you could label them a narcissist you could label them you know just a freaking freakazoid I don't even know what the hell you want to call them whatever they are it doesn't matter green blue yellow purple whatever it doesn't matter what matters is how you feel what's going on with you do you feel safe do you feel love do you feel secure in this relationship that's all you need to know okay so what I'm seeing here though is this person is showing a lot of immaturity okay they got issues authority issues with authority at times just someone who's not capable of making plans or doing the whole follow-through thing but here they are okay with the two of pentacles this might have been an issue about progressing a relationship or conforming into a traditional role as a partner and this person probably was very anti partnership or if it felt that way to you or the way that the things that they showed you or what they were doing this person is gonna come in okay but they're coming in with this false mask so what I feel like they're gonna do is they know what you want you're not getting are they know what you want or they know knew what you wanted they couldn't follow through with that but you gave the ultimate ultimatum by just saying done I'm out biggest blow the biggest blow I feel like you're giving this person is rejecting and ignoring them and this person is going to hold on to you for dear life and they're gonna come through or show themselves to be someone who is ready to commit okay they're here with the two of pentacles they're balancing things out there they're like okay what's the best way for me to conform so I can get Virgo back this can be someone who's very manipulative but the problem with every single sign that comes across the Virgo is Virgo cannot be manipulated if Virgo chooses to stay with a manipulator it's because Virgo is making the decision to do that it's not because they're coerced now that's not all Virgos that's the ones who have raised their vibrations right Virgo you have the ability to say you're only gonna manipulate me if I allow you to manipulate me it's therefore it's my decision I'm still in control Virgo is no puppet on a string ever and if Virgo acts like a puppet on a string it's because Virgo's intending for a particular reason or purpose to do that and some of you know exactly what I'm talking about okay some of you just really know how to play the game what did somebody post the other day Virgos are the ultimate players who don't even know that they're playing okay so again four of pentacles again this person is going to come in and they will show themselves not communicate yet we'll see but so far show themselves to be ready to conform to give you what you want to do everything that you ask and for some of you this has already happened okay why because the four of cups they're gonna come in and surprise you that that's for sure gonna be mighty surprised don't fall don't fall for it be wise Virgo but why are they doing this because you're becoming indifferent to them because you're not interested you're done with the deception and the lies and some of you had the whole string-along thing some of you had somebody who would make plans with you and then not fall through or they just weren't acting right it is a lot of you were like involved with like mental patients or you know you were trying to have relationships with like a teen like not actually a teenager but someone just acted like they were a child or they never grew up okay the world's reverse see codependency this person so you know what you guys I heard somewhere say that narcissists are always codependent whether they're over and or covert whatever way whatever element that they're in at the time they are they need they need because are these types of people who lack identity need to hijack identities in order to feel complete and that's codependency okay this person may even try going forward to act more like you oh my goodness what are we dealing with like a theatrical show here the drama yeah a false mask this person may even try to mimic you you know there's that old saying you know we get involved with people we look for people who are like us right we want because that's what familiar that's what's familiar to us we try to make the bond with with other people who have the similar similarities that's the soulmate thing this person is not your soulmate they're not even your twin flame this is a karmic we're finally doing a reading on just a strict karmic that you have dealt with or you may be dealing with going forward you know everybody thinks oh it's either my soulmate or my twin flame hey no guess what sometimes we get involved with karmics but we don't ever really think about that so this person is going to come in and they're going to hijack your personality in order to give you what you want this F this reading this is crazy this is not even like what is going on what's where is the moon anybody anybody where's the moon where where are the planets right now why is this happening this is this this is just awful but you know what if it serves as a warning for you it's really interesting because I got a lot of readings today from people who are dealing with people like this so there's something going on planetarily you know oh yeah they're gonna act like they're gonna kind of like mirror you Virgo wants to be married okay I'm gonna get we're gonna get married Virgo wants to relocate to a new new home okay I'm we're gonna do that whatever Virgo wants I'm gonna just be gonna this person gonna mimic you Virgo wants to whatever Virgo wants Virgo's gonna get but which is great but it's not because of love it's because of codependency it's because this person becomes addicted to you because you walk away they come in with this false mask they'll do like grasping is doing anything they can to hold on to the relationship anything they can to not be rejected even though the rejection happens and this person gets that knife in their heart once again you know they refuse to accept that something's over and they're not gonna let go I mean it's crazy okay night of ones in the reverse and the five of ones in the reverse so this kind of feels to me they're gonna try to resolve the problems again but it doesn't feel like it's coming from an authentic place because of the deception card it doesn't feel like that to me it feels like with this night of ones here that this person is just a chaotic fucking mess excuse my French just a chaotic person they have like sexual deviancies is that a word there's sexual deviant they're impulsive they're the night of ones in the reverse is a total player total night of ones in the upright is not a player night of ones in the upright is just someone who is very lusting goes after what they want and then walks away the night of ones in the reverse is like makes lateral mousse you know it's just all over the place with chaotic energy chaotic passion you know in other words like if you were to say to them yes come have beef with me physically they would and then as soon as like they could get a phone call like 10 minutes later and somebody else would say the same thing in their chaotic and then go over there with them this person is just wherever they can get their their fill okay so the three of cups is here right they're gonna give you that reunion or that the things that you wanted before you don't want them anymore I know you don't or some of you are just like NASA's Nabra I'm out even if I do want it anymore I know it's not good for me and I'm moving away from it what you wanted before now they're coming in with why because they're holding on they don't want to let you go so we've got the world in the reverse okay that I'm holding that for a second the world in reverse so this is like unfinished business mm-hmm they're with you permanently till death do us part not actual death but till death do us part even if we're never together again you're always gonna be with me that is a little creepy but it's codependent behavior okay so this person had somebody else who oh okay they had somebody else who called them out on their ship during a time period that you and this person were not together they were being crazy chaotic energy with another person okay trying to get their fill from somebody else in the clinical terms it's another source supply whichever okay but I feel like whoever they were connecting with basically released them and got their freedom from them they escaped okay they escaped they became liberated from this certain this person and don't get fooled Virgo that is why they're coming back to you because you were the greatest you were the best you stuck with them you put up with the abuse you put up with the whatever and this person probably let you go because at some point you were so giving that they lost respect for you but then when you finally took your power back and you stood up for yourself or if you do going into November they're gonna lock in on you sorry they're gonna lock in on you and not let you go and they're gonna keep trying okay but I feel like do I feel like they're really gonna reach out no we'll say so far no so far for November I feel like it's coming to terms and figuring out their plan okay they may reach out and you may say no like they may reach out early November and you may say no or just not respond and they'll get the hint and I feel like because you're getting away they're gonna hold on even harder now listen if you were dealing with someone who has yeah non-committal this is you some of you this is you you're non-committal with this person so maybe this is just a very bad relationship that feel like somebody needs to have this message here about this okay this person has always been non-committal and they will remain non-committal in the sense that they're not going to give you what you want they're coming back so they can have what they want because you're getting away you're escaping this person feels a bit predatory okay alone is offered in the reverse okay so that feels to me like they're not they're not gonna they're not gonna loan you their heart I'm telling you you guys this person somebody here needs to get wise to whoever they have been dealing with or get strong or make sure you stay away from this person because they're gonna come in with all this bull and they're gonna tell you a lot of stuff but they have no intention of loaning anything to you their heart their time their effort their energy as soon as you give in to them as soon as you say yes as soon as you believe that or think or they try to convince you that they're really coming back because it's love then they're gonna go back to their old ways because it's all about the capture the chase but it's it's too late like your detriment like it's not even healthy I'm surprised the devil card didn't show up here okay still undecided yeah I just feel like this person has no intentions of committing to you with committing from the heart like even if they come to you or they show you that they want to be in a committed relationship and they agree to like go to the greatest lengths of actually you know standing in front of a priest exchanging vows even if they go to those great lengths they're still not gonna be committed they'll still not give you what's deserved they may even you're still gonna get the same thing that's why dealing with people like this it doesn't matter if commit it doesn't matter if they you know come in and say oh let's get married or let's move in together or let's progress it because with people like this you can't trust them all I can tell you all right here's my advice right even though I haven't put your advice cards the way you know that this situation or this person if you're still in it and you haven't figured out what you're doing yet but you're definitely contemplating being done very soon if you're unsure the way you know is that if something just feels off with this person if something just doesn't feel right but you can't put your finger on it exactly that's your intuition your intuition will come through vibrationally in your body like you'll feel it all over and you just you'll just get this hunch and a lot of times when you guys feel like something's off or it doesn't feel right you internalize that and blame it on yourselves and then you say oh it must be my trauma or my anxiety issues or it must be whatever I went through in the past before I met this person no no sometimes your intuition that little voice is not loud at all in your ear sometimes it's loud in your body and that's how you know if you get a sense of not feeling safe or comfortable with someone anybody doesn't just have to be this person but anyone you meet pay attention to your body the vibrations you can tell you can feel it your body will speak more to you than anything else you ever hear that term stranger danger you can feel that trust it okay so if your head of household male or female take charge of your divine masculine energy right now you may have a father figure who's guiding you here in on you know 3d or in the 5d okay out there but you need to recognize that you're not alone in something here also you need to strive for respect dignity and power self-respect self-respect is the most powerful antidote against a narcissist or somebody who is abusing you self-respect is the only antidote because they count on you not respecting yourself that's how they can get in okay you have an influential male in your life who will be supporting you or currently is okay I could chew victory recognition and applause you will win you know if you're trying to seek revenge on somebody okay you go cold on them here comes a love offer you go cold on them you give that cold revenge the love offer comes in oh and then here comes with the financial decision this person's like okay okay we'll buy a home together okay we'll move in together okay well you know do whatever I'm telling this person okay reflect is in the reverse okay reflect is usually where you go within and you spend some time alone in the reverse this tells me you need to actually start reaching out to others support get support from other people who have either been through this you have a big thing going on here a lot of you I know this may not resonate for all of you but somebody here right now listening to this reading is going through this and really needs your support guys because this whoever's going through this right now this is kind of like almost like a life-or-death situation for some and for others it's just like a total mental struggle emotional issues you know whoever they were dealing with whoever this person in here listening has trouble staying no contact with this person okay definitely has real trouble like that as soon as person reaches out you one of you here is just like not trusting yourselves and thinking it's going to be different this time when a lot of you have gone through this a million times and there's an old saying you know the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results like some of you have lost your fucking minds going back and going back and going back and thinking it's going to be different because this person comes in with these tricks they say something they do something okay well secure home in the reverse you're not safe where you are wherever you call home I'm not I don't mean that this person gonna come in like beat you up or anything I just feel like some of you need to seriously your homes not like you seriously need to be locked in your doors your home could just be like your safe place within your heart or in yourself okay but look at you guys you're like wide open for this person some of you not all of you and if some of you have done the whole blocking thing you never talked to him again so how about your brothers and sisters who are still in this situation tell them block block delete and and I just heard somebody say well if I delete or block then this person's gonna know I'm upset guess why who fucking cares what they think who cares who cares if they know you're upset or you're not upset it doesn't matter what matters is you and that you're okay fear and anxiety okay this is why you have fear and anxiety because you're allowing somebody to stay in your life or to keep coming back into your life who is causing insecurity within your home or within your psych this is where your fear and anxiety is coming from this is why some of you are ill you have physical illnesses your body when you when your body is telling you something like I said your intuition when your body is telling you something and you're not listening to it and you're not relieving your body of the vibration you're suppressing it you're suppressing the intuition and that vibrates on the inside even deeper and it stays there and that's how you become ill it starts shaking up all those dormant cells that are saying oh emergency emergency right because when you think of like a ripple wave in the water it just continues on until it dissipates because it's just free to go you're not releasing what your intuition is telling you you're suppressing it and that's why you're having illness you're having mental illness mental struggle physical illness whatever it is because of what this person has done to you or continues to do Virgo Virgo pay attention to your body stop guessing second guessing yourself and this doesn't have to be your past person this could be somebody new if you meet somebody new and this is just this seems like a very specific message tonight if you meet somebody new and your body's like run nope I'm feeling it I'm feeling something's not right something's not right that's your cue you don't need to dive you don't need to analyze you don't need to talk to brothers and sisters and million different people just take a cue from yourself so you can avoid this especially if it's somebody new and especially if this if this is your past person and you're not sure ask yourself when you met them in the beginning how did you feel in the very beginning take a look at what you were feeling very beginning when you met this person okay popular social female in the reverse represents someone who is corrupt maybe a con artist someone who is dishonest someone who is has cold aggression lack of empathy someone who is either just a bully or has maybe sex addictions this person may be jealous they don't follow through with things they have financial instability okay this is not your person like a full description of them this just take what fits okay they might be very insecure smothering abusive emotional manipulator but it's still they're still popular somehow some way because they're very good at conning people oh okay the death card is here again okay but this time it's in the upright for you out with the old in with the new Virgo no one said this would be easy no one said it has been the season in your life is transforming bringing you into a new place allow it to happen go with the flow the time for change is now Virgo okay oh mature dynamic fiery mail some of you could have been connecting with a Leo Sagittarius or an Aries okay very irresistible energy very very irresistible what this person the mask that they wore was a mask of self-assuredness and confidence and that's what they showed to everyone else that they were powerful and very charming full of charisma and courageous that's a mask that's how they got you doesn't have to be a fire sign but that male or female that's how they got you good actor good actress yep financial loss some of you suffered financial loss from this connection if you were married to them or maybe you lent them money or something you had some kind of loss you may very well be experiencing that right now and others of you that may be succeeding this if you go through with this if you meet somebody new and you don't trust your instinct or your gut feeling this person is definitely broke busted and disgusted and part of that could be why they're also returning not just because they have to have you but because you may also be like a cash cow for them even if even if you only have like 10 more than they do it's still more than they've got okay ghost that are blocked so either this is a message for you right now what you need to do get to it Virgo or this is what has occurred in the past okay maybe some of you already did this ghost in a blocked this person might have done this if they got rid of you and went to somebody else and you if you still have them ghosted or blocked or whatever they are going to find a way back through they can't not they can't be alone this person has to they got to have their energy they'll die they'll like wither away they can't that's what runs it that's what runs this person the codependency they can't be alone if they're alone they have to sit with themselves and they don't have a self imagine that imagine being by yourself and sitting by yourself and hating yourself and there's a war going on in the psych one half this person may be just split one half of them just has such a high ego and such high sense of pride a false sense of pride about themselves and think that they're so great and then the other side of them just dis dis what's the word well hates them there's like this war this person sits in chaos it's easier for them to hijack another person's personality and put pretend to be them because then it calms down the split in their head is a real psychological read I don't know who the hell you guys have been connecting with but adios semaphore that's my advice to you I read way too many psychology books I think okay look at this look at this situation differently Virgo sometimes you have to let go of these old notions even though you may feel stuck it's just an illusion try seeing the situation from a different perspective Virgo a slight change in view can make everything different okay some of you need to change the lenses that you have or you've been wearing when it comes to relationships or people from your past or if this person's coming back in I don't even really want to upload this reading tonight but I know I feel called to give this message and I feel like if it's just not fun it's just no fun it's like a total shit show right now I mean we want to laugh we want to have fun but it's not it this is like a major wake-up call for you guys somebody here okay some of you had a loving older female okay now listen this means to me the message that I just got with this card is that you've got someone a loving older female older than you who really cares about you who truly wants what's best for you this person comes through as a very nurturing healing supportive person you need to either embrace this person more or wait for them to show up and recognize when they come in okay because I feel like this is going to be like your support person or your person who's going to help you with something here I'm not going to pull any love messages because we don't need to be known with the love thing is going on with somebody who's treating you bad because right move it up you gotta keep it moving here all right let me see what is your advice I'm gonna pull a couple more advice cards and then I'm gonna take a look at your charms how'd you guys like this reading tonight huh I'm telling you it's different every there's always something different something must be I don't know where the planets are something must be going on what is today October 27th so remember I think in one of my readings I said you're gonna be hearing something on October 28th okay that may still hold hold true some of you may have gotten a reach out yesterday or today from someone like kind of out of the blue oh I didn't realize you spell okay so we have the king of cups in the reverse okay somebody could be connecting with a water sign king of cups in the reverse is an emotional manipulator okay someone who is not trustworthy they're dishonorable not devoted this is someone you cannot trust they are not safe they'll give you romance but it won't be solid they have hidden ill intentions okay they're not charitable and this person would never even go to a counselor that's one of your biggest clues like if the I mean not even it's not even foolproof I feel like the only foolproof way to know if you're dealing with someone like this is if you reject them what do they do because usually when a relationship ends like a healthy person would just say wow that that's kind of I feel sad about that is there anything we can do to fix it or I can do to fix it or make it better that's kind of like the healthy way things end anyone when something ends they're thrashing about like a shark grab their legs in the water and they can't control themselves so they lose their shit you know or they start name calling or sit you know that's someone who's got an ego problem okay so this person is trying to come in and renew the relationship with you and your advice here is forgive forget and move on and heal your advice here hasn't it's time for you to head in a new direction get renewal for yourself get clarity on your life purpose because your heart knows a lot of you are just a lot of you asked yourselves if you were the ones who are the narcissists if you were the ones who are selfish a lot of you actually second-guessed yourselves you questioned yourselves because of what you dealt with because another person turned everything around on you and said you're the one with the problem a lot of you doubted yourselves and you thought that and I'll tell you something here's the key if you truly were a narcissist you'd never question if you were or not you'd never be really upset if it's possible that you were you'd never like be devastated by the thought that you might okay because you'd never even ask yourself if you were because a narcissist doesn't believe anything anyone tells them about themselves anyway and they truly would never even question me because narcissists comes with negative terms you know negative connotation negative description the narcissist don't think that they are negative there's anything wrong with them okay so if you ever felt like you were the one who was that I'm here to tell you no you were not because you questioned it and that's for those of you who questioned it those of you who didn't question it doesn't mean that you are it just means that you're like the fuck out of here I'm not a narcissist I know and how do I know that because you're here trying to get clarity on what the hell happened I don't think narcissists watch tarot card readings I just don't because there they end up be all that everything I'm sure there's a lot of them that sit up in the seat that I'm in and give them maybe maybe I'm a narcissist who knows you never know alright let's see okay your advice stand up for yourself and your beliefs Virgo have confidence challenge those in power but also choose your battles wisely and that basically just means that depending on what type of a insane insane clown posse you were dealing with you don't have to be very specific with which battles you're willing to fight with them in which you're not because you could have an OJ Simpson type of narcissist or you can have a Brian laundry type and hopefully you get my gist with that okay but always you always stand up for yourself and the seven of wands can definitely stand for having this protection thing over you okay self-defense protection like a shield blocking no contact not getting involved staying away and the other thing I want to tell you a little disclaimer here as well you may or may have you just say what's what you may wind up relapsing back into this relationship many times before it before you come to your senses if that happens if you listen to this reading and then this person reaches out to you November and you and you get sucked back in that's fine realize that you got sucked back in again forgive yourself and keep listening to the readings and learn as much as you can because sometimes it takes a while sometimes you will go back and forth with someone for quite a few years before you finally get to that finished completely finished stage you could just be walking away right now sorry hold on you could be walking away right now some of you might just to see what they do okay some of you might just be completely done and and feel good about it and then a month or two down the line the guilt sets in or something happens and you kind of get pulled back in be care be not care not so much careful be compassionate and gentle with yourselves when dealing with people who are very toxic and again I'm using the word narcissist because I know some of you feel like that's what you're dealing with and others you might not be you might just be dealing with someone who is just a toxic turd stain you might just be dealing with somebody like that all right that's I just before I pull your charms they're calling for some dates and actually because Alex said that I'm giving him OCD issues with my cards being all over the table because we know that Alex is the end-all be all here to the channel and by the way Alex I've been reading your posts in the chat and I hope that you are doing well I don't know exactly what's going on I mean I hope that for everybody but I know he was struggling with somebody and Alex if this is your reading then maybe you have something you got to take care of I can't you know I just feel like I just feel like I got to get these cards off the table it's really not it's really not about anybody saying oh that's craziness there I really just feel like I have less of a headache now thank you very much all right let me say dates please all right February 10th it's Aquarius February 10th and the first February 1st and the 10th we have October 6th we have October 2nd and the first okay we have Scorpionic Energy here wait a minute we have Libra so I'm picking out November 3rd through the 13th okay April 5th and 6th we have May 8th we have June 2nd and June 10th hmm well all of a sudden I have like a tickle in my throat please don't post I'll tickle you through for you know how you guys are earth sign water sign okay something happened October of this year for some of you we're still in October but more specifically something happened on October 21st something occurred let's say July 14th December 2nd all right I gotta hurry up August 19th September 4th and 15th September 1st 12th and 9th okay if those dates resonate for you this is definitely your reading all right let me get some charms I just hope I don't have like a coughing fit I think the candles situation you know what I think I'm gonna get I'm gonna get those battery operated candles look at how the candles just jump in and the other one is very still holy crap there's a visitor here some of you have your cat on you right now your cat is purring all right charm time did I mix up my charms no I forgot okay the heck is that thing tangerine well somebody's nickname tangerine tangerine dream I'm also seeing a berry berries somebody loves berries maybe you're eating berries or some kind of seeded fruit at this time and you have a wow you know what this is a love heart but this is a very small heart I feel like a lot of you your love is shrinking for someone it's not as big as it used to be oh god you have the mirror wow what did I say earlier in the reading about somebody mirroring you okay this doesn't actually have him well kind of has a mirror on it but somebody mirroring you or there's you know narcissists looking in the water it is reflection or her reflection all the time this person could be constantly posting selfies all the time very narcissistic very needing attention and I'm not I'm talking excessively like 20 at a time every other day very very like full of themselves are very insecure type of energy excessive I'm not saying having a selfie is a bad thing okay not at all I'm saying excessiveness this person just absolutely loves themselves but they don't really it looks that way I love when the American flag comes out build back better y'all okay Christmas candle oh is somebody like lighting a candle for somebody or you have your lighting a candle for someone that's this is like a prayer ritual or you've got somebody in your life maybe you don't even know they're lighting a candle for you for healing okay here's a guitar or a musical in just a force that could look like a bass four-stringed instrument okay not sure if somebody plays an instrument I also have a dinosaur the heck this is a this is a t-rex maybe somebody's name was Rex or somebody's name is Rex or something to do with a t-rex I'm not sure Jurassic very Jurassic II I love when you guys post comments or something about the the charms after I give you like a message about what it means for you like there's an American flag a dinosaur a Christmas candle I heard the name Holly too like Holly they just pop that out related to this Christmas candle because it looks like it's got Holly around it Holly leaves Holly love a mirror a small little red heart a berry a seeded berry fruit and a bass guitar okay so one more oh little boy okay some of you some of you were dealing with a little boy acted like a child not a grown-up meaning like you had a relationship with someone who is very immature some of you might have a little boy that is very special to you right now for some reason or something it could be a little child connected to you in some way it's a male it's a boy not that if you have other children they're not special to you but there's something about this little boy at this time something I feel I don't know if this little boy received some kind of award or a recognition for something or does something that's very wonderful like it feels joyous it doesn't feel it feels playful and joyous it doesn't feel negative it's not like anything bad one more oh you have a honeybee do you know what's funny about that a honeybee I was sitting outside this afternoon on the phone talking on the phone and a honeybee landed right on my thumb you know my sexy thumbs a honeybee landed right on my thumb and just sat there I don't think honeybee sting I don't know if they do I wasn't afraid but I was like wow and I just thought this honeybee is like scrambling because the weather is getting cold and she's trying to stay alive and the weather is getting colder and she's trying to survive and I just let her sit there and then she just flew away and I feel like she was kind of like coming to the end of her times because the season is changing up here so if you see honeybees or if one lands on you or something don't kill it feel like they're just going through their process right now there's just a message to you that the season is changing and you have to change along with it grow with it don't allow things to don't let anything hold you back leave the past in the past if that's something that you have to do go for it if you're not ready to do that just yet you wind up going back to somebody or trying again you know sometimes maybe you have a few more lessons you need to learn I mean you don't have to but if you do then you do and you're still welcome back here and we still love you and we'll still support you whatever you're going through all right you guys that's it I'm gonna leave the messages here and yeah I'll be making that announcement soon not gonna say what it is yet though it's actually something different than what I was announcing recently but I'm still trying to figure out like logistics and how something is gonna happen and how it can happen and if it even should happen but I will let you guys know very soon I love you all thank you this is my most favorite YouTube channel in the world and you Virgos are my most favorite people in the world and I love you all I'll see you guys tomorrow all right take care