 Tomorrow. Hey, I'm here. Are you gonna lie to me too? You gonna tell the truth? No, let's talk What's going on tomorrow First off, are you a do you have children? I do? I'm a baby You're a baby mama. Are you are you like a fantasia baby mama or you like a brandy baby mama? Two different songs. I like both of them. Okay. I can't how many children do you have? Okay, and how old are you? I'm 30. Are you married? I'm a baby mama. Okay, so What my question initially was is there any chance for you baby mama's either high-value men and if so What should you have to do? What do you have to say on the subject? So I feel like I am Attracting high-value men the guy that I'm talking to I've been talking to him for like six months and He is marriage-minded and he does throw out, you know questions and Do you have a son or a daughter? I have a daughter. Okay, and your daughter's how? Seven. Okay. So he's marriage-minded He is he's marriage-minded and so I mean, of course, you know, it's six months now, so It might be to the point where we should probably being be exclusive But he hasn't actually asked me to That doesn't compute you're right. How can he be marriage-minded and you're not exclusive? No, we're not exclusive like he's made comments about you know, me being his wife I want you to be my wife. Are you guys sexually active? No, we haven't had sex. Okay. Why? Why because I don't get I'm stingy I'm stingy with the with the put Excuse me. I'm stingy with it. I do not give it up easily. Were you married to your were you married to your daughters? You're your baby mama, right? Never been married. No, but I just okay. Hold on. Let me let's talk about this though. See I Find it funny that Women like yourself baby mamas all of a sudden want to get stingy with the puss after you didn't gave your womb up before a ring But then you want the high value man to put a ring on it before he gets it You got damn right you already did because here's the thing See, that's what I mean Ma'am, you're a used vehicle wanting brand new 2021 prices You can laugh all you want to ma'am, but you just said six months. You're not even exclusive You're talking about he's marriage-minded. What do you think he's inserting his penis in his hand? No, that's the thing he could be in certain it's somewhere exactly because here's the thing me with options don't play these games I'm not telling you what you have to do But I'm telling you that if you're telling us or telling me that you have had sex with a man and had a child outside of marriage And then you go into the dating market and telling another guy you got to pay a higher price than this other guy did Is the child's father in the life? Yeah, he's in his life. He's in her life. Is he a high value man? I would say so. No, no, is he making ten thousand dollars a month or more? No, then he's not a high value man There's the guy that you've been with six months who's not exclusive making ten thousand dollars a month or more Yeah, so in other words the the broke one for free, but the rich can't even get this is crazy This is crazy I honestly think that a lot of the advice out there is to Reserve the goodies. There's no reserving anything ma'am. You've already had a child see see the advice that you're getting that from Let me let me take it down a bit. The advice that you ladies are getting there from is from women I'm telling you as a man as a high value man who have high value men clients and friends This is one of the things that puts you in the no category. He may enjoy your time You may like seeing you, but I guarantee you this you are not seriously on his radar Because in eat there's no way he can go back and tell his colleagues other high value men this story and maintain respect You are saying you had a child with a lower value man But then you're with a higher value man, and you won't even have sex You're not a child you're 30, right I'm 30. Yeah, so why are you playing games with this sex? It's manipulation, ma'am. That's what it is Why it's not it's six months ma'am. It's not six days. It's manipulation No, no, you can see and see here's what happened Let me tell you let me let me go ahead and play the magic eight ball for you When you finally decide to to give it up to him. He's gonna take it and he's gonna split Because men do not like to be played like this Yes My guess is you've already blown this Men do not like to be played like this. He has investments in this so he wants to get the tail But you I don't know here's the thing I don't know why why do know why you've heard this some Steve Harvey and all these other dating gurus But you know what no men follow Steve Harvey There no men in these audiences and one of the biggest mistakes you ladies try to do is to become born-again virgins I'm waiting 90 days after you're already mothers You're laughing but You played yourself You said he's marriage-minded, but then you say he's not monogamous. Why would he be? That's a question Did you ever think of it this way or are you thinking of it like most women like you're in the power position? You're approaching this like you are in the power position in a negotiation Do you make more than him? I do There you go That's what I thought That's what I thought right there You make more you make more than him, but you had baby for a lesser man Your godfather is certified. Oh, you made a mistake ma'am. I get it. I get it But let me try to help you with how men look at this You earn on par with the high-value man Yes Okay, you earn on par with him and he's getting less from you How long were you with the child your father your child's father your baby daddy? How long we all together Probably four years four years and then what year did you have your child? We were off and on I had my child in 2012 I don't know what that means ma'am. I don't know your life. What year of the relationship? 2012 can you hear me? Yes, but but how long had you been together before you got pregnant? About a year. So you've been with him for six months. He can't get no coochie You are with this lower earning man for a year and he can get a baby. I Was young. Oh, let me stop you right there. That's not that's that's some I know, but where do we go from here? Oh, here's what you go from here. Here's what you go from here. You here's what you go from here Are you listening? You listen Don't don't this up playing games. You're playing games And I'm trying to get I'm trying to help you not this up You're lucky to have somebody even dealing with you especially somebody at his level and you're playing games with him There are younger women out without children out there who are not putting him through this There's another thing though exactly and he can go get it exactly. So here's the thing Can you go get another one of him? Yeah, okay, then good luck to that. See that's and that's what I wanted to hear. See ladies This is what I need you to hear. This is this woman is playing games This woman is playing games and that's what I mean. No, no, no, no, no This is what I your place this woman's playing games She's got a man sound like a decent man and she's slow playing him and ultimately it's cuz she got her own money And if he needs something he can go get it from somewhere else, brother. I hope you do go get it from somewhere else Because if you and this woman thinks it 30 years old, she's still thinking she's the 20 some she's hit the wall She just don't know what yet What you are now witnessing is the birth of an eternal seven in five to seven years This woman is going to become hell on wheels to men This is gonna be that we're all a good man all these dusties and crusties and downloads. I can't get this can't get that You've heard about him on the channel anytime I talk to a woman in the mid early the mid to late 30s early 40s I can't find no good man and then find out what you didn't had one, but you slow played him Remember remember months and months and months you've heard these women had a baby early on Well, I was dumb and made a mistake But then you want to make this other guy jump through hoops that this guy didn't jump through for those who are keeping score at Home for a year. She got pregnant with a guy in a year Who's making less money than her? And she's been with a high earning man for six months. He ain't seen no part to the punani He's already talked about marriage stuff and so forth, but she's playing with him And then you wonder why when you run into guys like this They slow play you Because they deal with women like this. I'll let you have the last word Kevin. I just really wanted to say You know to advocate for women like me even better I don't have a cape with foolishness Ladies understand something Don't listen to women like these don't take advice for women like these get away from women like this