 Any girl I walk up to on the street. I'm looking at dead in the eyes. I'm thinking I want to fuck you. I'm not sorry How much time have I got? Five minutes go damn. All right, cool. Well, I think I'm gonna wrap it up then so If anyone's interested in coaching with me the only way you can do that is on the Euro tour currently Myself and Sasha and Liam have just and Johnny Cooper lovely have just returned from this ten days around the clock through Central and Eastern Europe Meeting the hottest women in the world. It's not cheap nor should nor should it be We've sold out the first two tours and we have five places on the final tour If you want to get this stuff sorted in two weeks and not fuck around Come and speak to me after the talk you can find out more about what I do at the James Marshall.com the Euro tour Com the saucy governor loving you love it. That's John's website the natural lifestyles.com and Please add me on Facebook and ask me questions at three in the morning like everyone else now Does anyone have any questions about how to have more than one chick or anything else? Yeah right Great question, and I actually was gonna cover that and then I forgot so I'm glad you reminded me okay, how to troubleshoot this so You've you've done the talk you started this this open relationship paradigm Don't think that that's the end because over time Yes, even if she logically accepts it her emotions are gonna come into play and so will yours Don't think for a minute that if she's out there sleep with other guys that you're gonna be all cool with that This is actually a very advanced Way to live your life because you have to deal with a whole range of Emotional connections with different people that are happening at different stages one of them You're in the honeymoon stage one of them You're in the things getting rocky someone's getting jealous or whatever else so at times. Yes, the girl Will go through a period where she's not comfortable with the situation and you can't just say to her We had a deal if I can deal with it or walk we can But if you'd like to keep the girl around Really usually what she wants is to know that she is special to you and that she is able to voice her emotions So many times when you have a guy and a girl fighting the guys trying to you know Logically work. Well, I don't really see what the problem is because the screen door You know, I fixed it and then and she's like is always do this to me, but we can fix this or when you owned whatever Really what she wanted was for him to hug her and say I love you All right, so don't say that to girls your multiple relationships with So what I do is I preempt that I don't again don't wait when I notice that the girl is like being a bit colder Or I say how are you and she's like fine. I don't just ignore it I will bring it to a resolution point I love confrontation because it leads to resolution So many people are afraid of confronting somebody with an issue and therefore they let it fester until it explodes in some passive aggressive way So if there's something happening with her, I will say hey It looks like you're you're thinking about something. Are you not cool with what's happening with us? Let's talk about it and then I'll ask her to express exactly what's going on for her and Then she will you know, she might say well, you know, I just feel like why am I not enough or you know It's it's really hurting me that you're with other girls or you know I'm getting too many feelings for you or whatever is that's going on for her And then what you do is again back to the talk you say look I understand that this can be really difficult for you and I'm actually happy to talk about it and You allow her to vent it and show her that you're actually listening that and that she is special to you Because any woman that I it is a lover of mine is very special to me I don't I'm too old and fucking tired to do trashy one night stands anymore very often What I love having is an intimate deep connection with a girl over actually often over years But across different continents in different ways So these things will definitely come up and she is special to me and I need to let her know that That's primarily what the problem is. So once she's been able to express it again Though you must keep your boundary clear So you can say you understand, you know, I can see how it's hard etc etc But like I said at the beginning Brittany, this is this is what I'm doing in my life right now And this is what I want and I'll understand if that's now not no longer enough for you once again I check in with her and I just give her that chance to go Again, you are free to walk and when someone's free to go They girls want to be with a man that wants them but doesn't need them That's really powerfully attractive. So the door is always open either way for the girl and Sometimes girls will go all right. Look, I just can't handle it. They'll go off They go and find a boyfriend two years later. They break up with him. Who's the first guy they call me Because they know what my role is and they don't need to like act all awkward because they haven't called me in two years They can just go see me text. Hey, what are you up to? Well, well look who's back. Would you are you free on Friday? I'm totally cool with that. Does that answer your question? Awesome Next yeah Just my question is can you go from say like a previous ex-girlfriend? To put it into a multiple situation now. See my look on my face right now. No Once you we can't go you can't go back. Can't go backwards. You you cannot go from monogamous serious Exclusive relationship to open relationship now. I mean it has been done in history of the world You can try for as long as you want But you're not gonna go is it is that is that me being harsh to her because I know that she probably wants more But I go look I'll give you that and she'll take it. Am I being cruel to her? By allowing her to and I'm like I'm without the girls, but she wants is that I mean you're in a situation Where you've presented to the girl the offer she stays with you because she thinks she can change me I'm aware of that and I'm like well. I'm gonna change. Yeah, I'm gonna let you keep trying. Is that me being harsh? I well, I don't think that's a skillful move when I first started doing this. I basically I set it up I had five girlfriends, but it was pretty shaky because The girls had accepted the terms, but we're not really happy with the terms So what you really need to start doing is the more that you become solid in in your frame and archetype of this Is what role I play the less girls try and test it because they just look at me and they're like It's a waste of time trying to make him my boyfriend And on the other side you need to screen for girls who are up for that kind of thing and as I said It's not a type of girl. It's a girl at a particular time So, you know right from the very beginning. I would just set things up And I'll just say what do you think about dating a bunch of guys? And if they're like, oh, I never do that well I'm like cool and they're like yeah, well depends on the guy or whatever all right We're screening. We're starting to be on the same wavelength I go for girls who are very confident very confident have high self-esteem and are very clear about what they want Those girls tend to be far more open to this than girls who are insecure and needy Yeah, guys girls who are insecure and needy latch on to Be to protect a males and they just screen for each other and find each other with amazing accuracy every time What you're projecting out there is what you'll start attracting And if you're attracting girl is on the fence and she really wants more and whatever else You're probably in for some mess down the road It's probably kinder on her and more efficient on you to go out there and just say look I cannot give you what you need and go and find a girls who want it. Yeah, all right I think that's all I have time for. Thank you ladies and gentlemen. It's been a pleasure