 Consistency and kindness. You know, the number one trait most people appreciate within one another, either gender, is consistency and kindness. When you're consistent, you're not flaky, your actions don't match your words consistently, but most importantly, operating from a kind place, that's a trait that turns men and women on. Now, I'm talking about emotionally mature men. I might have said earlier, the vast majority if human beings are rather emotionally constipated or worse, emotionally dysfunctional. So this trait that I'm talking about will be inconsistent for those people that haven't learned how to regulate their emotions or those men that are seeking that one up, one down type of relationship.