 When the narcissist sells you a dream, the narcissist will give you what if scenarios? They will give you false hope They will paint a detailed picture of the future for you This is how they keep you under their control because they give you these false promises That things are going to get better They will tell you whatever they think you want to hear Because you've already told them what you want and need You've already told them what you're looking for So it's easy for them to present this image of the future to you and then they will use it to pretend As though they're really about it as though they want the same thing as you But they're just using it to prevent you from leaving them It doesn't mean that they're really going to go forward with it The future faking was a part of the love bombing when they first targeted you and Then they use it throughout the relationship to keep you stuck To keep you holding on for something better or greater To keep you thinking that maybe one day things will change They will tell you that they're going to do something They will tell you that they have all these plans for the future They just need time But they never take the steps to make it a reality Which is how you may waste years of your life for something to happen Because you don't realize it's all fake and even if you try to leave They will just use the future faking again They will make you think you're throwing away your future They will make you think you're the one who is giving up And then they will tell you they're going to give your future to someone else Someone who will stand by them Someone who would do anything for them Someone who's not going to give up They're good at using that imagination To give you a vision of the future So even if you leave It will make you come back It will make you wait for this possible future Until you realize nothing has changed Because they're just saying they're going to do something for you in the future So that they can get what they want now Which is very damaging to you It's very hurtful And it's humiliating Because you're being taken for a fool They're deceiving you about their true intentions But it's not hard for them to make you believe it Because it's something you want to believe You want to believe they're good people You want to believe they care about you But if you didn't believe it It wouldn't work They already know what you want to hear Because you've already told them And sometimes they may actually mean what they're saying to you Because whatever they feel becomes the truth Which means the truth can change depending on their feelings But their feelings can change from one moment to the next So the truth can change at any moment Their false promises can change They can't keep their promises Because they're a different person from one day to the next All the narcissist really cares about Is what they can get from you And they will agree to anything If it means that they can get something from you in that moment They may not think about the consequences of that agreement Or whether or not they actually want to do it But they will go along with it If it means they can get what they want So it doesn't really matter if they're lying or not If it's not going to happen now It's never going to happen Because they will change their mind at any moment There is no future with a narcissist There's only the same problems and lies That never get resolved Narcissists are good at selling people a dream They're good at future faking Because they're fake people They're used to deceiving people And they do it just to make themselves feel important Just to make themselves feel like they're worth something The false promises they give to you Are not really for you They're for the narcissist So that they can get what they want from you Or because it makes them feel good They don't want the responsibility of keeping these promises And they haven't even thought about how they're going to make it a reality They just say it because it makes them feel good It makes them feel important So despite all of the abuse Despite all of the problems and difficulties that you went through There is nothing in the future The narcissist just wanted you to believe that there was So that they could get what they want Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coachinganarchsurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon