 Does the narcissist regret Letting you go That is the question. I'm going to be answering in this video As you can see For this video we are in the Range Rover. I Haven't done a video in here for a while So something different. Okay, let's talk about it Do they regret letting you go? Yes, I know what they may regret letting go is the benefits and conveniences I came along with being with you So Maybe you gave them a place to stay You gave them money took them on trips You drove them around in your car You made it easy for them Their lives were easier by them being with you And that's really all it is. That's the only thing that they're going to regret letting go They're not gonna regret letting go of you as a person How could they regret letting go of that? They never even knew you They never actually sat down and took the time to get to know you So they don't even know who you are If they're a true narcissist and they are completely Self-absorbed and they like empathy They're not gonna know who you are as a person So how could they ever regret losing you or letting you go? That wouldn't make any sense because they just saw you as a Come-up an ATM An emotional tampon Or punching bag a Dormat a fool That is all you were to the narcissist you were nothing more than that So they're not gonna regret Letting you go as a person because they never even really knew you They never took the time to get to know you of course in a normal relationship Where you're not dealing with a narcissist Then yes, of course a person like that is going to Quite possibly feel regret By letting you go especially if Things are getting better for you and you're happier after you've moved on but then that's kind of how the narcissist feels as well if you move on and you're doing better and You're happier Maybe you've met someone new and they treat you better than the narcissist did and You're doing well in your business or your job. You're making more money You're traveling you're doing all the things you want to do and also all the things that they wish they could do then Yes, the narcissist will regret letting you go in that sense It's never to do with you as a person They don't miss you. They don't love you. They don't experience any feelings like that They're emotionally dead inside They don't feel anything but in the beginning they may have this kind of Infatuation they idealize you they see you as this perfect person But it's something that You can never live up to When you inevitably fall short then they turn against you they begin to hate you Because it then triggers them to reflect on their own insecurities and deficiencies Of course, they don't like that So that is why they turn against you and they hate you It all comes back to how they feel about themselves. They're very insecure and they blow self-esteem And as I've always said How a person Treats you is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves Let me repeat that for you again How a person treats you is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves If a person is happy and satisfied with their lives There's no way that they can hate you They can't turn against you They wouldn't want to do anything that might harm you But of course when a person is miserable and they're not happy with their lives Then they can pour that hatred they have for themselves and for where they are in life They can pour that on to you because they've got it inside of them to give to you You can't give someone something that you don't already have So whatever they're given to you that you don't like just know that it's coming from them It's nothing to do with you. It's to do with them. I'm sure there's There's a saying something like you can't get blood from an orange. I mean if you squeeze an orange You're gonna get orange juice You're not gonna get apple juice Just like if you squeeze a narcissist or you squeeze an angry person You're gonna get anger. You squeeze a hateful person. You're gonna get hate That's just how it is you squeeze a happy person. You're gonna get happiness That's just how it is for the narcissist. They cannot give you something that they don't have They can only give you what they've got Yeah, when you're dealing with a narcissist. It's always Hatreds anger Envy jealousy, that's what's on the menu You're not gonna get anything else Those are especially the emotions. They're gonna have If they do ever feel like they regret letting you go It's just gonna make them even more mad. It will make them turn against you even more Narcissists will always end up becoming your adversary your enemy your opponent They'll always be in opposition to you never in agreeance That's what makes narcissists so difficult to deal with it's marked by Them being oppositional Never in agreement with you so Keep that in mind When you think about if the narcissist regrets letting you go They're not thinking of it like oh we were a team We were on the same sides. We have the same goals and objectives They're not thinking like that you are and you always will be Their opposition Otherwise, they're not a true narcissist Narcissists cannot Consistently be in agreement With you they don't operate like that So, yeah, I hope this helps Anyone who has this question if they're wanting to know does the narcissist Regret let me go There's your answers right there, and I hope that it is helpful to you Let me know Down in the comments if it is or if it isn't I'd love to hear from you Let me know your thoughts if it was helpful, please give it a thumbs up down below Helps our community and if you'd like to book a one-on-one coaching session with me You can do that from my website. It is narksurvivor.co.uk And check on my Instagram as well I've got new pictures and videos on there every day I've just been putting up some new Pictures and videos of my travels in Japan So check that out. 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