 kwa mtukidasu na ukatakustu kwa mnangu ka ukatasi pga msi, wajana wajana nakaama saka rebusana Yama nakaama na ukataka nakaama kwa kufisha mawa kwa umisha kwa 2 kufisha kwa mtukidasu hi ya hi hwen hay kwa kuna meguna kwa umisha kwa kuna kwa mtukidasu kwa mtukidasu kwa mtukiza We need, like, to go upa tia mwili paulia, but so that Katatike can really come through and buy up. Of course. I am Dana Lorraine. I'm a singer. I'm an actress. And yeah, so many other things you'll have to find out by yourself later on. Yes. I'm just going to slide that in there and answer hi. Hi, I'm Josh from the University of Nairobi. I'm still a student. What do you study, John? Chemistry. What? Chemistry. Yanidze chemistry is doing high school. You not decided to continue with this in the university level. I'm confused. It's like I expected him to be coming with a lab coat. Oh, wait and stuff. That's surprising. I didn't see that coming. Welcome, John. Social media handles. I'm Josh. That's on Twitter, Facebook. I'm not a friend of IG. He's surprising. Okay. You're a man of few words, but today we're going to need you to talk. Okay? I took more. Oh, good morning, sir. Morning too. You look very dashing. Thank you. Wow, winning just 2019. Thank you. What is your name? Edward Michuki. Any relation to Michuki? I am very not informed. Find out. You never know. Kamaliya. I'd like you to hold the mic a little bit closer to yourself. Thank you. Are you on social media by any chance Facebook and the like? Yes. Facebook, Edoics. Twitter, Edoics. I'm a preacher. I'm a singer. I'm a father. We should do a collab. Wait. Good things happen when you watch one in the morning. I know, right? All right. You said you're a dad. I'm married, that is. Welcome. We are going to need an opinion of your kind of mindset. Thank you. I hope you're ready to spit wisdom into our lives. Let's talk about group psychology. What do you think group psychology is? I think group psychology, this combination of more than one person coming together for a common goal and a given mind with an intention. And I think with our society today it is so much rampant to a point that you find like almost everybody needs to be involved somewhere. And I would challenge that everybody needs to be somewhere because the world today is so much improved to a point where we are getting I think we use the word we are becoming more digital. It is important if we can become one we can come together so that we can attain our goal and get to our perceptions. Lakin this kia goal ni ampiratu atia Man City. Atazi Chelsea. Did you watch that? I would try this baby. What was that assassination? The fans are complete. Chelsea fans are sleeping right now. They are asleep. They are not watching anything. That's the one. How do you get beaten like that? And then weirdly enough, do these guys when you lose you still get paid? They have to be paid. We have digressed slendons. I want to bring what he is saying into the context of today's topic. Group psychology. Kwanzaa pawendu tafraya. Yuna jo nara represent boi chaleo. Example, you want to approach a lady. Sasa, for example, madame. But wakwengi. Not a pigakelele. So you are going nicely to talk to the one that you have seen or women's sport. But they are table of girls. And on your way to go say hello or something, all the rest make noise. We talk up and then we get paid. How do you first of all deal with that? One woman is working. First something. Okay, it's not cool. But it happens. Because she said earlier, they call her mother hen. Something of the sort. Squeezy Konaswag, alpha female. The chair of the group. Okay, I'm preventing. I'm preventing to say some more there. Yes, tabiri tumi zema. Uledi mamegota. She's always the chair. And you know, the chair decides, she decides everything. And in most cases, the chair is that girl. You will least have interest in what she decides. Most of the time, our chances are minimized. You reach there. Okay, you are approaching the girl. You have spotted. But the one you don't have interest in, is the one standing in front telling you, so it's something. Yeah, exactly. Then they start, they classify you. By the way, we look at your shoes, from what you're wearing, apples, the way. So, I think they should actually change. And since we have the pastor here, we should advise her. You want us to be prayed for now? Help us understand pastor. I need you to... She has a strong personality. We're the same, by the way. I think I've heard Nora say, mada hen, mada hen, mada hen for female. I mean it's a challenge. And say, problem kubu ina kuja kwa sabi ya kitu na ita fear. Fear is the greatest problem of a man. I'm not saying this because I'm married. I'm saying this because I've gone through it. So, boy child hana shida. Kenye boy child na mefanya, ni kuogopa. Ya ni, ile, ile, ile, ile, kamentality ya komba, tuni eda beijin, tsa sa ladies can talk and all that. Iunina pa ya boy child shida. Otherwise, boy child badawa na baki kuakichua. And we'll challenge and say, atu fai kuogopa. Okay. God created man to be a man. And man was created first. So, ile vitwingine ina kuja ina ku challenge, unafawu juime kuja badawa. So, fai ku atu pretend. So, fai ku atu pretend. Ile unaka, unaogopa like now, kwa sababu mambua unataka, ni to come out. Use me kenye unataka because you are a man. Lakin nisa sa ukikuwa intimidated because of, ile voice ule kutana na ya moanzo, alafu nitaka kuone shalai ni me lailo apundi ushida na ingiliya. Na ina onekana kama boy childa me kaliwa. Otherwise, we're still there. Someone clap for him. Someone clap for the pasto. Yeah, thanks. As he has said. It's actually true. For me, if you come unaka, nika uko 50, 50, 50, 50, I will not give you the time of the day. I'll be like, what do you want? Deal with whatever you want. Tell me and bounce. We actually are confident enough and come and tell me, yo, I see you looking good. I was thinking maybe you can go out on a dinner or something. And if I decline also, you might be all that confident, but I have looked at other things. So you might be all confident up in my face and stuff, but then I've already smelt you from afar and I'm like... Smelt. Yes, smelt you from afar. So I'm like, nah, sorry. I can't go out on a date with you. It usually depends on the certain scenario most of the time. I have a story. But before we do the story, I want to remind you guys we are giving away monies. We want you to write in a limo zen. So what you do is just take a short video of yourself dancing and then post it on social media tag at Y254 on Facebook, Y254 channel on Twitter. Hashtag is katika na mash auto. So once you do that, the video with the most likes gets to be part of the competition on Saturday from around 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Now the prizes include, first of all, everyone gets a certificate of participation and then the top ten will get a ride in a limo and then the top three get monies number one, 30,000, number two, 20,000, number three, 10, those are thousands guys and it's the month of love. We have a couple of sites coming up so just in a minute. But my story, there it was, my name, my own business. So it was my friend's birthday party. So we go, enjoying, enjoying. So she had it out in a club and then she invited a couple of people. So we had our own section. You'd have like a dress code or something because they're very secret. That's all that I can't do this. So it was polite. People were there, were having fun, good time and then some guy approaches her and she didn't like it. So she comes and tells me, I need you to help me out. When you see me, that's a particular member. Just need to, nipatieshuguli, ndua niache, nnamombia an onoke but haski. I'm like, okay. So I came on a TV, she gives me a kaloka and I'm like, okay. So I came on a TV, she gives me a kaloka and I know even me now what I'm supposed to and I know the story. I know the diverse, diverse people. So you're a surgeon. Now I'm coming back. But she's my friend. Ah, for us we... You think that's the reason now? It's not my business. You don't see it as the reason. You think you're never asked for it? Yeah, because I would... At the same zone. No, if I had a problem, if I had someone who kept insisting, he had known that he's being romantic and he's being persistent. Me na na na nisumbu. Na nisumbu, na na nisumbu na niskin, kimambiania. I'll tell my sister in Christ here wiki onamtu apua na nisumbua, sumbua, mambiania. Amakai, moneyata wuxkiya wewe, twende inje, tufanya kakitu. So finally, eventually we hope it gets the hint. So na mi nimeside ya. Ki doko bocha comes lamenting, oh, siji alpha female refused. So na she has been shut down. Siji na you have to appease the alpha female first. Siji umbe kakitu, siji jiwe, siji umbe, ah, imagine it's not that serious, like it wasn't that serious. But why did you ask Mike to talk to me? Like, you should come and know me approachiva. You should be the person to decline, not that you sent your alpha female. I think, yokchi na, inaribu. Come on, you are a boy who is approachable and you don't know me. Like you are the one who has the qualities of a boy. So na, you have to decline, not sending your chair, a lab calling her chair. But ask me, ume decline, ume decline ask me. No, me have a question. Ask me as a son. Wait, wait, wait. Ume juwajie, uyu, uyu, uyu boy child, uyu, ume ume ume putof, na uemone kumunye kwa miena, aki kujya umpeshuguli and other. Ume umeshamu analyze kiaji into juwe, hayu kosawa. But usually, you don't have time to analyze. Okay, okay, okay. Listen. Listen. Yeah. Today, nita, nita, kwa advise for free. Uhum. Usiwa hida raumtuna outlook yake. Me atasimutu. No, it's not even a matter of outlook. It's not a matter of outlook. There is a problem with our, with our ladies. Unlike, squeeze it na tembele makuchan, niskem nina kusema, aki a kosawa, kisekomba ke kanyaga umbu, iwe zikufa. Ah, yeah. Okay. And that's a new idea. Nilewa. But I want to challenge us. There is a problem. Uhum. And we are learning in the problem every other day. Kosababu, gani. We want to, to think, yani ile, ile, ile tuya kawahida, yani ina kwangalia, and like, nime maleza. You get the pointer. And I think that is the greatest problem. Kosababu, the moment in kwangalia, maybe I've not seen the figure I wanted to see. Uhum. If you've not seen the money you wanted to see. Uhum. And maybe you don't understand it's a trap. Mwanzonata ka nikuwin because these are material things we'll just follow. Okay. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. Uhum. You can be blessed na baraka kwa ume barikiwa ndiwa ue wupoke, mani elewa. So ue wumenda ku kuputof this boy cha, right? Nisa wajume peba yoru idini. But why don't you think, you know, kama uti na reasons, akupe reasons na umpati efakta. Na yo ndo ena fanya leotu ungele kwa sebabu, most of us today ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa ndiwa. Like, nimi na jua kama jambe wa, I can't. No, sasa uno ona eile una ndiwa, what can you na tewa is the wrong information. Lakini ona chuko right kwa sababu gani. You are in a group of people, you are in this group, psychology, yene wan tako konesha, we can think for you. No, God created you to think. Now. Not people to think for you. Kaisu is clapping hands. The problem is here, okay it's not actually a problem. Once you come and ask me for my help as the girl, like you, my friend, and you come and ask me for my help, I'll definitely help you out, then story bad die. So she comes and calls me. No, you're not an ami, you're not an ami to tell me you will ask after. Yes, I will definitely ask after. Unless there is danger. I will ask after because at that particular point you need my help, you're like ei mazebe tafadali, get this guy. But as long as you're not fighting, you need to ask. If people are not fighting, you just ask. Okay, let me. If you're not fighting like physically, me so long as you come and tell me, ei mazeum say, staki radake, do something about it, I'll definitely, okay I will not like be all up in your face. But you know what lawyer, the biggest challenge upon me Yes. Uia me kwa mbe hivu kusababu, wewen do kusema. Si kwa sababu anataka umsa hidi a zinwen yunafkiria. Ni kwa sababu anatua wewu spongi, ani wewu spongi. When do spokesman work, I'm a spokeswoman. Ani, wewu dewa na pokuambia ti, wewu boin putofu. Ni sisa ni kama wewen diwo bosswake. Ataka, ataka, ataka, ataka, jana hiyu monatumbola zima kutafutu kwa mbenilu monatumbola. I don't understand it. I think there's a breakdown, there's a breakdown in communication. First wait, let's just take this back a bit. First of all, there are two things that I want to tell you. We're going to the slides a little bit. First of all, it's not that serious. When I tell her, if at all we're friends and I tell her, please tell this one to leave me alone. It's not that, I'm not looking at you because oh, you look some type of way. I'm ready determined, I'm not going to marry you. Oh, naka, ongo, ongo. You're not that much. No, because we do this with people either who look like they have money or even people who pop champagne. They keep sending bottle, we keep sending back. We don't want your money. I've actually heard that scenario of somebody buying booties to my table. We don't want. Then, I literally had to even shout at the waiter because I was like, yo. Stop bringing back. Take them back. When we gave, we had the plan. So why would you want to buy me? Again, again, this is not us attacking you. It is just, maybe we wanted to have a girl's night out. And then girls night out in a manisha. Girls night out. It's not like boys night out. I want now to say this, you were the problem. Because if you called this boy child and told him, explain. What if he doesn't want to listen? First of all, to me patana yosiku, I don't owe you anything. I don't owe you an explanation. If my friend, the one you want, does not want, then leave. Now to make it better, you need to explain to him. Whichever way. I don't owe you an explanation. Ume muwana yosiku, ama me kuwanae. No, I want to believe mani ume ni. Kwa isi meeting. Tumenda sherehe. Isi meeting. Sikata ii, sikata ii nisiki zi pointi angu. Pointi angu kuwapa. Whichever way me kuwanae. Na haumu utaki. Kwaninu umtumani? Juhaski, wuki muwambia. Uya kishina kimombia. Leave me, leave me, leave me, leave me, leave me, leave me. Uwa nona. Lemi just, let me just follow her. Wacha, infakt, nimi lewesheki dogon. By the time tumali zi story. Ako, sikwana taka, but, ah ah, sikwana kata yos story. Atutaki, atutaki. The problem, the problem actually comes. When, see, I come away with kata, that can be a bit understandable. But she does not know what it is. Like, she knows what it is. But when the boy child is born, like he is a lawyer. Running mate. Running mate. Lawyandi anaka. Lawyandi anaka, kata, ati usikubaliu boys, juane ni ni. Now, ono juwa madem. See, ma boy, like ma boys. Mine zaku tan na boy pale. Nimuite. Like, nimuite tuji na inaka, tumatu si. Like, niya jengamia. Then, niki endambele. We are friends. Batsashida madem, na itana babe, bae, my wife. Then up onbele, minachukiana. So, the mother hen, most of the time amona uboya kosawa. So, niwevu tu, ataki beshtiake, apate uboy. You see, again, break down in communication. Bono mnona tu nona wevu. Do you even know when you're madem? What do you feel like you have that we want? Honesty, ni metu kakusoma atikolingine apu. And that's how we got some of these slides. That says, we as females feel like it's like genetics. So, we want the best genes. Si genetics ni kwa na manome. So, to get the best genes, we are willing to fight each other at it to get the prize. And I understand what you're saying, kus kama mwamendika, it's biology, it's science. But when you say to God, you don't even have to think about it. You don't have to think about it. But you have to be with us.