 Hello everyone, I have the live video here on Knox Fiverr. The narcissist always does this at the end. There's one thing that can really help you to identify whether or not you were dealing with a narcissist but unfortunately you may not realize this until it gets towards the end of the relationship because that is when you will see them playing the victim acting as though you treated them unfairly you did something wrong to them acting as though it was all your fault because that's what narcissists tend to do at the end they blame you even though you were really the victim in all of that they will blame you for it they will say that it was your fault and that's really how you know what you were dealing with because in a normal healthy relationship it's never just one person to blame we can accept that we made faults we made mistakes but that's something that narcissists cannot do so at the end of the relationship you will find them blaming you for everything you will find them playing the victim and that's when they will then force their flying monkeys if they haven't already they will start a smear campaign and they will use that as an excuse to move on from you you if you discard them then they will use that to play the victim as well they will say that you abandoned them without help or support they will accuse you of all kinds of things they might exaggerate things that you've already done mistakes you may have made and they will bring up things from the past as well things that are completely irrelevant to the current situation at hand but they will just pull it out of nothing just to say there's something wrong with you you're the one who's at fault because of something that happened many years ago no matter how irrelevant it may be to the current situation because when it comes down to it that's all it's really about it's just about blaming you it's about them avoiding accountability for their actions and choices so yeah this is what narcissists will do at the end of the relationship and they may even do it before that it really depends on your own situation but it's definitely something to watch out for if you're not experiencing this yet they will heavily start to play the victim towards the end because it's either when they're getting ready to discard you or because they fear that you're going to discard them so they have to prepare themselves for that but yeah as I said any normal relationship people can be accountable for where they find themselves because in any relationship there are going to be arguments disagreements people are going to make mistakes that's normal but the narcissist cannot deal with any faults any accountable with making a fault or mistake and they don't want to deal with the consequences for their actions so they have to put it all on to you they have to make everyone believe that you're this evil or crazy person but deep down they know that's exactly what they are and that's why they hold on to this false narrative so strongly because deep down they know the truth they know that it's them they knew that all along that something was wrong with them they knew that they were the ones who were at fault that's why they hold on to the narrative so strongly because deep down they know the truth they know that they are condemned so it's all about gaslighting you and making you think that you're the crazy one making you think that you're at fault something is wrong with you or you're not enough that's the game they play and whenever someone plays that game with you it should tell you everything you need to know about them because when a person feels like they're on your level they feel no need to do that so yeah that's what they will do towards the end of the relationship for many of you it may bring you down understandably it's not easy to deal with but i hope that from watching this video it should also reveal to you everything you need to know about them it should reveal to you their true character what they're really about the person you see at the end of the relationship that's who they really are anyway i hope that this video has been helpful to you of course the end of the relationship is normally the most difficult part of it all but i hope that what i've said here can provide some clarity to you and i also recommend checking out my tiktok videos as well i'm trying to post more now trying to do it every day so check out my tiktok it's narc survivor youtube just like to thank you all for joining me this evening here i am thank you all for supporting the channel and you all have a good day