 Most people in relationships, it's hard. It's hard work. There's differences that you have and you need to come together on the things that you find similar and help the other person understand and navigate around things that you're different with. When you're autistic and you have, you're a neurotypical autistic relationship, you already have differences just based on being a different person, but then you also have being autistic, having a different brain type, having a different baseline, level of social ability, having a different propensity for being extroverted and introverted and expressing your emotions, due to things like alexithymia. There are a lot of differences and so inevitably, if you don't talk about things, then you get a lot of crossed wires.