 Hey everyone, welcome to another live video. We are out here in Scotland Live from the hot tub at this Airbnb. I'm staying out here Let's see if I can sit down without Dropping my phone got the alcohol-free beer You know how I do The biggest mistake The narcissist ever made What do I mean when I say that? Well The biggest mistake the narcissist ever made Was taking you for granted It was not appreciating you not realizing just how great you are and I'm able to say this because I've personally spoken to so many of you and I found that you're all very intelligent people Very attractive people and of course The narcissist was fully aware of this When they targeted you We know that narcissists Look for the best They want people who are intelligent Attractive powerful and successful That's what they're looking for but then Because we're only human Because we do have flaws and imperfections We do make false and mistakes They devalue us and then in some cases It's not even anything to do with what we've done Maybe they've done something wrong and they don't own it So they project their insecurities on to us They shift the blame as I've said before There comes a point in the relationship But the narcissist has to make a decision They have to make a choice And that choice is between their source and their false self And no narcissist is going to choose their source or their false self Because all that really matters to them is their image of reputation Because their image of reputation gets them supplied it gets them attention and aberration So they're not going to drop the act To treat you with the appreciation and respect that you deserve It's just not going to happen So yeah, the biggest mistake The narcissist ever made Was discarding you Devaluing you Taking you for granted Not appreciating you Not being grateful And that's why They often just End up downgraded in the end They're forced to settle for less But they might brag and boast about it and act like it's so much more than what it really is They have to do that. It's all about their image But deep down they know They know How good they had it with you You just got to look back and think about everything you did for them There aren't many people Who would be willing to do what you did for them You were their grade-A source of supply Most of you if you're watching my videos you were the grade-A source And that's why you're on here trying to figure this stuff out because they took advantage of us They used us But in the end they have to return to where they belong The standard that they're used to They knew all along that they weren't supposed to be with us They knew it was only a matter of time until it was going to end They were all about just getting in taking what they can And then getting out of there As cleanly as possible Thank you for the donations true love ghetto paradise productions and healing hurts. I Greatly appreciate it Yeah, the narcissist made a big mistake and they may never own that mistake Because as we know they don't like to take Responsibility They don't like to hold themselves accountable for what they've done, but we don't have to wait around Long to own that mistake Because as we know they're never gonna hold themselves accountable anyway, you've just got to make the most of our own lives, you know live our best lives Get out here in nature Such a nice view here. I've been traveling through Scotland Got all the Pictures and videos of my travels on my Instagram And I'll survive a YouTube But yeah, just chillin out here. I hope everyone's doing well. I hope you're all focusing on healing practicing self love Self care. All right, that's all for this one Thank you all for joining the life Hope to see you in the premieres later today, and if you're interested in coaching You could now book through the website www.narchsurvivor.co.uk Thank you all for joining