 you know the things that I've just listed now tend to be things that people who have executive dysfunction find excessively hard those minuscule tiny tasks around the house that are always there and you always have to do them I personally I really struggle with that aspect of my life I am happy doing the videos I'm happy going about and and going to the gym and going to work and doing all my social media stuff but when it comes to the actual life things that keep you maintained and keep you clean and just make make life a bit more smoothly those are the things that I really struggle with I don't think in in in any circumstance you should take on a caring role in an autistic neurotypical relationship sure there are going to be things that they find hard but it's a reciprocal relationship you're in