 This TikTok is going viral by these two half Asian women that talk about dating Asian guys man It's sparking a discussion. Let's talk about it. Yeah, this TikTok went viral. Let's run the clip You have arm hair. Oh Your dad's Asian one You must have game Wait, but I'm five six Trying to bulk up hold up. How much do you weigh? You should be a fairy for Halloween But not like a small fairy Did you shave your sideburns? Oh This is really interesting because I think in the past Andrew half Asian women would always make these TikToks about dating white guys And the awkward or cringe or just like I guess non-calibrated things that white guys would say But now these hop of women Andrew are talking about the odd things that the full Asian guys they date say yeah And I think it's funny because this TikTok if you're an Asian guy and you've you know other Asian guys And you know how Asian guys think when they meet like a pretty hop a girl who would date a full Asian guy Some of these things are set. It's funny. Some of it is true It's for sure true But I think what is really interesting is that it led to a discussion on Reddit David and this guy made a whole Post about it kind of based off it basically summing up to say hey Asian guys things are getting better for us There's a lot of non Asian women and mixed Asian women who want to date us now. Let's stop being awkward Let's stop bringing up the racial dating imbalance dynamics. They don't need to hear those things Let's just act like we've been here before right right right He was saying let's not be like rookies to this or seem like we are such rookies But the truth is my old takeaway was like but a lot of guys probably are rookies That's why you see people making rookie mistakes or saying rookie things Yeah, anyways guys. We're gonna delve into discussion. Please hit that like button check out other episodes of the hot pot boys Check out small ass sauce at small ass sauce calm now available for pre-orders guys the previous match went quick You are gonna want to order this right away. I will say this. It's interesting because now I think in the past would you agree with me that people would assume that a half Asian girl would almost always go With her white side in the past it seemed that way majority wise And now it seems like they're starting to go more with their Asian side. Obviously, there's a distribution There's a variance, but a higher ratio are picking their Asian side, right, right? And I guess that's leading to guys that they're dating that are full Asian I don't want to say Andrew. Are they trauma dumping on them or are they are they like I? Think I think a lot of it is jokes. I think it's bringing it up Like oh your dad must be pretty cool if he's the Asian guy who got like a hot white girl You know back in the six seventies and eighties, right? Well, it depends on how hot the mom was yeah Yeah, but but I think there's always the jokes like that And I'm not gonna say that I never thought of or have jokingly said some of these things to like mixed Asian people in my life But I knew you have to know the situation on when you can joke about it if you're all friends Of course, it's more okay to bring up racial dynamics, right? But if you're just on the first date with them I would refrain from bringing some of this stuff up because you don't know if they even want to talk about it Well, I noticed that some hop of girls or just hop of people in general They're super tapped into racial dynamics and other ones almost just don't want to talk about it and just like be a person It depends on their personality or how they developed. Yeah, I mean you just don't know I mean basically so I guess like what I'm saying is to the point is that just Just read the room. Let's not be awkward about it. I mean guys We are like I know that a lot of Asian guys are socially awkward to be honest like they lack some coaching and some Not necessarily that they're awkward in every situation. They're awkward when it comes to dating hop of girls Yeah, listen, listen, dude Asian guy listen if you thought you could never get a cute non Asian girl And now you can go on a date. You might be like a little bit Oh, whoa, this is cool And then you might say that out loud or you might be like on the date and be like, hey You know, I never really dated a not Asian girl before but you know since Asian since Asian guys are trendy It makes sense that you're going out with me in a way You might not have been calibrated by previous repetitions. So when you get your first rep you get a little wonky Yeah, it's just like first time facing a full court press or something like that Anyway, let's get into the comments sections from tiktok. Somebody said my own Asian dad was Shocked to find out my way Asian friend at an Asian dad and literally said he must have game The that he must have a lot of game line as well, dude Asian guys think like that to chat I'm not saying it's a wrong thought. I guess saying it to her face depending on the situation is can be a little bit awkward I guess but but we all think like that. Well, we get it. Come on What if she said no my dad doesn't really have a lot of game my mom was just kind of low value Somebody said with my mom being Asian and my dad white people always ask me if my dad was in the military This is a little bit of an old-school 80s 90s early 2000s stereotype. Yeah, I guess if the kids are like 30 years old you might guess it but yeah I mean in the younger generation they can be from anywhere and somebody said what's new Asian women dumping on full Asian men Online what's new? I actually don't think they were dumping on them I think they were just like having some friendly jokes because clearly there are dating full Asian men And I think if you date somebody enter you have the right to make fun of them Okay, you are dating them right. Yeah Somebody said Waysion girls. This is a white guy Waysion girls are Latina codes Basically saying that a lot of Waysion women, which I guess is half half white hoppers look Latina, right? Yeah, yes, I would agree a lot of them do they end up you do you guys think these two girls could pass for Latina I would you would say so right? Yeah Somebody said how come full Asian guys are always surprised when they date us half white half Asian girls And we still have white traits Do you think it's true? Yeah, because I think like the joke is that sometimes The first of all this girl hippo baller is a tall Waysion girl from the Bay area. I think she's half Japanese Maybe she plays basketball so she's around a lot of other tall Asian guys, right? And then Asian dudes are always like oh man Maybe you got why you got a lot of hair on your arm or wow You're like feet are kind of big and it's like yeah She got some traits from the white side It's really funny because like maybe certain facial features are from the Asian side and then maybe maybe the hand size is from the white side Yeah, I think that Sometimes full Asian guys when we date a half Asian girl We are just thinking that she's going fully with her Asian side completely But she still may be a hybrid right of even personality traits or life experiences might know more about like horses or something like that The only Asian men I've dated cared so much about body hair like every single area of body hair and this girl was talking about how She started dating Asian guys. She's hoppa and she had to start shaving her arms Because obviously one of the jokes is like hey, did you shave your sideburns because like Asian guys? They really I guess they don't want those Ashanti sideburns, you know the little baby hairs on the side Somebody said one Vietnamese guy told me you are beautiful, but if you would go to the gym every day It would be a lot better. I Don't know if that has anything to do with it All right, let me tell you this though if anybody goes to the gym every day They are gonna look better, but you got to know social norms about what's acceptable and what's not acceptable to say people at different times Obviously based off your own interpersonal relationship with them. Okay, here's the interesting side from Reddit This is the part where the Asian guys were like oh man guys Should we talk about the old days where a lot of non Asian women and hoppa Asian women didn't like Asian guys Or should we just focus on self-improving now that things are getting better? You mean kind of like let's not always think about the Traumatic past of like when you got dissed or when this Asian girl dissed you or this non Asian girl diss you're with non I think it depends on your stage of life. There really is no Functional practical pragmatic reason to dwell on it to be honest Right, you're saying to lean into the past traumas. Yeah, I mean especially unless you're like a writer or you make content about it Why would you dwell on the past in history? But It's good to acknowledge how much it's changed. Hopefully that motivates you and inspires you But yeah, ultimately, I mean if you're like a young guy 25 30 years old Just live your life right now. Somebody said it didn't come in time for me in my life And I guess some guys were saying that that let's just say Lil Dick Dweeb dork Archetype from the past like it changed how they developed in life So they felt like it didn't like make that you know what I mean? Like they were unable to become cool. So now that Asian guys are cooler They still can't be cool because they've lived life in that lane the society show. Yeah, no I think that's partially true Some people miss the boat and the benefit of the wave but also that's not to say like maybe some of these guys They wouldn't even have rode the wave even if it was happening right now in front of them, right? Not like every white guy or every black guy is not cool even though they had their waves Yeah, like maybe you were just kind of an uncool person. I think it's just I just think the cool Good-looking Asian guys are getting valued more. It doesn't make you change that oh from uncool to cool now Yeah, this guy said it the easy way to say it is on a scale of one to ten in the 2000s you got a negative three on your raw score and now it's just a negative one. Yeah, I think that I mean I think it's fair to say that I think it varies some people could be neutral out of zero now So they're not getting any accelerator or decelerator People said that Reddit in general and online forums in general Andrew are full of the most bitter Complaining least life attacking people who would rather focus on the negative. Yes. I agree You know what I realized Andrew IG is where you get more of the like, you know regular people bro comments I noticed the Instagrams like that a lot and Yep, somebody said all you can do is focus on yourself ultimately because you cannot control anybody else And that is why most online discussion should center around self-improvement But ultimately if you get people who are chronic complainers, obviously, they're gonna lean into their native impulses Yeah, I think what I like about all this discussion though is that Asian guys are actually having a legit conversation Amongst themselves and kind of coming together and convening in large groups being like hey guys How should we proceed? Given the boost in media and possibly the boost in real life Well, how should we act and then people are discussing saying hey listen guys? It's probably better if you know you don't need a day and just live your life or hey Missed a boat for you, but it's okay You can so benefit in other ways and it's like I do Appreciate the discussion and hopefully we're also part of the discussion Hopefully some of those guys are also watching this video But that's what I do appreciate is that Asian guys can actually come together And actually have meaningful conversations about this and I do think this conversation is meaningful By the way because there needs to be internal conversations on how to act Right, you know you mean now that times are a change it No I mean just forever ever any community any group of guys a group of friends your platoon your basketball team your pickle ball Squad whatever it is like have those conversations just of like hey guys and go over game filled Oh, let's let's have some real schemes that we're running here how we acting nowadays guys What's the update? Are you did you get the software update? 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