 All right everybody day three just back from lunch Everyone's excited full looking forward to dinner tonight for all you attendees. Sorry everyone out there. That's watching just Go to the fridge and get a sandwich now coming up next. We have a great treat for you guys here speaking on the three Pillars of seductive success Australia's number one attraction coach James Marshall Good afternoon gentlemen. How are we all? All right The thing about the British is they're so fucking polite How are we all? That's very good. One thing I've noticed is that anywhere that was colonized by the British empire Tends to have issues with picking up girls Have you noticed that there's uh very little in the way of seduction coaching going on in france and spain and portugal and brazil Uh, there's there's a reason why we're not going to set up business over there because we would Be having way too much fun and be out of business real quick um I'll give you an example this I was dating a a french model for some time and uh, she had to go back to france uh to attend to some team And uh, she was calling me from a public phone box We were chatting away and then I hear this scuffling noise This is and then there's a man's voice out on a horse admission And I hear her speaking And I'm like what the fuck's going on and she said oh, it's uh, it's okay a man Just pushed his way into the cubicle and said you have a charming I would like to take you out on dinner and I was just there like He did what? And this is when I was like a professional pickup coach and I was thinking I was pretty cool But I've never done that has anyone else pushed their way into a phone box to ask a girl out on a date That's pretty fucking alpha But what you'll notice is the guys there um have to work way harder because the girls used to this That's why french guys clean up when they come to places like this I think the reason why a lot of uh A lot of guys have a lot of trouble in this area primarily this has been touched on by other speakers Is because they don't own the fact that they have a cock They they feel a little bit ashamed about it And uh, we're taught from a whole variety of sources to hide the fact that we have a penis Um, I had a had a client recently who said oh well if you're um If you're say dancing with a girl and you um He couldn't even say it like are you trying to tell me you're dancing with a girl and you get an erection? He's like What do you do? He's like should I sort of like go like put it out like this And I said no you should pull her in by the hip and pull her in and hold your fucking cock on her On her hips. He's like, but then she'd know that I'm like Now she knows and it was he had this epiphany. It's like she knows that I and therefore the Makes sense Own owning your desire is is the core Of what makes you successful in this area of your life Men who are balls out get results in Australia. We have one seduction technique Now I do not necessarily endorse this technique because it's ugly, but it works. It's called the ozzy lean All right, so in australia when you're fucking going out to get a route First thing you do is you go out and you get real pissed which you guys do Tick and then you fucking watch some sport which you guys also do And then when you get onto the chicks You just come over and you're like here you go and you just lean on her Yeah, and the force of gravity means that Eventually she she'll probably just give in because it's easier to have sex with you than to try and push a large australian man off you Yeah Now as I said, this is this is not what I I definitely do But this works because the intent is clear It's it's ugly. It's it's brutal, but it works Whereas the um polite gentleman who goes up and has a pleasant chat about um topics and interests and so on Goes basically nowhere For a number of reasons which we'll get into Now when I'm teaching what is what is called natural seduction? Okay, so now I definitely was not always natural at this and this is Something a lot of guys think when they meet me because I'm very confident. I'm charismatic I know how to look people in the eye and fuck them in the brain with my eye contact Uh that I was always that way But I definitely wasn't I'm self-taught natural and the and I've hung out with a lot of guys who are way better than me when it comes to picking up girls um You know, I'm voted Australia's best dating coach and best natural Using a uh an election process that's similar to an African election, I guess Um, not necessarily indicative of the actual realities, but I'm definitely the best dating coach when it comes to natural game Because the difference between me and some of my friends is that they don't know how or why it works And so they'll say things like What was one beautiful quote? Man Fuck whole that was that was like the entire Um description of of the the method and for a natural that's that's all it is It's because anything else that doesn't go without reality doesn't exist And anyone who doesn't understand that it's it seems very very confusing But I went through a very long and arduous process to get to the point where what I do is freeform and natural But because I was able to go through that entire process I understand the stages that all you guys are at and will be at in the future Which is the advantage in my my teaching So let me tell you a little bit about the genesis of me as as a great ladies man um Was anyone here bullied at school? You know I know you were what do they call you Sasha? Oh And look at him now. We all want to talk to him Okay, I was I was savagely bullied at school because Um, I was quite good at music classical music as a as a young man and I went to a very sporty school And my mother read a book called the right instrument for your child And uh, it was based on you know, your physique And your temperament and and then they would choose an instrument for you And this would be the right one for you apparently due to the fact that I was wave-like and nervous the flute Was the right instrument for her child Which as you all know is one of the sexiest and manliest instruments available And so I studied the flute and I became quite good at it And as a result I got beaten up a lot at school Because I didn't fucking like that because that's a poof as instrument and instruments in general poof There's a bit definitely the flute one is a poof instrument and so I went home to my mother and you know, I was crying because you know with my flute bent and and bruised and so on Like the guys beat me up, but she's like, you know what you should just hit them back I'm like all right. I'm gonna do that. So the the next afternoon or the next time a group of large savage Australian kids came at me. I went To one of them and then they beat me up a lot harder And so it didn't really work But what I did do then is I did seek out martial arts teachers I decided that originally I got into it because I wanted to learn how to not get beat up so much Because this knows if it ever gets broken is going to ruin my beautiful face And I kind of afford that because then I'd have to rely on my charm and um So I started doing martial arts at a young age And this along with music became my obsession And I was lucky enough to find some very very traditional Shaolin kung fu teachers in in Australia believe it or not and Decided to follow that and see where it would lead me Now I'm going to be talking a little bit later about lifestyle design because I think that's an area that tends to get neglected in this field And it's one of the best ways to get laid to have awesome experiences to create opportunities in your life Is to engineer a lifestyle that is attractive because then it becomes a machine for drawing people into you It's not the only thing that you have to do you have to you do need to know how to be able to go out there Meet strangers on the street or wherever it is and draw them into your life But if you don't have an amazing life to draw them into if they're I hate to say this word high value If they're women with high self-esteem that lots of people want to be around then they want to be around guys Who've got something going on? so many years later I I went to china to study chinese medicine and If you want to if you want to study at Shaolin temple if you want to study kung fu there You you can't just rock up. You can't just turn up and go teach me There's there's a very very strict process. You have to be at a certain point in a lineage And uh, you have to you know have worked your ass off for 10 years plus before anyone's going to accept you in there Now I was over studying chinese medicine and I decided at the end of that to just go and check out the temple I knew that it wasn't wasn't my turn or anything, but I just thought I'd go and if I can check it out So I rocked up at this place which which to me was the Which was the the most amazing place that I could ever go to You know, whoever your mentors are whoever your heroes are Imagine going to that place on the other side of the world and being finally there in the in the presence of these people And I rocked up and I and I walked around the The temple with all the other chinese and western tourists and checking it all out and going You know one day I would love to just come back here and really fucking do this properly And then I missed the last bus out of out of that temple And so there was no way for me to stay and it was a nice summer evening, so I decided to buy a rice mat and uh take my bamboo flute and go and sit and meditate on the mountain and sleep the night there And I was I was walking along a chinese lady came up to me and she said, uh Kejia, how do I say I've forgotten all my chinese where it's a nice you is that all right Dainan eachu Where are you going? She's like, yeah, sure Hey True. All right, I'll just make up chinese words All right She said where are you going and I said i'm going to the mountain And she said no no no come and stay at my place and then she and then when we're halfway there Then she like said it's going to be very expensive, which is you know, good chinese businesswoman And um asking me what asking me what I do. I said, well, I study kung fu or shweqi kung fu I would love to study here with this particular teacher And she just her eyes lit up and she and I told her who my teacher was in australian. She ran off and then five minutes later coming down the mountain was The Chao who Is the monk that I had always dreamed to to meet And he's he's my height a huge mongolian with a massive beard and carrying a monk spade Which is this huge thing with blades on either end just like in a movie walking down the road. I'm like, oh my god It's the chao And he comes up to me there had been some misunderstanding She thought that I knew someone that I well that I did know but that I was higher up than I was He asked who I was he looked me dead in the eyes And I said actually I'm nobody And he said what do you want? He looked me in the eyes and asked me that and in that moment I had the choice I could say well You know, I just came to check it out. Uh, so, you know, sorry for bothering you, sir and I said I want to study with you And then he looked me in the eyes held my gaze for a very long time and said ming tian wudian tomorrow five a.m And so the next morning I rocked up at chaolin temple at five a.m And began my training with my hero The people who get success in life in whatever area are the ones who just go out and fucking take it The ones who sit back and plan and wish and dream Stay that way and you guys have seen example many examples of this Over the conference of guys often who are incredibly young who have achieved amazing things in their lives who fast-tracked well past other people who may even be Better qualified in the area But didn't have the balls to just go out there and take it I had a very very clear dream. I wanted that more than anything else And I found myself by good karma or some circumstances or whatever it was in a situation where I had one shot And so straight away I called my teacher back in Australia and I explained look I'm being offered to train tomorrow morning with The chow and I know I'm not supposed to be here, but he's like all right. Do not fuck this up Jamie You got one shot at this And so I took it and I didn't fuck it up and it changed the course of my life because what I learned there And in my subsequent visits and my all the training that I did before and after that Gave me what I Describe as the basis for my success in this area I didn't realize at the time when I was in this temple hitting rocks and meditating And swinging weapons around that I was actually learning to become an amazing ladies man But I was because I was developing the foundations Of charisma of presence of intent Of a core understanding of who I actually am And when guys talk about this in the seduction community about okay, we'll be yourself That's in some ways the best and the worst advice you can ever give somebody It's it's it's way too ambiguous to really make any sense It's like be yourself or when are you not yourself? Are you guys being yourselves right now? Something they're like, I don't know am I just getting all too existential for me We're always being ourselves, but what we're actually not being is we're not being all of ourselves And we have generally a fairly limited idea of what it is to be ourselves I always tell guys find out what else you are Because you're an infinite being with amazing potential you can try and be and do anything There are all sorts of behaviors that maybe you haven't tried yet which you can which you can try out And that's why when I got guys coming in saying well, I you know, I I like the idea of direct, but that's just not me Well, I like the idea of sort of letting go of the lines and sort of being more natural But I just feel like that's not really me That's bullshit. That's simply that you haven't experienced that part of yourself yet And sure there will be some things that are not you But as other speakers have said we'll test that out a few times and see where it takes you