 Hey there long time no see So I woke up just like two hours ago did all of my daily habits, and I thought This is a good time to do a video since I promised I'll do a video, but I didn't so There we go. I'm doing a video Anyway, I want to talk about the number one biggest mistake that people make That I used to make That stops people from moving forward in life. So you probably know how it feels like to You know, just really be stuck Not move anywhere and not see any progress. I'm talking about all areas not just you know business. I'm talking about your Relationships, you know not finding that person your social circle not increasing Your body your health not improving everything is kind of stagnant and usually the way it looks is you have some upcycle And you get better and then you have a downcycle and you get worse than upcycle and downcycle and you never really get out of that area where you kind of the limits so The reason that happens is because you don't have like a guardian. You don't have parental supervision you could say Because our natural inclination is to go through these cycles because we only know how to take ourselves to the top of Where we know how to take ourselves? So you only know how to reach the top of where you know how to reach and then what happens Usually we reach the top and then we think oh everything is amazing I've reached my top and then you start going down and then when you get to the bottom you start thinking oh shit I'm Sucking I'm at the bottom and you start climbing up again But when you get like a coach or a mentor or a partner That issue gets solved So I personally have two coaches at the moment one is a personal coach which helps me with he helps me with habits and with Just general life decisions. So basically every time I have an issue where I'm not sure about something I'll talk to him about it once a week and he'll give me guidance And he gives me like really good perspectives to move forward in life And the second thing is that he keeps me accountable To the daily habits that I'm supposed to do the other type of coach is more of an emotional therapist Who helps me deal with Stuff that I'm experiencing stuff from the past stuff That I'm afraid of the future Just releasing emotions and being kind of more relaxed in life because I'm a kind of an uptight stressed person And this helps me You know not have that Both of these people are not expensive like I spend maybe a thousand dollars a month on Coaches and courses and products You really don't need to spend a lot of money like you can get coaches that cost a thousand dollars per hour Or you can get a coach that costs $50 per hour. So it's really not about budget. It's just about you being humble not being so Arrogant and actually just you know going after just finding someone who fits your needs and Actually looking for that person. So until you find that coach or that mentor a guarantee You're gonna be stuck in those ups and downs and even if you do manage to break out of them a bit You're just gonna crash eventually because again, you don't have that somebody to keep you accountable So the answer is really in people like you want to get you know in really good shape You need to find somebody who's in really good shape and find a way to get them to train you or keep you accountable Or just become their friends by being next to them. You're gonna through osmosis You're gonna you know kind of attach and get those characteristics and again if they coach you which is even better They're gonna give you all their knowledge. They're gonna guide you to make the best decisions possible So nobody does that like you want to know what's good advice It's the thing that nobody does and this is something that nobody does almost no one Actually goes out and looks for people to help them So whatever it is that you're struggling with at the moment My best recommendation is to go out and find someone who is doing that thing and or coaching that thing and see what happens and What you'll see is that suddenly you'll be on that upward cycle like you start going up and up and up But you're not gonna go down. You're just gonna keep going up because you're gonna have that Accountability that person that's going to make sure that it's his job to make sure that you keep going up and again It's suitable for every budget. I can find really cheap people or can I really expensive that does not mean they're less quality It's just difference in preference and difference in level like obviously if you're making a hundred thousand dollars a month You can't afford really really expensive coaches who have like the top knowledge and you know There's more accountability in it. You feel less accountable if you make a hundred thousand and you only spend like a thousand on a coach So there's also that So wherever you are wherever you are go out and get a coach. I'm also a coach You don't have to get me just get a coach So let me know what you think about that concept and let me know What sort of efforts you're gonna take now to find a coach because again, that's the thing that's gonna change your life That's the thing that's gonna make that change stick. We're gonna keep going and not Stagnate or drop. So I hope this helps you and anyway, I'm doing more videos like this now. So again, I have like the iPhone X which is Pretty much the best recording tool in existence So I'm gonna make sure to do a lot more videos. Let me know what topics you'd like me to discuss and thanks for watching