 ح inward با الع kicksملا عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته بالر شاء الله ، انا يوجد الشيخ في حالة الشيخ وحيد وموسيقى يجب أن يكون اكومبين بلتميات ومعطم ما عن درمز؟ هل يجب أن تكون هناك درمز يستخدمون؟ يجب أن يكون هناك درمز ويجب أن يكون هناك درمز بسبب أعطلة السيد خوة رحمة الله علي ما هو الآخر فتاة وفتاة؟ أعوذ بالله السميع العليم من الشيطان الرجيم بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم الحمد لله رب العالمين وصر الله على محمد الناس واله الطيبين والطاهرين الله سبحانه وتعالى عظم الله أجرنا وأجركم بحاجة إلى فتوة أفايت الله في استخدام درمز يقول أن درمز يستخدمون في مواقب عزاء أنهم ليست مواقب المواقب العزاء وانهم بخير كما نرى أننا نرى أنهم في كربلا في مواقب العزاء في أخر مكان في إيران والذي are the normal drums that the mom as they call it which are fine in terms of of using these as they call the world drums unless unless there are other muharrams associated with this type of asad and that becomes haram otherwise just the drums it should be fine there is no issue with it I told Ashirazi would say that the well-known tools which are used in the muharram asa or the azadari muharaman safar the husaini asa such as the drums and such like the world drums they are allowed to be used as the sage mentions the husaini asa so yes you can use them that's fine there's no issue with it there's also we have other drums but there's also the trumpet as well isn't there and sometimes there's like a symbol or something that they use as well there's quite there's more than one these are war tools in which they used to use them in old days in order to announce and declare war against the other side for example or to warn the others that we are ready for the war for example so other of these tools which are as they say the music instruments they cannot be used at all in anyhow I sent thank you Sheikhna Sheikhna we were talking about backbiting and you know we mentioned something very interesting last time was that if someone is there to reconcile between two parties if he's doing so then it is permissible for them to listen to the backbiting because they're trying to make peace now extending on from that what do we do in regards to certain professionals lawyers psychiatrists doctors some of these people have to sit and listen to an individual and write reports and take down notes sometimes the individual will discuss private matters and secrets which should have been kept a secret kept in private but for the purpose of trying to improve themselves or trying to get somewhere they have to discuss these and these are also written down these notes are written down so in that situation the person who is the professional listening to the client is he listening to غيبة he or she are they listening to غيبة and the fact that they're writing it down as well does this constitute as a sin you see those individuals should be in a position that they are under the the instructions of the Islamic teachings so in somehow they have to be as mentioned previously those who try to reconcile and bring صلح between the other parties in this case they can actually listen because they are trying to solve an awkward and complex situation between two parties and to bring them together again and to solve the issue otherwise the state says if it's the one who openly commits various sins and that's a different issue the one who openly drinks let's say he openly listens to music then there's no غيبة on this individual when you mention that you know this individual let's say as I've said with regard to نهع المنكر forbidding evil that you mention this individuals causing corruption he's actually causing deviation to others you know he's joining others with him to drink now the billah or to listen to songs and so forth that is outside the boundary of غيبة and that's basically نهع المنكر for forbidding evil that's right شيخنا let's move our conversation on to more social and family matters when it comes to clothing sometimes we have clothes which are worn both by male and females now if you look at trousers and jackets traditionally it was worn by men in today's both men and women wear trousers and two-piece suits and jackets is that aesthetically acceptable for you know many women to wear one another's clothes which are you could say prescribed for one another there is no objection with this regard that you know let's say women wearing men's let's say similar clothings you know trousers for example as we see today that now we have jeans trousers for ladies jackets for example suits for example however this should be all under the hijab for the woman if she wants to go out in the street she cannot wear a suit or trousers and just walk out in the street because that actually can show and expose the body shape and the body curve as well which is Haram so she must conceal that under her wide garment or aba'a or whatever to avoid showing this type of clothing and with regard to men of course there is no issue if it's not really like the clothes of the woman تشبه it is not تشبه liking the clothes of the woman it's just normal I mean as I've mentioned before the episodes that in some countries Muslim countries they were some kind some kind of similar to the skirts but it's not a skirt it's not an issue I think it's called a sarong in English it's not a big cloth which they wrap around the waist or like the Haram yeah yeah like the Haram and the bottom part of the Haram it's similar to the skirt for example the long skirt so that should be fine there's no issue with it but as I've said for the ladies they have to make sure that they don't show this type of clothing in the front of a man in the street so they have to conceal it and cover it Mr. Salah now is it permissible for one individual to wear clothing garments which is actually applied on so let's say I've got this jacket I haven't made I have to pay I have to pay can I wear this jacket in my Salah or do I have to pay the Khoms first before I can wear this it is not permissible for the individual to wear the clothing in which he or she have not paid the Khoms for and there's a liability of Khoms on these garments you must pay first the Khoms for these garments and clothing then you can pray with them otherwise you're served غصوب and unless the one wants to delay his payments pay installments I don't know whatever is the reason but by all that means the individual needs to ask permission from the مرجع حاكم الشرع that I want to use these before I pay the Khoms because of this one, two, three he explains the situation to the to the representative the وكيل or the مرجع himself when he gets the permission then that's that's fine you can wear them and pay the Khoms afterwards شرع what about silk is it permissible for both men and women to wear silk and what about you know like silk handkerchiefs or silk tie is that acceptable wearing silk for the woman is allowed is permissible however it's haram for the men to wear silk it's similar to the gold that they can't wear gold the silk is it's haram for them to wear unless if it's artificial silk that's fine you don't call that silk anymore it's artificial with regard to handkerchief yes if you have just a small handkerchief inside your pocket that's fine even if it's made from pure silk but let's say you want to buy underwear silk in this case it's also haram you can't wear them anything you can't wear them you can't wear them because they are silk in this case it becomes haram so small part because like handkerchief it should be fine شخنة you mentioned gold so is it not permissible for men and women to wear gold jewelry was it just the men that are not allowed to wear it for the women it is encouraged for them to wear gold of course it's part of the ornament of the woman to wear them especially those who are married to show this ornament to their husbands with regard to men no it's haram it's not allowed for a man to wear gold ring as we see in some individuals who wear gold rings or even it's like a wedding ring no it's not allowed unless it's that platinum or other metals or silver which is fine there's no issue with it or it's like a fake gold for example but the genuine gold men cannot wear it at all thank you very much شخنة and thank you to all our viewers if you'd like to send in a question to our show it is at it is at it is at it is at it is at it is at it is at it is at it is at