 Forging a relationship together are the two of you leaning into a co-creative experience. Folks, I'm here to encourage everyone is stop approaching the mating process from an ambivalent or ambiguous way. I'm here to encourage intentional dating. I'm here to encourage more intimacy through vulnerability, through authenticity, through transparency. I know many of my contemporaries will scoff at me. I know many of my contemporaries will say, this is garbage. You need to just, everything needs to be casual in the beginning. You know the problem with casual in the early stages? You get attached to the wrong person. And it's interesting, because one of my contemporaries who's a male dating coach says, give a man six weeks.