 What gives him the right to expect that? I'd really be looking forward to a night out with the girls. As soon as I saw her I knew she was my type. She was flaunting herself like you wouldn't believe. Definitely asking for it. I'd felt great going out in that dress. I saw him, fancied him straight away. He bought me a drink and we started flirting. I thought he was lush. We got close on the dance floor and had a few more drinks. She said yes to a drink easily enough. She was all over me. She wasn't holding back on those shots. Then he asked if he could walk me home. I was well chuffed, you know. She let me walk her home. Back for coffee, you know. I was really looking forward to spending time with him alone. Just the two of us. I thought you might like it if I took control. A kiss on the kettle, yeah, but that was all I'd wanted. I'd never wanted it to go that far and I told him but he just wouldn't back off. She shouldn't have kissed me like that if she hadn't wanted it to go any further. Why did he have to push it that far? If she hadn't wanted it, she should have said so sooner. You can't get away with leading a guy on like that. I think you would expect sex at the end of the night like that, wouldn't you? Rape. Sexual assault. Let's stop blaming the victim. Visit stopblame.org.