 Yes, sir. Thanks Sasha. So when does the the weirdness shift and change into coolness? We're gonna go. I would say as soon as you don't care about people's reaction to you, then you're a cool dude You see I'm saying like like if I meet somebody and they're doing kind of weird stuff And I see they still care what people think then they're on their path and that's good But when I see somebody just acting the way they want to act making jokes being silly whatever and they really like if somebody makes A joke and nobody laughs and the person goes well I thought it was funny and they just don't give a shit that guy's cool because he just doesn't he just doesn't care Anymore he did he said it because he thought it was funny and fuck everyone else and those people are the ones that You know that that move out of their parents houses and start businesses and and and just and travel the world because they're literally like I want to do I'm gonna do it and the amount of stories. I've gotten from students That they've just done all kinds of literally quit their job started businesses become Entrepreneurs gone hot girlfriends gone multiple girlfriends all this kind of thing as soon as they just went through that period of Pain it is what actually I don't give a fuck everyone can think I'm an asshole It's totally awesome and they're just literally living their lives completely oblivious to what people think and it's it you know I get these emails all the time for people literally because they're out there doing silly shit and to the point where they just go You know I'm saying so right at that point where you're like, I don't care what anyone thinks you're done And don't quit then keep doing it so you can keep feeling a bit like a dick and being cool with it You know I'm saying never stop never stop. Yeah quick follow-up. So doesn't this clash with the whole? Social calibration Thing or is it this compatible or we turn because how can you become socially calibrated and tell you know what's not socially calibrated? How can you be socially calibrated if you're worrying about what everyone else thinks you need to destroy your ego? So you don't give up fuck what anyone else thinks and then you can worry about okay now I'm gonna be more smooth with the ladies or I'm gonna be more this is that but you can never really be you if you're living your Whole life based on other people's opinions ever ever ever Seriously the people who will go after this and get the report and just actually go out and just go do a bunch of silly shit And be judged and not give a fuck those people will go so much farther in life than the people who just go This is funny ha ha and they'll never do anything You know there's I just know from experience the guys do my boot camps and the ones who are like yep I went out and I spoke to the first hot girl. I see every day. I did that for a month They'd go out do a couple of pranks every day just do fun shit and just they kept pushing their zone Those people are literally with their own businesses banging a bunch of shakes living in Thailand or some other place for cheap That's what they're doing and the guys were like hey, it's kind of fun And maybe I'll approach a girl next week. Maybe I'll do something fun I got it from the boot camp and then three months later They're like Sasha after the boot camp things are so awesome and now I stopped doing now I'm fucking just jerking off. I'm like, yeah, because why because you would just want oh, yeah I'm awesome now. No, you're not keep fucking pushing your boundaries till you're dead then you're gonna you can have a great time Yep, what's your take on high energy and low energy and social interact? Anything can work it's congruent with your personality. So, you know, I when I made some of my videos I was running around crazy because that's what I was feeling I was so excited to talk to girls So I was like, yeah, I love girls. You guys are hot. What's going on blah blah blah But at the same time if you have a really great internal state, you know, and you just don't care what people think I could walk up to a girl at the same time just go So What's going on? Do you want to be my girlfriend? I'll be like no, and I'll be like Well, you should Awesome right and and they'll look at me and I'll be completely low energy But it doesn't matter because my internal state is don't care don't care gonna do whatever I want to do So it's really fine. That's the funny thing about me and James. We're totally opposite. I was like when we met I'm just running around like He's just like what's the meaning of life? And so and so I learned from James that I could calm the fuck down and actually just be the same cool dude Just be like, hey, what's going on and he actually has become a little bit more anime You'll see him do wacky shit and so we've just kind of merged from super cool dude to like super high energy fun guy into sort of We're both kind of you know I'm saying closer to the middle and it's fine and you can go through phases You know I'm saying you could for a while, but I'm gonna try Sasha game and they'll be like, oh fuck it I'm gonna now I've done that and that's that's cool Now I'm gonna try James game and if James game works better for you do James game And if you like being high energy and then and that works and do do that But it's just whatever you feel good and that's the thing do what feels right for you And how do you do that? By not giving a fuck what people think about you then you can just be who you want to be Thanks for that. I just had one last question So what do you say to somebody who's a natural introvert who wants to be more like you like an extrovert? But really is just very introverted right cool. That's a great question And yeah, and I think that's that's Well, I think a lot of people would be attracted to James actually because they look at me and they're like Oh, this guy's hilariously so funny. I'm not like that James just seems to be like a normal cool dude It's just like eh So so that this is what it makes sense but I would say If there's power in really in trying both there's power in trying everything else wants just to see how it fits There's so many ways people behave and act and all this kind of stuff if you are really introverted Doesn't mean your goal should be be like Sasha But imagine pushing your boundaries where you could be like Sasha a little bit for a little while and try it on How much how much more open are you gonna be in your everyday life after being like me for even a week or two? So I would say do the baby steps do the you know like literally start with tiny baby steps Like if you're super introverted that's that's really what that conversation game was about because it's so easy the compliment game Because you're literally just walking down the street just looking at people and going like wow that guy's got really great hair I got that woman looks really angry. It's really really simple So I would say do that game and take little baby steps and every time you you leave it Well start leaving the house every time you leave the house Just do the smallest little tiny thing to push your comfort zone a little bit up to the point where you can walk up to strangers and You know pick your nose or do all these silly pranks that I do But it's the same thing with anything in life. You don't just don't just jump in that You know start it start taking some kind of action that just slowly Slowly build up to the to the point where you feel comfortable then go a little bit past that point of Feeling comfortable and then find your your sort of line Which might be being a little bit silly and then the rest of time being pretty cool What you know, whatever it is, but yeah, it's just really just baby steps and just make the effort and just don't stop pushing You know because there's so many people out there who I know are watching this and they're sitting at home And they're just gonna go play World of Warcraft after this and it's like dude You can leave the house and do this stuff too. Anybody can you just have to go and do it Who else got questions guys? I really liked your information Sasha So you say don't stop pushing, you know you talk about saying hi and giving compliments Once you're past that and you're saying hi you're giving compliments and you're expressing who you are What do you what do you mean by don't stop pushing like? Why just met up in life in general so whatever is your point there? You're stuck at trying just trying to keep going further So for example, I wanted to do this talk today because so many guys I find this is the biggest problem Guys aren't approaching girls, you know guys email me I'm like what's your problem like are you coming up to beautiful girls and most guys are like no Or they'll do it when they're drunk in a bar and again, they're relying on something external So so I just thought I wanted to focus on on that one thing So that's one big problem the next big problem is guys will talk to girls But they have no idea what to talk about they can't connect to girls So then I'd be like all right Well now you need to work on connection and then if you can connect with girls and are calling you back You know then you need to work on more connection or maybe how to how to text girls Or maybe be more congruent and then you're getting girls back to your house, but you're not getting laid Well, probably you're not sexually escalating or you're not being sexual or you're creeping them out Then you got to work on that so there's always a point where somebody is stuck always We've all been stuck at every point that people who really get good They're just the people who managed to get through all those sticking points So and I just find this is the biggest one and I find the quickest way to learn is if you're actually going on talking to Loads of people, you know, you will just have so much experience in Interacting with people and having conversations it eventually you're gonna get good at that And then it's just a matter of time and breaking down the other stuff But if you never get past this if you're seeing at home literally going watching YouTube clips going mad I just don't want to leave the house because I'm scared you're I mean you're just not gonna get anywhere So that's why I think this is just really important when you just get out there and have fun And you're leaving the house Everything else can come and as long as you're having those interactions with people you can work on all those bits You can work on conversation You can work on texting because you're getting numbers because you're meeting people, you know And you could just work on every little bit So so really just push yourself when it comes to dating and everything else in life as well It's really just about pushing, you know, if you have a shitty job, you know You can't just keep working and thinking that oh, well, it's not so bad or you could do up your resume and Start sending it to people that who you really want to work with in some other industry Or you could start a website and start generating a little bit of income and working on that in your part-time to look And build that up to support you and then quit your job And you could do all those things you could learn poker and then you know get pretty good And then learn it go to Thailand and and play poker for I mean you could do anything you want to But it's only if you push yourself take some chances and start start going for it So so yeah, so I just wanted to focus on this element. Yes, sir How did you meet your girlfriend? Oh This is a great this though. I mean squeeze here or a girlfriend. What do you mean? Well, what's the question? What great story can you tell us about how you met your girlfriend? Okay? All right, this one has there been many girls sure. Yeah This one well, there's many stories, but this one this one So that would be her great Fantastic Well, this this this is this is my piggy. She's amazing and it's a great story actually So I guess it's a great story to end on actually so I Was in London and I was just running my building up my pua empire and one day I'm in the kitchen and my sales guy. He kind of helps me with calls and whatever walks in and goes Yeah, there's a some girl email and she wants to do a boot camp and I'm just like whatever No girl's gonna pay money and I'm fucking trying to meet guys Tell her to send a deposit and then I'll take it seriously two days. Larry walks in and she goes She paid for the boot camp in full who's gonna teach her and I'm like crap And and the girl the girl was really gung-ho and she booked she booked The flight before I confirmed when I could teach her so she actually was coming into London during a week Where I was doing a week-long residential course with guys so I couldn't teach her so I spoke to one of my instructors I'm like where are you can teach her? She's a girl. You can do it, right? It's the same thing, but she's gonna hit on dudes and he's like sounds pretty weird, but okay sure It's just doing this stuff and learning conversational skills, whatever so that weekend during the during the course I you know we teach the theory in like a coffee shop or whatever somewhere nice with juice or whatever So I go downstairs into this venue and as I'm turning right because my guys are in the corner I noticed my instructor sitting there and in front of them is this really cute kind of half Asian looking girl with a Bishy face and she's totally hot in my type and I'm like mother fucker You know and I go over there and I'm start teaching my you know My theories and my system whatever to my students and at the same time I hear my instructor teaching the same stuff to this Really cute girl like this is fucking bullshit. I should be over there with a hot girl and he should be over here What am I this sucks? All right, and so anyway, so at the end of the first day I'm like I really like this girl and you know I kind of want to hook up with her and so I'm talking to my instructor. He's like yeah, man I'm like how was the first day? He's it's really good. She's doing well. It was really fun He's like yeah, I think I'm gonna try and banger. You know, I'm just like dude. You can't banger you know That that would be unprofessional You know I'm running a business here. You're her instructor. That's totally unethical for you to for you to sleep there He's like yeah, you're right in the next day. I banged her Anyway, well, come on, it's fine. I own the company. That's different. I wasn't directly I wasn't directly And so and so and just the fact that and we've been together ever since and in a in a kind of like a beautiful open relationship and and now I suppose I can announce to the world. We're getting married However We're doing our own rules because we don't believe in the normal marriage paradigm So we're doing a marriage where we get married and every two years We sit down decide if we want to keep being married and we'll keep doing that till forever and if one day We're bored we depart as friends, so we're not doing any of the bullshit forever We're our vows are gonna be we're gonna stay together as long as we're having an awesome time Yes, and hopefully there'll be some adventures with other girls Because my wife is bisexual. Oh, yeah. All right So that's a story and really if anything that story shows you that like how how Demasculated our men were women cute sexy fucking girls Have to take courses on how to approach men because men won't fucking come talk to them That's what we've become and that's what the 21 convention is all about I'm done. See you later