 Hello everyone welcome to another NARC survivor live video coming to you live from Waki Machi in Japan Just checked in to this very old Japanese house as many of you may know I do like Old things and in this video, I'm going to be talking about What the narcissist thinks of you When you finally leave them alone because yes Believe it or not When you finally leave them alone They are still Thinking of you. I know how it may look It's as though they've just Ridden off into the sunset with their new supply and they've forgotten all about you Yes, I know I understand it may look that way But that is not how it pans out in reality it doesn't pan out that way at all What you will find And what you've probably noticed already At the end of the relationship They demonstrated just how envious, jealous and competitive they were That after you finally left Then you'll see just how bitter a resentful they are And how arrogant and entitled It's like no matter how much you did for them in the relationship. It's never enough At the end of it. They've still got their hands out They're still expecting something from you. It's like no matter what you do. It's never good enough for them They're never satisfied and that is why They will be thinking of you even after you've left and They will be very bitter very resentful very vengeful They may come back just to try to sabotage Your progress in moving on from them Because despite what they may have led you to believe They don't want you to move on They don't want things to get better for you They look at it like once you've been with them that is it for life And if they can't have you they don't want anyone else to have you Or they don't want you to be good for anyone else after they are gone so Yeah, they will be thinking of you in a very vengeful and vindictive way To whether desiring to come back To sabotage your progress in you trying to move on from them and the reason why Why they're trying to sabotage your progress and prevent you from moving on Is because They know how much better off you're going to be without them How much happier you're going to be I should tell you that they already know They are just garbage Deep down. They know it. They know that they are of no Significant or sustainable value to you And they know just how great you are Because you got to think of it like this If a person really thinks they're that great now that's special They're such a wonderful person And you're so bad. You can't do anything right. Everything you do is wrong They're just going to leave you to it They're just going to leave you to mess up your own life if you're that bad And if they're that great and they're having such a great time in their life They're not going to waste any time coming back trying to sabotage yours So you see how this narrative doesn't make any logical sense It makes no sense at all Quite clearly they do know just how great you are How much better your life can be without them Yes, they know that And not only that but they know how shitty their lives are going to be without you And that is why They've got to come back They're constantly thinking about you. They can't get you off their minds I mean here's the thing when you really know How great you are and what you're really capable of in life And your ex or whoever you're dealing with You know, they're nothing. They're not gonna Go anywhere do anything You can't forget about them so easily Because what you're doing what you're building in your life So much more important so much more significant to you You're not bothered about them You don't care what they're doing at all If things are really going good in your life, you don't even care If they move on and they become millionaires It makes no difference to you Because you're just worried about your own life. You're happy. You're doing well. It doesn't matter It does to the narcissist though Yeah, it matters a lot to them because despite What a lot of other people are saying on tiktok or youtube Just forget about all of that for a moment Listen to what i'm saying right now Yes, they're narcissists Even narcissists They recognize it. They think this way they can see it And you should know that because it lines up perfectly with their behavior Just look at what they're doing and how they're treating you They put you down. They devalued you they treat you with content. They act like you're nothing Doesn't add up Their story doesn't add up with their behaviors though, does it? Because if that's really too true if you're really no good you're nothing your garbage They should be able to move on without a care Especially if it's as they portray it on their facebook their instagram the twitter whatever it is If they already rise it off into the sunset with a new supply and they're living their best lives Why are they so worried so focused on you? Why it doesn't make any logical sense It doesn't add up and that is how you know Or you should know That yes, they do realize Just how great you are They recognize Your potential your capabilities Of how you could move on and do so much better and be so much happier without them in your life And not only that but they know they recognize That if they have to go off on their own and forget about you Their lives are going to be miserable And you're going to be having a far much better time without them Yes, they know that it doesn't matter what they've been telling you it doesn't matter about the narrative It doesn't matter about any of that You just got to look at what they're doing That should tell you exactly how they are thinking You've got to think about it like this and I've said it before If you have a very old Watch You've had it for a few years Doesn't mean anything to you Maybe it's very cheap Maybe you got it in a dollar store. It's nothing special. Just a normal watch Let's say you lost the watch somewhere You might spend about 10 minutes looking for it After that you're just going to forget about it Maybe you'll just go to the shop and get a new one Because it's very cheap. Maybe you got it in a dollar store. It doesn't matter But what if that watch Was a Rolex A very expensive watch What if it was A piece that your grandparents left to you in their will So it holds a lot of sentimental value It can't be replaced. You can't find another one You would probably go to the ends of the earth To track that thing down And you wouldn't be able to stop You wouldn't be able to sleep until you found it It would drive you insane It would be constantly playing on your mind Where is that watch It's worth all of this money It's worth 20,000, 30,000 dollars It has a lot of sentimental value. I can't just replace it Yeah Yeah Now you understand What is going on in the narcissist mind This is how they're thinking with you Just as it's no ordinary watch Be a nothing ordinary to the narcissist As the empaths that we are Doesn't matter what they're telling you That doesn't matter What they're telling you does not line up with what they're doing or how they're behaving Look at how they're treating you Why are they always on your case? Why are they why are they always following you around they're stalking and harassing you They won't leave you alone Why can't they just go run it off to someone else and forget about you Why are they so mad? Why are they so bitter and resentful? I mean if someone Let's say someone stole the watch How mad would you be? How bitter would you be? Yes, now you understand how they think Because they feel like you're stealing yourself away from them So now they're mad now they're bitter they're resentful And they want to destroy you See now it makes perfect sense That's how they feel It's as if someone is stolen A very expensive watch from them that they cannot replace That's exactly how they feel Now you understand but it doesn't really add up though does it? Because they are crazy. They are delusional as well I mean you've got to think They never even took the time to get to know you When did they ever even sit down and have a conversation with you? When did they ever even ask you any questions about yourself? They never took any interest in you from the very beginning It was all about them It was all about their attention and admiration of what you were going to do or be for them It was never about who you actually are as a person. It was never about your feelings once in needs It was never about that at all And yet you take yourself away from them and they're so bitter. They're so mad They're so upset with you When they don't even know who you are they never even took the time to get to know you So what sentimental value do you hold to them? None They don't even know you This is just some warped fantasy in their minds Of you and in a lot of ways it is you Being so much greater than What you actually are In all honesty Because they really overthink things they overanalyze it But then in some ways Yes, we can experience life We can experience this world Relationships in a way that they will never Never get to experience As an empath and you will know exactly what i'm talking about if you are an empath It's like every little thing you do You experience You feel it at such a deep level and it could be anything You could be going for a walk in the park and it's just the way that you look at the trees You observe all of the colors You like to feel the texture of the leaves Listen to the sounds Of the birds singing It's like every little Detail you notice it You pick up in it you see it It's not like that for them It's not like that for them at all And when you're with someone when you're in a relationship They already know they've seen how you are they know you all too well In that area at least Because they've experienced that with you already at the beginning That it's like It's just holding someone's hand You're looking in their eyes And you feel something Maybe you kiss them And you feel it very deeply You feel it on a very Deep and intense level Yes, you can experience true love happiness joy satisfaction and fulfillment But it is not like that for them What do you think they do? Whenever they go anywhere Whenever they go for a walk in the park They're just walking around probably complaining Oh, it's too hot Oh, it's probably gonna rain now All these leaves all this muds on the floor I was messing up my shoes my clothes Oh, you can get ice cream at the shop Probably overpriced all of these negative assumptions about everything that they experience And even if they're having the perfect day and everything is going their way exactly How they want it Exactly how they expect it to be in their fantasy of how they expect it to play out in their minds Even if it's going like that for them I could promise you Just one little thing needs to go wrong And then they'll blow up They'll get mad they'll turn a molehill into a mountain And whatever else that was good that was happening that day They'll just forget about all about that in an instant And they'll focus on that one negative thing So again You see why they're so concerned about you and why they're still thinking about you And they're very vengeful Because they already know it's not going to be like that for you when you move on They know that you're going to be happy They know that things are going to be so much better for you because they knew the entire time They're not stupid. They know The entire time they could see it Yes, they knew they were weighing you down. They were holding you back. They were a hindrance in your life And the entire time they knew that They were fully aware of it so of course Nothing is going to make them more mad Then when you try to get your ass out of there Then when you try to move on and leave them behind in the past Nothing is going to make them more mad than that Because they already know You're going in that direction They're going in this direction You're going with everything that you are your qualities your abilities everything that you've worked for everything that you've earned And they're going off in this direction With their crazy fantasy their manipulation their illusions They already know whose life is going to be better and greater. They already know that Because they already know the entire time they needed you far more than you ever needed them They already knew that your life would have been far better if you never even got involved with them in the first place And that's why they targeted you. That's why they stuck with you You are like their life raft You are like their life support And many of you the entire time you couldn't even see it It's like you weren't even aware of it. You couldn't see what was going on right in front of your eyes And I don't blame you for that. Of course, I know you were manipulated. You were lied to you were gaslighted That's why you couldn't see it You were under their spell And I'm giving it to you right now Exactly how it is I'm telling you what you need to know Because I need you to know this I need you to be aware of it The entire time they knew Your worth They knew just how great you are Never mind about what they were saying. Yes, I know they were devaluing and degrading you They were insulting you and putting you down Making you feel insignificant worthless But they were still there They were still in your life Why couldn't they just run off and cut all ties with you? From the moment that they began devaluing you. I mean, it should have been so easy for them They never invested anything into you to begin with anyway What did they ever do for you? They never really invested any time Any money any of their resources It's so easy for them to just pull out and just forget about you They never invested anything into you So why did they stick around for such a long time while they're devaluing you? When they could just walk away at any moment. It wasn't like how it was for you You gave all of your time energy and devotion all of your money and resources to them And they aligned to you the future fakes They made you have to stick around They promised you that things were going to change things were going to be better So that's why you couldn't leave straight away But there was no excuse for them their behaviors Just never line up with what they're saying It doesn't matter what they say. Look at what they're doing Look at their actions Look at what they're trying to do to you So yes, of course They do think of you when you leave them alone And if you find this video helpful Don't forget to hit that thumbs up button down below It's very important I can see we got 181 live viewers in here Only 30 thumbs ups So please hit that thumbs up button It helps a YouTube algorithm to get this message out there to other survivors And remember What you do for other people You do a good deed that will come back to you The energy you put out always comes back So remember to hit that thumbs up button Let's get this message out there for other survivors as well And let's continue with this message They most definitely do think of you When you leave them alone There's no doubt about that And they do recognize That they had a good thing with you You were taking care of them Everything was sorted out for them They didn't have to worry about anything Maybe they had a place to stay with you You were paying for all of the bills You were paying for their food I'm sure some of you you were washing their clothes cooking their dinner I mean they didn't even have to do anything It was very convenient for them And they do of course know the difference between something that is good and something that is bad I mean of course they look at how their lives were with you and how you were living They're not stupid of course they can see That things were well with you You were living well and they wanted to be a part of it, of course Yes, they are aware of that Despite what they may tell you They know they had a good thing going with you And that's really a part of it That's why they think of you when you leave them alone That's why they get so mad That's why it causes a narcissistic injury and they rage And they want to come back to sabotage your life They start a smear campaign against you They spread all of this gossip all of these rumors about you They talk about you to other people behind your back That's why they do all of that Because yes Despite what they've said I don't care if they were insulting you and putting you down every day for the past five or ten Years It doesn't matter what they said Deep down they know just how great of a person you are And that is why when you try to move on without them they get so mad Because they already know you're gonna be far happier without them They know you're gonna have a far greater life Of course they already know that that's why they've got to start a smear campaign and try to destroy you To try to prevent you from moving on Because you just got to think about it like this Think about it like this They're going off in one way on their path with their lives And these are people who never take accountability for anything in their lives It's like they never really worked or earned anything They just manipulate people and take what they've got and they go from person to person So they're just running off On their own go in their own way And that's after they've been having this Incredible life with you Where you've been paying for everything you've been looking after them Providing them with all of these conveniences that they've gotten used to That they've grown accustomed to And then you decide to leave them alone And in their minds it's like Hold on I've been used to this Lifestyle all of these months these years Well, I could just sit back kick my feet up You do all of the work you pay for everything. I don't have to lift the finger And now what you're telling me I have to go off on my own Well, you take all of this stuff that you work for And you get to go off with that And I'm just left with what I have with what belongs to me Then our sister thinking How is that fair because their minds are warped They're so arrogant and entitled They're not looking at it like oh Oh, you've worked so hard all of your life. Of course. Yes These things are yours This is you. This is your body your mind Your soul Your job your business your home your car everything you worked for So you should rightfully go off With everything that you are everything that you have And live your life And then the narcissist Should just go off on their own in their own direction With everything that they've worked for Everything that they are everything that they have Because then that's fair, isn't it? I mean that's fairness That's equality If you've worked on yourself if you've worked for what you have then it's yours rightfully Even legally lawfully Narcissist doesn't see it that way though They don't really care all they see Is that you have an advantage over them It doesn't matter if you worked for it doesn't matter what you've done at all They're just looking at it like We are going in opposite directions You're choosing to leave We're going our separate ways But hold on I'm going this way My life is not going to be anywhere near as good as when it was when I was with you And because you were putting up with me and I was just this absolute liability to you And I was weighing you down And you can just go off and sprout your wings and fly away That is how they see it They are not concerned about fairness or equality They're not concerned about if you have Worked on yourself you've worked hard You've built up a business you've got a good job whatever it is You bought your own home your own car They're looking at it like Yeah This is you This is your life This is your stuff. This is your shit This is my life This is my shitty existence I want your life I want your stuff I want to be you Is how they think in their minds And now you can see Why they are the way that they are Why they think of you when you finally leave them alone Yeah, you can leave them alone very easily of course you can It's not so hard for you because What did they ever do to for you anyway? What did they ever bring to you? How did they ever improve your lives they never did in any way? They needed you far more than you ever needed them So, of course, it's easy for you to cut them off and walk away The only thing you're worried about is how they react in case they explode in case they attack you Because they already know you are the one with a value You are the one who is going to have a far better life without them And they are the ones who are going to be miserable without you Which is why they will hold on to you for dear life 200 live viewers hit that thumbs up button down below. Thank you Let's get this message out there to other survivors. It's very important Yeah, of course they're thinking of you When you finally leave them alone, they can't stand it Especially if you are the one to discard them They want to be the ones to do that to you Remember the very arrogant They have this Sense of superiority It really makes no sense at all. I mean the entire time They need to do far more than you need them You are doing everything for them Everything they wanted from you you took care of it. They never really did anything for you to begin with And yet They have this position of authority and control over you But they believe that they are superior to you and Yeah, they're thinking of you when you finally leave them alone because They were so dependent on everything that you were doing for them That's why But for us, it's like the only thing Really stopping us from leaving the entire time We're just worried about how they're going to react Because this person has been feeding off us all of this time It's like It's like a Like a parasite That is constantly feeding on us. We are their host And you're just worried if you Pull the cords If you Cut off their supply You're just scared about how they might react It's like they're on a on a drip It's like they're on a drip and they're linked up to you And it's being injected it's being funneled into them from you to them All of this nourishment all of these nutrients All of this goodness and it's providing them with health and vitality It's just being sucked out of you and dripped into them And it's fueling them that's their narcissistic supply And it's making them feel alive And you're just sitting there It's like you're sitting here. They're sitting there It's like you got this thing In your arm And it's linked up to them Injected into their arm Sucking out all the nutrients from your body It's nourishing them. It's making them feel good And you're just thinking As you're being drained becoming lifeless you get really tired you're losing all your energy Thank you God I really want to pull this thing out right now I'm just worried how they might react if I do Other than many of you you do you just decide to At some point you just can't take it anymore you pull it out And then you see their reaction you just see the rage they explode And in their minds it's like Who do you think you are to do that? To cut off my supply To take away my nourishment my nutrients And for you it's like the arrogance The audacity the entitlement How could anyone possibly think that way? And think that they're normal It's like they're just coming to your life And you've worked so hard on yourself you built up your life Worked so many years at your job your business And this person is just coming into your home Acting like they own the place Acting like they own you and they're draining you You're taking care of them you're paying for everything And they think they own you it's like you're their slave They're servant it's completely insane It's unreal but I know you all know exactly what it's like If you've dealt with one of these people Although I wouldn't really call them people What I would call them is leeches Parasites bottom feeders The lowest of the low the scum of the girth Thinking they can just come in and feed off you No way I cannot allow that to happen anymore Which is why you need to know that when you leave them alone They will be thinking about you of course Because they know how great of a person you are And they know how much happier you're going to be without them Yes, of course, they know that And they know how miserable they're going to be without you When you leave them behind and you move on with your life They know their life is going to suck without you And your life is going to be amazing You're going to be so much happier So much less stress in your life So much more money to spend Of course, yes, they know that They've probably been calculating it already And they can't stand it It's driving them insane So of course they're going to be thinking about you They're going to be obsessing over you And they're going to be plotting and scheming to try and find a way to bring you down To prevent you from moving on without them Because they already know If that is a level If that is a level playing field If it's just you and them This is an analogy I don't mean this literally, of course But just as an example If it's you and them You're about to run a race It's a 100 meter sprint You're running side by side It's fair It's determined Only by your abilities In that type of situation In that type of environment They already know who's going to win They already know who's going to be happy Who's going to be healthy Who's going to live a better life And who's going to be miserable Bitter Resentful Jealous And very vengeful Yeah, they already know that's going to be them They already know that And that is why in any situation In any environment That they possibly can There's never going to be any fairness or equality There's never going to be a level playing field Instead Coming back to the analogy What will happen is You're about to run this 100 meter sprint You're not running side by side They're right up the front On the line You're somewhere back there Tied to a tree You're going to figure out How to unchain yourself And only then can you begin the race And even if you do manage To get yourself out of that And you manage to get on the track And miraculously Somehow you manage to catch up to them as well Just about to overtake them Through to the finish line Then suddenly All of the flying monkeys Just run onto the track And they all just pile on top of you Crush you I can't even make this stuff up That's how it goes That's exactly how it goes Those of you You've dealt with these narcissists These flying monkeys you'll know Exactly what I'm talking about That's exactly how it is And the reason why Is because you're just a million times Greater over a person Than they will ever be And that includes their flying monkeys I don't care how many of them they've got If they've got 100 flying monkeys Then Yeah You're a million times greater than them And their 100 flying monkeys Put together and they already know it That's why they have to group together to begin with Because they already are aware Of your power, your worth They already know that you're a million times better Than they will ever be So of course they've got to bring you down They've got to hold you back Because otherwise you've got to continue To put them to shame Do you know how much shame they feel When they have to see you Moving on with your life and you're happy Do you know how that makes them feel It makes them feel like shit Makes them feel like absolute Losers Because It was never that easy for them To do the things that you accomplish And even if you're not accomplishing great things You could just be doing little things in life That's fine The difference is you can actually enjoy it Even in that type of situation You might have a little house A little car Just a normal job You're not doing anything special But you can enjoy it You enjoy your little home You enjoy your little car Maybe you go out for dinner Just once a week You love it You're having a great time You're happy Meanwhile the narcissist Could be living in a mansion 10 supercars in the drive And they're absolutely miserable So they will still Try to sabotage you Because they're still not happy So it's not always about what you've got It's about your ability To enjoy it As well These people are miserable They can't enjoy anything in their lives They are absolute losers And what are we? We are winners We are winners And I have to tell you this I have to help To undo all of this Washing this indoctrination That has been Dumped on you By these absolute Losers Because that is what they are When you are around losers You might even become a bit of a loser yourself Of course what do you think is going to happen If you go around a bunch of Drug dealers Alcoholics People You think your life is going to get better Around those types of people Of course not And that's exactly how it is When you get involved with these narcissists Try hanging around A bunch of self-motivated millionaires People who are actually Going somewhere in life People who have their own lives Instead of having to be caught up In all of this bullshit All of this gossip Blies Of course being around people like that Is not going to get you anywhere That's why you have to pull yourself out of it You do not belong there You are so much greater than that You are a beautiful person Inside and out You are very special You really are And that's why they do these things to you That's why they make you feel the way that they do That's why they bully you That's why they put you down That's why they try to isolate you They don't want you to have any friends Because you're an amazing person You're beautiful inside and out And you may not believe it You may not think I'm speaking to you personally Sometimes you just got to look at yourself To see how amazing you are Because that's what I see That's what I see And I know a lot of other people Are not seeing that A lot of other people are miserable And they're trying to project Their misery onto you When you are so much greater than that You are meant for so much more So to sum it up They think of you When you leave them alone Of course they do Of course they will And in many cases They're going to stop You just got to look at it like this And this is really the final blow This is the final nail In the coffin To really crush These nocks It's like putting a machine gun to the nocks And it's like finish them off This is how you do it The more hell bent The narcissist seems at destroying you And bringing you down When you finally leave them alone And the longer that they stalk and harass you The more that they gossip about you The more flying monkeys They have in their smear campaign The more of all of that The more extreme, the more exaggerated it all is The more blown out of proportion All that should translate to you Is How much greater of a person than them They know that you are And if you're not watching this live Just pause the video Play that back again A very important point Should tell you just how great you are The more time they try They spend trying to destroy you To bring you down It should tell you just how great you are I mean It's like if you're trying to demolish a building If it's a small building It's not going to take very long Or what if it's a giant skyscraper You're trying to take that down That's going to take a lot of work A lot of manpower And it's going to affect a lot of people Everyone in the entire city May be caught up in it They may be involved They may have to close down all of the roads Everything just to bring that thing down Are you getting it? You see now How great, how special you are Don't let them brainwash you Do you know how much satisfaction that gives them? Well they can trick you into thinking That you're not as great as you actually are When deep down they already know That you are a million times better than them Why do you think they do it? To make someone at your level Feel like you are beneath them That really makes them feel special It really does That's it for this message today I'm going to relax now I'm in this old Japanese house I asked them how old it is They said they don't know I'd have a guess that it looks Maybe a few hundred years old It's all wooden But it's nice I like old things I am quite a traditional person myself Anyway, if you found this video helpful Please click that thumbs up button down below It helps the YouTube algorithm To get this important message out there So that other survivors will see it as well And let me know what you think about this video I know I went on a bit of a rant there I just wanted to provide as much value as I could In this video So I hope I managed to deliver on that Let me know what you thought about it In the comments below I do read your comments every day And also hit that subscribe button And click all notifications Make sure you do that because then You will be notified when I upload a new video If you don't click all notifications as well You might not always get the notification on time So please remember to do that And if you need more support I am available for a one-on-one coaching session Which you can buck through my website It is Narcseviver.co.uk And also you can follow me on Instagram My Instagram is Narcseviver YouTube That's it for this video I'm just going to do some more work Write up a new video Got a premiere starting soon as well So thank you all for joining me And as always I look forward to talking with you In another live video very soon