 What's going on, you guys? So the question today is, hey, Lloyd, I've implemented some stuff that you talk about in the approaching system. I can now walk up and talk to women and start conversations. They seem interested at first, but once we get talking, I find they tend to start to lose, they tend to start losing interest really quickly. What can I do to keep them from losing interest so quickly? Is it my looks that are the problem? What's going on? Okay, let me address a couple things in this. First of all, this is something I cover extensively in the approaching system. So my guess is he started watching it and got through the first few episodes, but didn't actually complete the whole thing. Totally fine. This is a very common question I get and a very common thing that happens. So what I'm going to talk about today is I'll probably talk about like what the actual problem is, why these girls are losing interest. You know, is it as looks? Is it something just to do that you can't control? Or is it something else? And then after that, I'll kind of give you an example about what you can do to prevent this from happening to you. I'll give you one example. I talk about, again, more in depth on this in the approaching system. Okay, cool. So what my guess is, is why these girls are losing interest is for the same reason that girls were losing interest with me about six years ago. So about six years ago, I was walking up and talking to women, I could start conversations very easily, but I had trouble holding people's attention. They would typically look away and not really try and figure out a way to get out of the conversation. So that was kind of frustrating for me. What I learned was how to keep people's attention better for a couple of things. And keep in mind, guys, I look pretty much the same as I did six years ago. But once I learned this, a lot of those mistakes that I was doing, they went away. Like I would keep people's attention for a lot longer and better and my just everything, my interactions were just a lot better with people. So one thing that I got good at doing, which is just gonna, you're just gonna have to practice and I talk about ways that you can, things to look for in the approaching system is get good at reading people. If you find you're, you start talking to somebody and they have to go somewhere, then you trying to get them to talk to you and talk about something else is, they're just, they're not interested. They're clearly thinking about something else. So you got to pick up on that sort of stuff. The other thing to think, too, is that what I noticed that guys do is they'll look to the girl, look to the person they're talking to for a reaction for something to give them. And a lot of times they won't give you much at the beginning. At the very beginning, when you first say hi, what's up, like she doesn't know who you are. She isn't so she's just going to be friendly to you as like a base standard. But then as you start talking and there's like, she's like, why is this guy here? What's the purpose behind this? I don't see where this is going. Like that's when she starts kind of looking around and looking for other things. Alright? Or maybe she just like, you know, looks down and like wants you to leave. So what I usually do during this period is I'm not scared to lead. Like you got to get good at leading the conversation usually after that initial like friendly period, like she's gonna the natural instinct is for her to go back and do what she was doing before. So I persist a little bit before then, sorry, a little after then, and just talk for a little bit longer. And with her body language, if she still turned away from me, then I'm like fine, okay, she maybe she wants to go do something else. And we we go our separate ways. Or I ask her, hey, you trying to go that way. And if she's like, yeah, I'm trying to go that way, I'm actually late for work. I'm like, cool, well, let's walk that way. And that way we can talk as we walk. She's going to get to work on time. And you know, we get to still have a conversation and still see if we vibe. Okay, you want to come at it from the standpoint where you're walking up to this person and seeing if you guys vibe with each other. And if you walk in from that framework, it's a lot more purposeful. There's you don't get a lot of people like looking around and stuff. And you combine that with learning how to read people's reactions a lot better. And you'll be able to do this very easily. Even if it's on the street, if it's just like a random person that you just started talking to, all of those things will help you grab people's attention a lot better. So I give you guys lines, I give you guys a bunch of things that you can use in order to help out with this. But hopefully from just watching this video, you kind of got an idea about why people tend to lose interest pretty quickly. Like a lot of it has to come from you. Like another thing is you have a lot of good positive energy. What I mean by that is I mean, like if you can give somebody the positive energy within you, then you're going to do a lot better than someone who's like very low energy. Okay, so come out with a little higher energy, leave the conversation, read her reactions. And I think a lot of those problems will get solved for you, man. Cool. Are you guys, well, if you want to join the approaching system, again, for the next five days, we're going to have it at the discount pricing. So probably till like next Thursday, we'll have it at the price that it's at. And after that, it's going to double. It's going to double or possibly triple. So I highly recommend if you're interested in purchasing that, you do it now. Thanks a lot you guys. Good luck out there.