 Well, hello and welcome to understand men now. I'm your host Jonathan as they have Jonathan as they calm and I'm so Excited to be shooting this short video for you today. We're gonna talk about men are men really intimidated by women Okay, before we get started a lot of you keep asking me this so really quickly I always change the pictures here. They're mostly of my boys and myself That happens to me my son Connor who passed away in the center and that happens to be his mom below there But anyway, so I just wanted to share that with y'all because I know you ask Several times I've been asked about it. Okay, we're gonna talk about our men really intimidated by strong confident woman women So I hear this all the time. I hear so many women come to me saying that men are intimidated by my strength They're scared away by my strength and and my confidence and my you know my ambitious lifestyle And they're just intimidated by me I'm here to say that no man's penis shriveled Because a woman was small strong smart strong successful. Okay, no high quality man's penis shriveled Because a woman was strong smart strong and successful strong smart and successful smart strong and successful whatever it is Okay, that's oftentimes a rationalization that happens when a relationship ends I'm gonna get to that rationalization in a moment because I I know that's probably triggered a few of you So let me tell you really quickly about a story of a couple women. I've dated I remember In the beginning of my journey after my divorce. I went out with a very smart strong successful Gorgeous woman. I mean she made a million dollars a year professionally. She was a practically a men's you know incredibly successful attractive men were pining after her and she was with me and After about five months our relationship I ended it When I ended it I heard on Facebook. She said I was intimidated By her I don't think it was Facebook. I think it was somewhere else. I read that But I heard that from circle of friends and others that she said I couldn't handle her strength I couldn't handle her confidence That wasn't why I broke up with her I broke up with her because there was a controlling factor Associated with her there was kind of a selfish of factor associated with her There wasn't a real care for my needs wants and desires, and I don't mean that from a feminine perspective I meant that from a human perspective She wasn't the man in the relationship, and I was the woman in the relationship, and I was intimidated by her I just wasn't really happy being with someone who cared more about themselves than they did me That was it, but I got labeled as being I broke up because I was intimidated by her And that was the furthest thing from the truth, and I was later in a relationship with an incredibly Successful woman who had her own TV show dropped it gorgeous worth millions and millions of dollars But I our relationship didn't end because my penis shriveled up In fact, we just realized we weren't aligned with each other and thankfully she didn't go walking around saying that Jonathan was intimidated by me But that's oftentimes the rhetoric. So let me just say this Any self-respecting man isn't intimidated by a successful woman a smart successful woman Let me just repeat that because when we think of intimidation I think of intimidation this way. I walk into a room with big burly football players And they look like they're gonna kick my ass. I'm intimidated. I'm intimidated Why because I can't protect myself or my fear is I can't protect myself Okay, that's my fear. That's what intimidation is all about a Fear that you can't protect yourself that you can't live up if there's an eminent danger. That's what intimidation does Not in relationship when a woman is smart strong successful, and I'm great Thankfully, there's so many of you out there. Yes, it's great and Some men aren't attracted to those kind of women. Some men maybe don't have the inner confidence They don't have the inner confidence to be with that kind of woman But that doesn't mean he's intimidated by it. It's a reflection of himself. It has nothing to do with you It has nothing to do with and I know you've been convinced that it's all this Masculine energy that turns off men. No either a he doesn't feel good about himself or B And this is really the bigger issue and that's the this because of this in this video title We don't think we're gonna be loved by you we don't think that you we might feel That because you're more successful than us these are by the way I'm talking about the woman who's sick more smarter stronger and successful than the guy Okay, it's usually we don't hear this rhetoric when the guy makes more money and is smarter than the girl We hear it or from the woman. We hear it the other way around So let me talk about that guy. You're making a quarter million dollars a year and he makes $50,000 a year and you say he's intimidated by you. No, this is what he fears He fears you're not going to love him because he doesn't have as much as you That's the real fear. It's not intimidation It's that we aren't gonna be loved for who we are because men tend to be more visual creatures and Women tend to be more status-based now by the way, this isn't absolute This is just general rhetoric, but I'm just saying mostly women are looking for the man with the bigger cave So if our cave isn't bigger We're not afraid of you. We're afraid. You're not going to love us Wow think about that for a second here of their fear is that you aren't going to love them Is that intimidation? Is that a fear that you're going to kill them? No So let's stop this rhetoric of he broke up with me because he was intimidated by me because as I said before that's a Rationalization that's him for a lot of women not you but for all the other women out there that say it because I know you Don't say it Those women say that to make them feel good about themselves But it really doesn't make them feel good about themselves because they may not be leaning into maybe that woman was a pain in the ass Like the first one I broke up with And the second one it was simply misaligned But thankfully she didn't use that rhetoric because she knows she's a high-value person woman And nobody's intimidated when you're a smart strong successful woman You don't ever need to assume someone's intimidated by you because you just show up in your sovereignty You are in such queen energy that you're rocking and rolling and you're fantastic And you're going to be around other people who are fantastic as well And that's my invitation for you because a guy doesn't have to make as much money or be as smart as you To want to be with you But you got to also let him know that you want to be with him Because that guy who does make a little bit of less money might have a fear That you're not going to love them for the less so just simply express I care about you. You're an awesome dude. I don't care about the money and the success and everything I care about who you are and when your guy feels good that he knows that you're with him because you care about him You have a greater chance of success Now that's not to say that his childhood wounds and traumas might not sabotage the relationship That certainly can happen But when you're with a high quality guy and you've seen my videos about high quality So check out my other videos wherever they're located to check out about high quality guys Because that high quality guy is never going to be intimidated by your awesomeness your amazingness But we do occasionally fear that you may not love us because we have less So just simply say I love you for who you are and that's what matters most And if you don't know what I love you means here make it really simple I'm here You matter we're important. I've got your back I'm not going anywhere and I only want you And when you say that to a guy in that way Hey, a high quality guy is going to go. Yeah, that's my woman right on Okay, I hope this helped out You might have some questions based on this one. So please post a comment below ask your questions I do my best to read everything um as always if you would like some Coaching some personal help check out my link below to schedule a discovery call with me to see if coaching is right for you And if you can't afford coaching check out my vip group It's an amazing group where I interact with everyone on a daily basis through facebook and videos and webinars and all that good stuff All right, I'm going to wrap up this video giving myself a big gigantic jot and bear hook I'm actually giving it to you and I'm going to ask you to do the same right now do this right now Because we all could use some hugs. All right, we're going to wrap up this video and wishing you a super duper wonderful fantastic day Thanks so much. Bye. Bye now