 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and in today's video We're gonna talk about four signs of unconditional love in your relationship If this is your first time to our channel make sure that you hit the subscribe button and to make sure you get more videos On how to have the relationship that you've always wanted. So unconditional love. What is it? How can you make sure that you have it? How do you know? What are the signs? You know, how do you know you have this amazing thing of unconditional love? So what unconditional love is is it's love without conditions around it, right? So it's being in love and there's no only if or and there's no but there's no Exclusion to it. You are in love. It doesn't pertain to how somebody treats you. It doesn't pertain to What somebody does or how much money they have or you know your looks it doesn't pertain to any of those things And so here are the signs that there's unconditional love in your relationship Sign number one is that you both are ready to grow old together. So what does this even mean though? What it means is that You it's not about looks anymore, right like looks and looks And that you know like attraction that passionate attraction thing that you first have in your relationship that's That that goes away after a time unconditional love does not so unconditional love is having that desire To keep each other in your life for the rest of your life No matter what sign number two is that you both tell each other your deepest darkest secrets, right? So a good sign of unconditional love is not only that you tell each other everything But also that you feel okay to tell each other everything, right? And a lot of relationships There's kind of this weird thing where You know people don't really feel okay to tell each other things or or maybe one person might make fun of another person For something that they say that's vulnerable and so being in a relationship where there's unconditional love You can just tell each other anything you can you can tell your partner anything that's going on with you and He or she is totally open to accepting and listening to it and not judging you for it So sign number three that you guys have unconditional love in your relationship is that you're proud of who he is Not who he should be there's actually I was Replying to somebody's comment on YouTube a little bit earlier and somebody was asking like about masculine feminine dynamics and okay There's this guy and he You know is kind of feminine can't I you know kind of make him become more masculine for me? And and really that's the opposite of unconditional love right unconditional love is accepting him for who he is Regardless of who he is. It's not trying to change him or trying to or falling in love with this Idealistic person that you he could be one day in the future It's looking at him and accepting him for his flaws accepting for who he is and Deciding that this is the person that you're gonna love no matter what so sign number four is that you guys Communicate openly without resentment and so I kind of want to go back a little bit and talk about this this thing Because I want to make sure something's clear because sometimes when I say like you know unconditional love You know it regardless of how somebody treats you and what they do sometimes people are like well What if he treats me like crap well? Unconditional love isn't about just letting somebody treat you like crap and it being okay, right? You still have boundaries. This is a relationship in a relationship, you know in this Form of communication. You're doing things and you're you have boundaries. You you have standard set And you you respect them right both of you respect them and you do things for the other person and you Love them Because there there's no there's none of that animosity there, you know, there's none of that resentment There's none of that trying to get that other person back right like that revenge thing I've talked about this before in some of my other videos I keep having a lot of women be like oh well I want to you know do this so that he knows how it feels or or whatever, right? That's not unconditional love. That's Something else that's unhealthy that you don't want in your relationship Unconditional love is accepting each other and For who you are and and and loving each other no matter how things go, but there's also boundaries There's also rules to your relationship. There's also, you know structure around it to make sure that you're in a healthy and happy relationship and Both of you love each other so much that you want to make sure that your needs are getting met that you want to make Sure that your partner is amazing and feeling great and happy and joyful and nurtured and you know taking care of right? It's not, you know, I love this guy who's abusing me. It's it's not that at all. It's it's You know having being able to open up. It's it's having It's having trust in each other It's being you know on this level playing field where you both, you know Love each other and care about each other so much that you wouldn't ever want to hurt each other And that's why the unconditional love works so well. So as unconditional love real, can you have it in a relationship? Absolutely, there are plenty of people that I know that have unconditional love in their relationship I know plenty of people that have unconditional love for other people in their lives, you know, maybe not the romantic kind But the romantic kind also happens. I've seen it. It works People do it. It's amazing. It's the best kind of relationship that you can possibly be in Do you have unconditional love in your relationship? I don't know you tell me Thanks for watching this video if you're ready to know exactly what to say and do to attract the man and the Relationship you've always wanted click on the button on the right hand side of this video and go to our website