 I want you to never use the word SHOULD again. Why is that? SHOULD. What does that make you think about when you hear the word SHOULD? I should do this, I should do that. He told me I should this, do this. Society says I should do this. SHOULD means external circumstances tell you that you need to do something. You're being forced by outside circumstances. Instead of SHOULD, start using the word WANT. Whenever you're going to do something, if you can't replace the word SHOULD with WANT, you're doing the wrong thing. I should pay the bills. No, I want to pay the bills. I should go to the doctor. No, I want to go to the doctor. WANT is proactive. It comes from choosing to do something. So next time your mind or somebody else tells you you should do this, you should do that, ask yourself do I WANT to do this? And if not, you're doing the wrong thing. Good luck.