 So got any debts or, you know, how much do you really feel comfortable spending? You know, what's your savings? Like it's going to feel really like intrusive. If you say, you know what was really important to me or something that I've realized, or this is how I like to manage things and you share, it creates a much safer environment for the other person to share information returns. I think that's a nice way you can kickstart the conversation about money. And then if you are in a couple and you think this is for the long time, it actually makes so much sense to crack a spreadsheet out.