 Alright guys, I was Orlando Owen, big thanks, and I appreciate the words of encouragement and everything about that that he said. Next up, we have Chris, aka Orleans. I am taking the time to introduce him because he's a very special speaker to me personally, because the last time I saw him and the last time we were on camera together on stage, he was actually helping me open and introduce the entire first Under-21 convention in July of 2007. Three years ago, I think exactly to the day, and that was an amazing thing that he did. He flew down from Canada just like he did yesterday, and he really put himself out there years and years ago, and this convention was, no one even knew what the hell it was. So a big round of applause for Chris Orleans, who is now on his own. Thank you for coming, Chris. Thank you. Kick some ass. I will. Hi guys. How y'all doing? That's why I say thank you once again to Anthony for putting this on this weekend. I mean, this is such a monumental event. I see so many fresh faces here, and everybody looks hungry. Everybody looks like they want to make something for themselves. And so that brings me to my first point. You don't need motivation. I don't feel like I need to stand up here and give you a speech about, you know, how awesome you guys need to be, you know, how much you guys really need to get this handle, because quite frankly, you're all sitting in this room. You all traveled some sort of distance, whether it was just down the street or, you know, across the country or across the continent. I don't feel like I need to stand up here and motivate you. What I do feel like I need to do as a professional seducer is I feel like I need to get you better with women. My original game plan, my original game plan was to give you guys a game plan to go out tonight. I'm the last speaker today, the last one on tape. So I figured, you know, I would give you guys a game plan to go out and from meat to seduction give you a blueprint for how to go out and get laid tonight. I start writing it down and rehearsing it and everything. I decided that was a little bit ambitious for an hour. For two hours, I would have been safe, but for an hour, it was a little bit much. So what I decided to do today is talk about three things that I consider the game changers. What these are, are these are the three things that basically will dramatically improve your game in a very short amount of time. These are the three things that are instantly applicable that you can take out tonight and use to improve your success with women. So the first one is going to be the first minute. This is going to be approaching. How many people would say that they're beginners here? By a show of hands. Okay, how about intermediates and advanced? Okay, cool. There's going to be something for everyone here. So we're going to be going pretty fast here. I rehearsed this last night and it came out to 50 minutes. I'm going to try to reduce that to about 40. So pick up your pens. I gave you all hand out there. So you have plenty of room to take notes and follow along. No excuse for anybody sleeping in this presentation because we're going really fast. The first one is the first minute that we're going to talk about. This includes opening, approaching, your focus and all that kind of stuff. The next one we're going to talk about is touch because let's be honest, it's a physical game. You're not talking to a head on a stick. She's a person. She's a body. And quite frankly, you're not going to have sex with someone unless you've touched them. The final thing that we're going to talk to you about is objections and logistics. Logistics I would assume is half the battle. And frankly, if you don't have somewhere to bring or if you don't know where you're going, you're not taken or anywhere. Okay? It's not going to happen. So in my experience from teaching all the boot camps I have, all the one-on-ones I have, dealing with hundreds and thousands of clients, these are the three things, these are three checkpoints that the guys have the biggest hard time with. So that's why I really consider these game changers is because these are the three things I come up most consistently as problems throughout a guy's pick up. So like I said, instant application, instant results. This is something that if you remember it and use it tonight, it's going to garner you instant results and that's very important. I'm a firm believer in the 80-20 rule. Does anybody know what the 80-20 rule is? What's the 80-20 rule? Exactly. We only have so much time to work on this stuff. So we need to spend that focusing on the aspects of your game that are going to be high impact. The parts of your game that are going to create the most results for you and that's why I chose to spend this hour talking about these three things. And finally these things will increase your consistency and that's why I truly believe that mastery is. You know, anybody can go out and on a good day, you know, they say a pig can find a truffle, all right? But a master can go out and do it consistently. And this is what I'm talking about is increasing your percentages of consistency. So let's say that, you know, you're at a bar and you see a really, really smokin' hot girl. Oh my God. That's wrong slide. Sorry guys. Ah! There we go. That's a little bit better. All right. So you have the goal in mind. You see the girl that you want, you know, she's beautiful. She inspires you. She makes you want to walk over and talk to her. But let's say that you're facing with a little bit of approach anxiety or, you know, let's say you're getting a little bit of butterflies or you don't know what to do. Let's talk about that first minute because the first minute is absolutely crucial. During that first minute, you're going to be feeling the most nervous. You're going to be feeling, you know, the most uptight, you know. You're going to have butterflies in your stomach and that becomes a problem because if you get thrown a curveball, you're not going to be able to deal with it properly. You're going to be too locked in your head. So let's talk about ways to get over that and the game plan for that first minute. So focus, focus, focus. With my old company, we used to talk a lot about focus and you know, what is focus and everything. The general idea is that at any given time, you can only focus on a few specific things. Okay. Is it the sake? Let's say you can only focus on one thing. This means that if you walk up and say, saying to yourself, oh my God, is what I'm saying right, that's all you can focus on. You're locked in your head. So you have to learn to train that focus. All right. And the way I do that is with what I call three questions to ask yourself. Okay. These three questions. Oh, by the way, guys, there's going to be a pop quiz afterwards. So pay attention because whoever gets the right answer is getting a free consultation with me. Okay. So the three questions to ask yourself are, where am I at? Where do I need to be? How do I get there? Okay. So let's say you're standing at that bar. Okay. Or let's say for simplicity that you're sitting on a stool, having a beer. You see these girls, these beautiful, beautiful women. Okay. So what's the protocol now? Where am I? I'm sitting at the stool drinking a beer. Where do I want to be? I need to be over there talking to her. How do I get there? Now, this is where the tricky part comes into play. Okay. Because a lot of people would be like, I need to go talk to her. But I think that for people starting out, that's too many steps. Or that's too many steps ahead. What you need to think of is baby steps. Okay. You need to take it one at a time. So the first thing would be, I need to stand up. I need to get the blood flowing. I need to get ready for action. All right. Cool. We stand up. Okay. Now what do I need to do? I need to walk over. Okay. Let's begin walking over one foot ahead of another. All right. Okay. Now that I'm here, I need to open my mouth and start talking to her. You begin talking to her. This cycle needs to be going on through your head the whole time, the whole period of the, you know, seduction, pickup, whatever you want to call it. You need to be focusing on these things because it's going to train you to move forward. And one thing I want you to realize is that if you're not moving forward, you're moving backwards. Okay. You have to constantly be escalating the interaction, always in a forward motion. Otherwise, you're not going anywhere with this girl. She's going to walk away. She's going to get bored. Okay. So smile big and fortune favors the bold. Okay. No guy has ever done a successful pickup being meek. Okay. You have to be bold with this. You have to walk up and you have to have the personality of a man who's eight feet tall. Okay. Don't be afraid to speak loud. Don't be afraid to open up your body, which brings us to our next point, opening body language. Now, I know there's a lot of different theories about how to integrate body language into your opening, you know, whether you go over the shoulder, all that stupid bullshit. My theory on opening is simple. Make yourself vulnerable. Okay. Show that you're putting yourself out there because quite frankly, if you're not committing yourself to every single approach, okay, if every girl you approach isn't being treated like a special butterfly, okay, she's going to reject it. She's going to reject you. Okay. No girl wants to be just another face in the crowd. No girl wants to be just another girl you talked to that night. She wants to feel special. Okay. So you have to commit yourself to every single approach and you do so by opening up your body. If she were to take a swing at you, this would be the worst place to be. But what you're doing is you're opening yourself up to her and you're saying, I am who I am and this is me. Okay. So next thing I want you to note is keep it simple. Okay. There's a lot of complicated openers that floating around out there. There's a lot of different theories on how to open, you know, whether it's opinion openers, opinion opener, situational openers, all these things, but I like to keep it simple. The way I teach all my guys to open girls is, Hey guys, what's up? What's wrong with that? What's wrong with just saying hi, you know, there's some benefits to doing it. I'll tell you exactly why. The first is that it's going direct without being direct. Direct seduction is very, very powerful. It has an incredible potential for enlightening people to want to be around you. But at the same time, you have to keep in mind you're in a bar. There's lots of drunk guys around. All right? They're all going direct. They're all walking on the same. Baby, you're so beautiful. Baby, you're so fine. All right? Do you really want to be lumped in with all these guys? Because that's what's going to happen unless you're very, very good at what you do. All right? So it goes direct without being direct, as in you're removing the context from your approach. You're no longer using an excuse to walk up to this woman and say, you know, like, Hey, do you guys, you know, what do you think on this? All right? Every time, you know, I genuinely need a female opinion. And I say, listen, I need a female, Oh God, you know, I hate fucking saying that because it's so lame. So I keep it simple and I'm going direct without being direct. I'm not you looking for an excuse to be there. I'm there because I want to talk to you. Okay? It's an important concept that you have to keep in mind. This next reason why I like to keep it simple is because it creates a measureability. And what I mean by that is if you consistently open in a simple way, in the same way, every single time, it allows you to measure the other parts of your game without having this added variable of a situational opener. So now let's say you're getting rejected off. Hey guys, what's up? Why is that? Now, no, it's not because your verbals. It's got to be because of the way you talked to her. Maybe you didn't touch her. Maybe you just weren't bold enough. Maybe you didn't have a big enough cock, you know, joking on that last one. Last is that it limits contingencies. When you walk up and you say something situational or if you walk up and use an opinion opener, you are basically opening up her array of responses to thousands. She could basically say anything to you. And like I said, during that first minute, you're going to be the most nervous. You're not going to know what to do with it. And that's not good. All right? You want to keep moving forward. You want to increase that consistency. And so by limiting contingencies, you're able to now have a game plan for two. All right? Hey guys, what's up? It's going to get two responses. Okay? How's it going? Or who the fuck are you? All right? There's going to be ones in between, but basically it boils down to positive or negative. Now we have a protocol to move forward. Finally, when you're opening, begin touch because if you walk up to a girl and say, hey guys, what's up? They can ignore you because you're just talking to them. If you walk up and touch, they can no longer ignore you because you're now touching them. You're invading their space. You're bringing yourself to their attention. Okay? Very important. So next thing that we're going to work on, so now we have two contingencies to deal with. We have, hey, how's it going? And who the fuck are you? Okay? So what we're going to do is we're going to do positive behavioral reinforcement or AKA my favorite beer in the world, PBR. All right? So what you're going to do is you're going to tell her how she is. You want to start this reinforcement right from the get go because it's going to make it easier on yourself, okay? So what you're going to basically frame her as is let's say you were to walk up to a girl. What would be a really good personality quality or whatever for her to have to make it easy for you to seduce her? Does anybody have any ideas? Outgoing. Outgoing? That's a good one. It's spontaneous. It's good. It's good. I like to go with fun because it kind of encompasses all of that, all in one word. So what I'm going to do is I'm going to tell her that she's fun. I'm going to do this one or two ways depending on which response I get. I'm either going to use direct reinforcement. Let's say she says, hey, what's going on and seems excited like about me. I'm going to say to her, you seem like a lot of fun. I love that about you. Okay? You seem like a lot of fun. You're telling her how she is. I love that about you. You're reinforcing it. You're telling her how to seduce you. Okay? That's one thing I want you guys to learn is that as much as you're trying to, you feel like you're trying to pull the seduction off, you also have to teach a woman how to seduce you because that's going to give her the confidence to move forward on you as well, which makes it easier for yourself. Okay? Now let's say that you get a negative response. As a precursor to this one, what I want you guys to realize is that you cannot save any set. Any guy who says he can go five for five is full of shit and you should run the other way from him because he's fucking lying to you. Okay? No one can go five for five. And quite frankly, I wouldn't want to because that means that I'm going to be dealing with a lot of shitty girls who I don't get along with. Okay? No one can go five for five, but you can save percentages and the way that you're going to do this is with contrast to reinforcement. So you might say to her, you know what? Seems like you've been having a really bad night. I bet you've been hit on by a lot of sleazy guys. But I bet that when you meet someone special that you're going to turn into the most fun in the whole bar. Okay? And the trick is, is that you're really saying when you meet me, you're going to turn into the most fun person in the whole bar, but you're not saying it. You're using a new window. You know? I bet that when you meet someone special that you're going to turn into more fun than anyone else in here. Okay? So moving forward, now you've got to transition because the first thing that you say is not the most important. That's what you say after that. And I have a tool for this. And this is a tool that's going to be recurring throughout the entire pickup, throughout the whole seduction. And I call it soak. Okay? Pretty easy. You've got to soak her. S-O-A-Q. It stands for statement, observation, assumption, and question. And what these are is it's not a list of things in order, but rather a set of tools that you can use to transition to natural conversation. A set of tools that you can use to change the subject, if you will, should you get too deep on one. And one thing that I want you guys to realize that I'm not really covering. Verbals are going to be beyond the scope of this presentation. But one thing that I want you guys to know about verbals is that connection is not based off the depth of the conversation, but rather your conversational variety. I'll let you guys sit on that. So statement would be.