 This is why taking a little more time before being physically intimate to see if you're aligned with one another Makes more sense. I Think it's also important to choose partners who are introspective They do some work sort of personal development work. They know themselves Who they are? What are they about? Have they looked at their past relationships and really evaluated why they chose the people that they chose In their life and what did they learn from each experience? Maybe how did they heal from each experience? What was good about each experience? What are they most grateful for? You know