 Healthy cynicism beats remorseful anger. You will fall to ruin because you believe that exceptions to the rule make the new rules. Now we talk about this, not all acts are like that. The mistake and belief that you can name someone here because the average doesn't exist. You can name someone at the far end because the average doesn't exist. And that's how we usually use that when we talk about the female nature and things like that. Most women behave this way. Therefore, the fact that that girl isn't behaving the way, oh, you just wait. You just wait, right? And there's two implications to this. One is the most common one, which is you need to know what you're dealing with and you need to sit back. You're not gonna fall into traps that many men commonly fall into. And you won't fall into those traps because you are waking your head to the game units while it's a red pill and everything, right? But then there's the other implication that many people don't like to talk about. Tell your story. I've been with the same girl now for like six years. And it was a great time, man, I'm a very happy guy. But that first year, I said to her, I still say to her jokingly, I said, either you are the greatest actress in the world and you're gonna get the Academy Award again. Or you are a rare human being. I'm gonna just keep riding this out in the sea and I just sat back and I was looking for all the red flags I had her on Facebook, not a bunch of random dudes liking her pictures and putting heart faces and things like that. Okay, okay, we're good, we're good. Low social media profile on Instagram, okay, we're good, we're good, we're good. Came from a house with a whole family. Okay, okay, okay. Your father wasn't in the picture. Wait, wait, what? Oh, he died when you were kid, when did he die? You know, I didn't say that. The point is that if you get, I was so used to dealing with this part that I had no idea how to deal with someone who actually did exist at this part and we usually think about it in the reverse. And I'm really happy that she was patient with my craziness, you know. This isn't some love letter, whatever, I'm just making a point. And that point is that had I believed that all women are exactly like that, I would not be open to any that are. And I did believe that. But you have to get some experience, you have to remember that you're gonna encounter some exceptional individuals. Now remember, by definition, those individuals are rare. They are not the norm. And those are the ones that you need to bring into your world. And bring them into your world slowly. Or bring them into your world truly. Avoid, I told you, so syndrome. You know, and this is a big one for many of us in here because