 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder at commitmentconnection.com and in this video We're going to talk about how to flirt with men But before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract a quality man into a committed relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take my quiz So today's question comes from a woman in our community and she's asking how do I flirt with a guy and so Here are a few different ways that you can Use to flirt with men and and if you don't know how to flirt with men It's a pretty important skill if you want to attract a man into a relationship so the first way is to tease him and so teasing is kind of like Giving something and then kind of pulling it back a little bit. You know, it's kind of like Kind of creates a space there. It kind of gives something and pulls back a little bit and it can be really really Attractive if you use it in moderation. Don't don't use it a ton. Otherwise a guy will think you're trying to play games with them And so an example of doing this would be something like you seem pretty awesome So far at least Right and so you're kind of giving him a compliment, but then you're kind of going well I'm not really that sure about you yet. And so that can be a really attractive way to tease a guy So the second one is showing sexual interest and and if you don't know men actually are validated a lot by By feeling sexually attractive to women and so if a guy can get his feelings of sexual validation from you He'll continue to come to you for that Whereas if you do if if you don't he may end up going somewhere else to look for it and so one of the things that you will want to start doing is telling Guys or a guy that you're interested in how attractive things are that he does and not like on a scale But like telling him that it's attractive saying wow that was hot or like wow that was that was really attractive or oh man You look so sexy in that shirt, you know, just giving him some type of sexual validation can be really attractive to a guy the third way is Making him think Making him think that you're thinking something sexual and this is kind of One of it's almost kind of like a bait type of thing and it's you're kind of creating an image in his mind of What could possibly be? so kind of the example that I have here for you is look him in the eyes and smile and You know if you're looking at a guy in the eyes and smiling a lot of times what he'll do is he'll go you know, he'll be like, what are you smiling about and and What you want to do in a playful very playful way is tell him say something like You don't you don't want to know what I'm thinking and Just doing that will make him Will make him feel like you're thinking something sexual about him and That can be a very attractive way to flirt with a man And so the last one that I want to give you is touch, right? Touch is very very powerful, especially when you touch a guy a lot of guys aren't used to getting touched Especially by women and so as a woman when you touch him It's a very kind of nurturing and just Really attractive thing that you can do and so just find reasons where you can touch him and You know, if you can't find any reasons to touch him, which you know, you typically can pretty easily Just touch him when you laugh, you know touch him on the shoulder touch him on the hand You know, just touch him touch him on the knee, you know Wherever but so anyway, that's it for this video if you want more information about How to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship or if you want to find out What's stopping you from attracting a man to that kind of a relationship? Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon