 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. It is late. It is after midnight and I'm still hanging on to make this video I just got a request to make this video. So I had to do all those fresh on my mind So this video is going to be called how to energetically attract Someone okay now my only experience is as a woman So this is all I can give you but I'm sure you can apply it to you know as if you were a man or you know as well just kind of figured out but a Lot of people are if you notice there are some people who aren't the best-looking people in the world who are not the most you know Attractive don't have the best body, but somehow they still attract men and they still attract You know the good guys that most women want Then you'll have like a very perfect looking beautiful flawless woman Who can't really attract the same type of people? You know, it's energy. It's your energy. Okay, it's not about looks Because I mean it is a little bit about looks. Yes, you have to be decent You have to be presentable. You got to be attractive. You got to be clean. You got to be you know You got to have good hygiene and stuff like that. You can't be just terrible But if you are standing next to Let's say a model or supermodel and your personalities were very different You know the man might be looking at the supermodel but at the end of the day he might Want to conversate spend more time with the one that's more interesting with the bubbly or energetic personality or The fascinating personality or the intriguing personality or the mysterious personality. Okay, it's not about looks It's a combination. It's an energy that men look for in women, you know, how when they say oh she has it There's just something about her. That's her energy. Okay, so you want to have a high Integrating energy even if it's mysterious, you know, you don't have to be all bubbly and that's not your personality because that's not mine But you do need to feel an Energy they do they need to feel an energy. They need to feel your presence, you know, because that's what's striking. So for example a mysterious person would Give off an aura of like, you know a presence when they're around It's just like you feel their presence and you want to know them more. There's like a Chapter to to unfold or something like that They're they're more of a challenge but a mystery and an exciting adventure, you know And then you have the ones you have the women that are very Happy and go looking at a cure in the world and everything is fun and adventurous to them and men like that because it's It's exciting to them and it makes life worth living It makes them have a better outlook on life. Have you come across a woman who's tired beat down? Very negative, you know sits like this with her head down She might be looking good flawless, you know, makeup weave whatever nails done And she might be sitting at the bar like this looking tired and sad like man, all these guys suck You know no one's gonna come to you but her energy is not pulling them in Her energy is repelling them. They're like she's like get away from me. I know I look good smell good This is not but my energy is saying something else. So when you go out and you want to be approached Posture is very important. Keep your head up. Keep your chin up Look around smile like make sure your chin is up not like this but up because it body language says, okay, I look I look up I look to the positive in life. I'm not a negative person There's always something to look forward to but if you're looking down, it's like, okay You know, but if you're looking straight ahead, it's like, you know You're not excited about the future You don't care about the past and it's kind of like you're one of those in the moment chicks It's like, okay I'll know her for a moment that I'm moving on but body language tells a story So if you're always looking up, it's almost like your daydream You are planning your future or imagining something that you're getting ready to do. It's like you're thinking and You know planning something and it's very intriguing when people see it But you know, if you're just like this looking at everybody, okay You're people watching you're one of those people that are that live in the moment. Okay, cool some people like that but Whatever kind of energy you want to give off Make sure you know what you're doing when you're out pay attention to your body language Pay attention to your head movements your your your smile your tone of voice because that can tell a Lot about what you're going through in life Like, you know, if you have a negative tone all the time Because you're so used to yelling at people at work or your kids or you know, you're your ex And you tend to like talk down to people that energy is still Negative so when you speak to people Remember, you're not speaking to that person who upset you. You're not speaking to your ex. You're not speaking to your children You're not speaking to your coworkers You're speaking to a brand new person who you've never met before and you have to change your tone Okay, a lot of men get turned off by women's tones and a lot of women know that that's why they use the tones If they're not attracted to the men So they'll be like, oh, hi, what's your name? My name is Danny and the woman will be like, oh, my name is the yeah Well, who are you here? Oh, I'm just here my friends, you know that tone is so negative versus hi My name is Danny. What's your name? Oh, hi, I'm she or how are you? You know, oh I'm good. Who are you here with? Oh, I'm just here with some friends. They drag me out afterward. What are you doing here? You see how much more Energetic that is, you know, and how more inviting and warm it is You know, even if you're very interested in the guy, he's cute and you're still kind of like, oh, yeah I'm just here with my friends. Oh, what are you doing? Oh Nothing, I just came here with my friends up to work too. Oh, that's cool So, you know, that's kind of blah plain you can get that from any woman But if you light up the conversation and the energy around him, he's going to be very attracted to you even more, you know So give that energy when it's necessary. Pull it back when it's not okay Don't give energy to people if you know that they're not worth it. Okay, don't waste it either so, yes Also, you know, I'll talk about this a lot in my other videos the colors that you wear are very Telling as well, you know the type of makeup you wear, you know You have on all this black eyeshadow and dark lipstick and dark clothes, you know, and it's not, you know October or fall, you know Only certain types of men will be attracted to that you got to you know Be seasonal change your looks during the season You can't just wear one makeup look with your summer spring and fall You got to be seasonal. That's natural and it's very energetic when you can mesh With the season like if you come out in the summertime with a thousand pounds of dark makeup on When you should have on like tropical or natural colors, you're gonna you're gonna send out the wrong energy Okay, so make sure When you Approach men or women don't approach men But when men approach you or when you find yourself in a situation where men are around you to send out the positive good energy to make yourself look and seem more attractive, okay, because That's their first impression of you and if it's low energy They're going to always remember that and that's how they're gonna think about you when they see you the next time Oh, she's boring. She's blah. She's kind of out of it. She didn't have a lot of energy She seems like she would be a drag versus. Oh, yeah, that lady was so nice. I remember her She has such a pretty smile They will remember your eyes because your eyes are gonna light up. You're gonna show teeth smile They're gonna be able to see all of the range of your, you know, facial expressions so you need to show that you're You know engaged and you're able to interact and that if they were to introduce you to their co-worker Or their boss or their mother or their sister that they would to feel your energy and be impressed Okay, you you don't want your mom to say who I don't like her. She's kind of a drag You know, you want to be that personality that everyone is intrigued with, you know And if you're the mysterious type like me You know, you give a little bit you give a little bit not too much. Oh, that's nice Well, we'll talk about that later, you know, kind of be elusive but still have high energy, you know Because that's what keeps people attracted to you. It's that high energy They are attracted to high energy not low energy but high energy and however you pull it off It is attractive. Okay, so just remember that I know a lot of women. I talked to a lot of women on the phone You all know I'll do readings and they're like, yeah, you know and and that energy Just the tone of someone's voice even when you're on the phone with someone I know we text and stuff these days a lot Even when you're on the phone with someone and you feel tired You're gonna drag them down which is gonna lower their vibration and thoughts about you You always want to bring people up when you're on the phone when they hang up with you Or when they when they're done texting you they need to feel better than they did before they called you not worse Okay, so Or even when you leave a voicemail, I know people text all the time now, but in Relationships and when you're meeting new people, there is that exchange of speaking on the phone so Leave a voicemail with a lot of energy. Okay, not too much energy because you don't want to wear them out But just enough to attract them and make them feel good. Okay, if you overdo it They're gonna be like a new weight. Okay, so don't overdo it There are some people that overcompensate with high energy and bubbly personalities because they're lacking something else and men automatically pick up on that They're like, oh, she's being extra nice because there's something about her That you know, most guys don't dig so she has to overdo it and they'll take advantage of you know So don't always be too nice But energy not nice, but energy, you know, you can be An energetic bitch if you think about you know, you can be like, yes, you know You should go out this weekend. That would be a really nice place. I can't wait to go You know, it's kind of expensive, right? But it's really fun. Okay. I swear you will love it Okay, so basically you just told him you taking me to a nice place this weekend is cost money Save up, but you're gonna love it and now he's excited about you know, he's not like, you know, you could have said Well, there's this place I want to go to and it's kind of expensive. So, you know But I know you'll you know, you'll like it. So we're gonna go right That's like okay now. He's like, oh, I don't know if I want to go with her You know, she seems kind of blah and like she is expected, you know It's expecting me to do this even if she didn't really Run it past me. She just told me that we were going and Basically, I just said the same thing and a different tone with more energy and it seems nicer But it's still the same exact thing. Okay, so it's your energy and how you say things and how you vibrate When you vibrate with high energy, you're gonna attract the same response Excitement, okay. A lot of women are like, oh my man is not exciting anymore He doesn't do what he used to do and blah blah blah blah blah. He doesn't treat me the same Well, maybe your energy has died down a little bit and you need to bring it back up and get him back excited to do things You know, get all excited over something small, you know, that's how we used to do in the beginning of relationship So we should continue that, you know So I always get excited when I talk to my husband about little things and it gets his attention He's gonna hear me, you know, a lot of men will ignore what their women are saying and watch basketball or whatever and not even hear But if you get excited about it, they cannot help but to tune in That's how you get the attention that you need from a lot of women Find that they talk a lot and they bore the man to death But if you talk with energy, they are intrigued with the conversation But if you just If you're animated talk, oh my god, you know what happened. Okay. Are you ready? You're gonna laugh so hard Do you want to hear something funny? They're gonna be engaged in instead of like, you know what? You'll never guess what happened. It was so fun. Do they're not listening to that. You gotta Pull that energy You got to push that energy and then pull it out of them. Okay, so this is how Some Women attract these men who most people don't think they should be with you know most beautiful women Can attract a man, that's fine But they can't keep one because they don't have certain energy to keep drawing them back in okay You know looks looks are beautiful, you know, they're They're not something that everyone has Everybody has energy. Okay, so if you're ugly you got some good energy You're gonna get somebody okay, I'm not I'm not even joking like I know ugly women that are so ugly But they have the best energy and they have men that You know take care of them treat them like goddesses, you know Just wonderful, but they're not beautiful at all, you know that energy that inner light that energy that Essence is what got them. Okay You become beautiful by your energy and how you vibrate, you know My I have a friend who's very beautiful, but they have bad energy and Like no one wants to be around them like no one Because they kind of bring everyone down and it's not you know You know, it's not anything bad or anything. It's just that their energy is not Something or you know that people want to actually be around for a long period of time. So oh No, that's okay. I'll go by myself. Oh, no, that's okay. I'll catch you next time, you know beautiful beautiful beautiful but just Blah, you know People would rather be with fun energetic people Then beautiful boring people. I'm just gonna tell you And you can be pretty and energetic you can be Classy cute and energetic You don't have to be this perfect beautiful specimen of a person to get a millionaire or a rich man to take care of you Or the perfect spouse or a husband or true love that you build up together However, you want your man You don't have to be flawless and perfect to get a good one You just have to have the right energy to keep them intrigued and coming back for more and interested For many many years to come. Okay, so don't let that energy go work on it. Okay Even if you have to Drink some coffee Okay, I just want to put this out there. This was a request. This is not something I would normally talk about You know on this type of you know video or this channel, it's not really advice It's just You know how we are as human beings our energy level The way we um communicate how excited we get about things That's what attracts people how we interact. It's a relationship how we relate to people You understand so, you know Many people can get their way if their energy is right. You can request something demand something if your energy is right And you'll get it too because now they're excited about it and now they want it and it might even think it's their idea Okay, so I'll see y'all later. Bye