 Still a very good morning. Are you still feeling good? We can help you for better. Yeah I try to type on Facebook wide to five four channel onto the hashtag is white in the morning told you Lydia's a breakfast show in This here town and if you don't believe me, don't take my word. Don't even just Monday Wattwapa Tuesday Wednesday Thursday all the way to a social Friday. You won't regret it. You trust Trust me to vow or at color me vow on every day It is my honor to take you through the day. Now, you know what time it is time for strength of a woman and we have To come out of something you know, but I've just been salivating over her hair. Yes, so whoa guys Okay, but before we get any father she is phenomenal in her own right and I want you to meet her And I want you to know a little bit about what she does. What are the same as other good morning? This you is having nice hairs I tell them who you are I'm glad you said that was a certain zoom For now, but I'm working towards owning my own if I wanted to my head to be done by you How would I reach out? My favorite kind you come to me. Yes, I like So you can call me anytime and I'll be there All right, so you also said you are a facilitator. Yes, what does that mean? So I I do I do work with a different organization same Kuna some program book programs then you who are to nafanya The same for example come up with a program native families matter who are Facilitated. Yeah, so I'm a peer educator too. Yeah, what do you teach the youth? It's all about skills Life skills Yeah To do some sort of training skills And maybe find out your target audience. I want to tell you about a story in Miss Mokwagazeti Something about a student somewhere in Kisi school. Yeah, I hope yeah Mm-hmm Where is it guys? No, I want to get this right. It was a very very very Just I don't know and I'm not going to find it. Am I not okay? But anyway guys basic thing is something happened at the C school so he apparently he was late for class No, some evening classes After my job Yeah He drew a knife from his socks and Stabbed him Repeatedly I think I think a limo mystery Heep city whoopee and whoopee a lot more limo mania like what I'm trying to say there And now The meat of the story Cooper because says the education official further revealed that the attacker later Confessed to him that he had bought the knife to commit suicide Due to frustrations he experienced at home during the long closure of learning institutions Okay, so sample What do you think is going on? I think What I mean what to do it will call work or some how a corner stress Depending on below a make-up home one was a ziwa. What do you call? I'm talking to a shoe lady. I'm just gonna forget about So the same thing we're making fun. I'm talking to you at home I'm not but I'm just a kind of subui and in a subika mama me lala Johnny and a rudicama I'm talking to a me lala. So I thought I thought we could jump to you Okay, the rest of the day I make work if I mean no one I want a relationship between Mother and child could you a to know tonight and I'll a relationship. Yeah, it is not that tight So the parent doesn't know what the kids do does at the at the at the all the all of the day so yeah, yeah, and I Kikuja to me a me lala. So how I know time you're come here. How I know time you're cool bond. So I'm but I'm to me More most of the children who are not to me a drags Gp a pressure So and then another thing You're story home total. I think fall to be a co-coach who live Move to come to talk in the school as mass at you. I only can a me baby So that means labdaku a co-coach you And in the event to send me for example, so so we make a home. I think almost nine months. So we'll kick our home and perhaps easy industries and isn't make gong was done at the hotel industry is is a co-coach who live just basically a lot of things have been happening How I know Kazi just because COVID-19 came in a bit is a little fun. So what happens when? Zazia Nihadi was talk about a cool enough to suck one you know, that would be an extra help So kill on time one girl here. What happens is I'm Zazia. Can't say ma. No fun. Kazi. See what kill on to ask a soul Mrody not can you miss a road deny? Are we going to blame parents? Somehow why sub-aboo at the end of the day? It's the responsibility of the parent to make sure that Olem to talk about how What I am able to put him through at any as I end your work At the end of the day at a jipada and a commit crime. So I work with the girls when I try to be a covid Who make one has to remingis and So I was turn. I'm trying to make us a pads So at a dangano we have 14 to 15 years Girls when you are pregnant or when you are a total sigh. So both of them talk about a pad. I'm Zazia is a Ford pad See at a dangano I have sex at the end of the day When don't know any when don't know a pad hire some of the parents how a funny cousin Permanent so I cut it over the link. Yes, it will be barra. Oh, but I'm at time milk when I find a domestic work here so on up at a Our was as you want a one and a cook I'm out. Luckily me love them. I'm gonna put on a pig I'm gonna be a good one for me because you learn a case on a case. Oh, good. But it's a good one. I'm not And I'm not a cook I'm out the whole day. I just put a keeper on me. I'm a rudic one It'll a frustration and any one total a mission danger the whole day We expect a funny They have families, maybe they have children, maybe they have a baby And now they are angry because now teachers should be protected And you know I can't fault you, it's true they should be protected So is that fine? How do we fix this? How do we fix this? How do we fix this? I think we have to control ourselves I was a child when I was in school, I was a teenager She was 17 years old I was a teenager I was a teenager I have a recipe, it's very easy I was born at 15 I was born at 17 I think she was my daughter I take her as my friend, my sister She was very very close She was very young Most of the time, mute after time She was very delicate She used to slide me one time She was 17 I remember I remember I remember I told my mother She used to write a story She used to write I used to write She used to go to school Maybe she was a counsellor She used to go to the PSI She used to help me I have been in the PSI for 1 hour You never know if I will change life I have a lot of problems We should just talk about things We are African I am a woman I am a woman I am a woman What? Look at her Let's talk about this skillset situation What are the skills that you teach? what's your target audience? Is it boy child or girl child? Both Both Both Boy child and girl child are empowered So this is detergent making Yogurt making Matte making and bead making So I think it's more comfortable to do it Do you have school fees How is this benefitting you? How is this benefitting you? It's a passion It's a community I wrote a story at first and I was 15 years old You were 15 but you were still a girl I was 15 by the way I was 15 by the way So My first work was domestic work I was in Nairobi West For 1500 shillings I was 15 I was a stage adult I didn't know much I was really into it I tried to do it A lot I worked in different houses At home you just got the What? I tried to do it 3 times Oh God My mother used to say So my ma'am, I was at home at that time. I was at home at that time. Did you have a ball? I had a ball. I was at Moezi. I was at the adolescence stage at Sumbua. You were at that stage? Yes, I was at that stage. So I was at home. I was working. So I was passionate. Whatever I learned, I would give back to the community. So okay. This attempted rape three times. Were you at the same house? No, I was at different houses. So the first one, I was at the rape house. I was at my house and I said, Oh ma'am, I will return to my house. I will return to my house. The next house. It took me two weeks. Yes. So I was at home. I was at home. I had to go back home. Okay. Now that we're on this story. So I was at home. So I was at home. I think a Christian... I don't know what he is. But I know the story. So I was at some Christian type of station. He was also a house manager. So Moja, I think, How long have you been a house manager? Or how has the experience been? I love the person who is giving me the same. I don't even know what to say. Oh my gosh! I have been a house manager for how many years. And I don't understand. I don't know who is giving me the same experience. I think, I don't know who is giving me the same experience. And I just want to say, Hey sis, why are you upset? Why are you upset? Because she says she is very professional. So I was at home. I love to say to her, I was at the rape house. I was at the rape house. And I watched TV. So I gave her advice. She said, Why are you upset? Because she is very famous in the streets. She said, She was really upset. She was really upset. And then here you are telling me you are very innocent. And you are a prostitute. Is there any problem? So, I am not a prostitute. There are some organizations organizations in New Zealand train girls professional housekeeping that's the time this is the time when I was a child so that's when I changed because I was the one who told the kids about housekeeping at that time at 15 do you know anything how could you be empowered enough it's biological it's not making things up how would you make decisions how was it raising a child at 15, 16, how was that it was very hard 15 I was in from one I went back to school after 10 good years okay but I'm glad you went back I had too but it was hard when I was a kid I would say I'm not after work I was a mentor for those 10 years I was trained for education for 2 years so I had to do short courses before I went to school I did KCSE come on you grew up very fast life from 15 to almost 30 sometimes I would go to school I would go to school but I'm glad she's in school I'm glad she's in school I'm glad she's in school sorry I have interrupted you where's your story where's your story before I came to school I was a kid I had a life experience I had a life in another perspective so who has to hide anything I would watch a video I would just squeeze it and then I would go to school you were very fast I would go to school I would discuss because at the end of the day there was a time when I was 13 to 17 years I would go to school I would go to school when I was 13 years old I would have a girlfriend I would go to my mother's house my mother would work I would have a conversation I would open the door and say when I was 15 years old I would go to school I would go to school I would go to school I would hide anything they know parents are the most important teachers if you don't teach them about sexuality and sex I am not the one who found my mother I am not the one who found my mother so it's better to escape I would go to school I would go to school I would go to school I would feel shy at first but as time goes on I would go to school I would open the door and say everything that goes on with her so it's not just about skill set I am very important I am a girl through life experience I was born in the year of 1820 then when I was born I was ready to have a child I had sex education I had sex education I had sex obviously I had HIV and STM I was prepared to have a child I was prepared depending on the age but at the end of the day let's say for example we had a talk about suicide we had a talk about social media we had a TV we had a conversation what if you were 20 years old I would have told you I had a struggle when I was 15 I was in Form 3 I had a single mom I was 14 years old I was ready to have a child I was ready to have a child I was ready to have a child I was ready to have a child and I was ready at the end of the day I was ready at the end of the day I was going to visit her I was going to visit her I will tell you lets get back to the strength of a woman facilitator you are as you you know teach skill sets and all these things what else do you do your hairdresser yeah basically that is what I do now why why what did the community ever do for you that you feel like you want to give it back to them but you know I'm trying to say my name but I know I said yeah you know this when you were humanic you me why do you have so much passion to help other people I have so much passion whatever I went through police idea yeah someone helped me to be where I am today yeah he was the one who introduced me to several organizations that empowered me so fish whatever I learn I want to give it back because me ma'am yeah so at least So, she clearly had to go and say, malice are two of your form four. Then, to turn to the next thing. And she said, ma'am, you don't have to go out with me. I said, ma'am, I'm not going to go out with you. I'm going to buy you a house. You don't have to go out with me to buy you a house. So, she said, how do you think you can buy a house if you have two boyfriends? What are two boyfriends? I have two boyfriends as yes and no. So, I'm either a ma'am or a boyfriend, all of them are boys. I went to school, I was like a woman and I was like a child. I was like a child and I was just like my dad, and I was like a child. So, I said, ma'am, I'm going to buy you a house. I'm going to buy you a house, and I was like what? She said, ma'am, I'm going to buy you a house. But I don't have to go out with you for 40. I rarely go out with my friends. My friends are with me. I used to tell that my mother used to tell me that she was a boy child with a father and a daughter. So, she would go to work and do the dishes. But, you see, what do you do in the working class? There was a time when I was a child So, I learned how to learn V2 Ground And when I learned V2, I was like Different! You can buy her tea, guys You want to talk about her Yeah, so I'm different So, I learned how to learn V2 And I was a little scared I had a life experience I was like, I'm a tree And I was like Out of... I was a little scared I was like, I'm a tree I was like, I'm a tree I was like, I'm a tree And I was like, yeah Okay, all right So, I learned how to learn V2 And I was like, yeah Yeah There is... This time, there was a... At that time, I called to Ask for food But I called And I said My dad came to visit me My dad came to visit me He has been attempting to rape her My mom was working She was working in the garden So, I asked my dad And my dad said I'm leaving So, I called my dad And he attempted to rape me I was like, I'm a tree So, that night I called and I said My dad said I'm leaving And I was like, I'm a tree So, I had to go I came back home and I was like I was like, I'm a tree I was like, I'm a tree My dad came to visit me I was like, I'm a tree I was like, I'm a tree But he was so rude So, I called my mom Today My dad was like, I'm a tree And I was like, I'm a tree And I was like, I'm a tree And he was like, I'm a tree And the next day I went to school I had to go Because many years ago What? Yes, my children, and my boys So, I fell asleep and I came to school I did not attempt to rape I was like, I'm a tree But he tried to rape me But I couldn't I took the shot I ate my car the best dad. At that time, I called and I said, I love you a lot. So, as in, when I was in the community, at some time back, I told some of my girls, who were in South Benia and the place in Guinea. So, I called them and they said, I love you so much. I have a problem. So, I don't have access. So, I told them, I love you a lot. So, I told them, what happens? Okay. I have a lot of history. There are about 5 million ways of history. The police, the police, the parents, the stories. I told them, I love you a lot, because how are you being violent to attempt to rape your own child? Okay. But you chose instead love and understanding. So, I told them, I love you a lot. I love that you took it further compared to counsellor. So, I told them, sometimes I love you a lot and you will be scared. You know? You know. I love you. I said, I love you a lot. So, I told them, I love you a lot. I loved you a lot. I love you a lot. So, I told them, I love you a lot. And you said, she told me that her daughter would be the one who drank alcohol. She told me she said she would drink alcohol if she wanted to. Double twice, Hasera. So instead of drinking alcohol, she didn't turn in this situation. Right? Yes. So, the next day, she was as happy as she could. She was so violent without me. I don't know why she didn't tell her she was pregnant. She wasn't my wife. She was like that. She had school fees. he was telling me that. I told him that he had a problem. So I told him, he had a problem. So he told me that I have a problem. He told me that I had a problem. He said, I have a problem. Then I told him that I have a problem. If it's a police case, it's well and good. If it's something you can sort out it. Is anyone else mesmerized by her right now coming with me? Let's vote president. Because I, I have politics to quivy my friend. And the big people are usually out there doing politics. So I don't like politics. I don't like politics. Ah, ah, ah. Well, don't have to take it. Can we just arrange case? What? Through a lot. Through a lot. If it's something you can sort out, depending on what's happening. Okay. I imagine Sira is a single parent. Because my mom at some point was a single parent. And since she was born, she doesn't know anything about me. She doesn't know anything. I have my own stress. I've just provided for my family and I think I have my own stress. I don't have any stress. I don't have any stress. How ways you talk, my friend? If you come up with a personal community. And you have community at heart. How ways you talk. I have a friend. Do you know sometimes when you have a friend, you don't know anything about me. I don't know anything. I don't know anything. I don't know anything. You don't know anything. And when I come up with links, I don't know anything. That's was my next question. Don't know anything. I don't know anything. I know friends. If anything happens, I don't know anything. I don't know anything. Won't know anything. See, do you know God? Yes. I know God too. I don't know what to do guys I wish I could give her something to say thank you I wish, I wish It's okay This story is strong But anyway, you can still find us at White Fire from Facebook White Fire 4 Channel on Twitter Hashtag is white in the morning We are currently in the middle of a very very Phenomenal interview with a phenomenal person I don't know I think she has goosebumps She has goosebumps Alright There is a problem Is it Do you need help? No And how can they do that if they want to Um Sometimes Sessions on weekends So come on Facebook, Instagram What's up Twitter I'm Joy Firemoma Mwix Let me transfer Firemoma Guys, I know Shulinda is not working So Thank you What is your name? My name is X-ray So let's take it easy Fire Firemgle M-O-M-M-L-E Stop it The shot of somebody Locking it How can you So, what's your name? This is Joy Firemoma Mwix Can you call the fireman? 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It has not been easy to me struggle a lot after anyway and partners come on as I talk about the better to support our to support our vision because when you empower a person you empower the whole community depending on him it all starts with you if you if you get empowered please empower someone else mm-hmm my favorite thing about can you please remember that's for me empower a person I've been here in complaints due to me empower girls tell Santa boy tell them empire buddy okay empower boy child empower girls tell us she has a wonderful smile but we believe you we really believe you 15 I had to go through a lot but thank god I'm here if you hadn't the bus I want to leave a legacy in my community at least is about to burst so before it busts open guys we're going to take a short break okay that I found Facebook white 54 channel on twitter hashtag is over in the morning we send it because we have a conversation that's not in fact funny enough or coincidentally to know Lisa on our socials how you feel about venue a toy was squeezed one a raise you are had how you feeling about that yeah let us know are we pointing fingers naming names we playing the blame game we're going to find out but don't go away