 Hi y'all, she was 7. So I wanted to make a video today addressing a topic someone gave me. And she asked, how do you get out of a dead-end relationship? Because a lot of women are afraid that they won't find anyone else. Or that that's the best they can do. So they stay with these guys who aren't about anything. They're losers. But they've grown so used to him that they don't want to see what else is out there. And they're asking me, how do I leave? Well, I don't know if y'all have kids in the relationship. I don't know, but I will tell you how I would do it. First of all, if there were children involved and I wanted to leave my loser boyfriend or whatever. And you have children by him. I would start by dropping clues and hints that you are interested in moving out or starting over in another state. Or just that you want to separate. I would just start dropping little clues and hints. I would also start suggesting that he better himself. So, you know, at least you give him a chance to try. You know, if he doesn't respond positive to it, then just start making small moves one move a day to get out of that relationship. For example, you can start a savings account. You can start looking at apartments online, seeing the vacancies going to look. You can start looking at different, you know, things to maybe like if you're if you're on a certain schedule. You can start looking for, you know, daycare options or whatever if you need that. You can also start looking at, what do you call it? You can also start looking at line to file child support. And if you need it, you can actually still you can actually file child support online before you even move out. You just either, you know, yeah, you can actually file child support before you even move out. And the letters will both come to that address and you can say you're moving and then give them like your mom's address or something like that. But you can actually file child support while you're still there. And so before you even make moves to, you know, move out, that'll already be in place. So you don't have to worry about it, you know. And then I would just like, and if there's no kids involved, I would just start packing a little bit each day and taking it, you know, somewhere, putting it in storage or whatever. I would go on lunch dates. Like if I was on, if I was at work, I would try to schedule lunch dates with new people while I was still with this person because, you know, a lunch date is just getting to know someone. You know, make your plan B to have a reason to leave and be confident in yourself again that you can attract a decent person that's way better than who you're with. I would suggest, you know, making online friends. I would suggest just doing those little things. It's not cheating if you're already planning to leave that person and you're just tired of it and you're just trying to make a smooth exit. There's nothing wrong with that. Most women already have a plan B guy that she can go to, okay? If you don't have one and you're in a relationship where you don't want to be, get one, okay? Because as soon as you're free, you know, things are going to start going in your favor because you've already invested time into that relationship. You can just start off smooth and be happy and, you know, pick up where you left off and say, you know, I'm so glad I met you. You got me out of that bad situation. I should have never been in and you showed me my value and my worth and I'm so glad I left the loser. Yay, you know, so, and a lot of men will, you know, suggest you leave to him. A lot of men will be like, go ahead and leave him. I will take care of you. You don't have to stay there. Why are you in that? You know, I don't understand what do you see? You know, a lot of men will also help convince you to get out. You just got to find one that has genuine interest in you, which means you have to put yourself out there. You know, like I said, the lunch dates, meeting people online, putting like more effort and time into a relationship outside. The one you don't want. And a lot of people say, oh, that's cheating. Well, you know what? You don't want to be with him anyway. You call him and a loser behind his back. He's not improving. So what choice do you have, you know? Most women go for love and looks under the age of 25. After they turn 25, they've either gotten their heart broken, been dissed and cheated on. And they understand that love, being in love that young of an age is not what's on a man's mind. It's on a woman's mind. So they know men are out to play, out to get them, out to use them. So then what they do in their mind, they clicks, you know what? Men are after love. You know, you have to trick men into certain things. The men are after love for me. They're after, you know, something else. I was after love, but I got dissed. So now I'm just going to be after money because I'm not leaving the relationship like I did empty-handed before. So basically that's how women start to think after they've been dogged by men. They're like, you know what? I spent all that effort and time. I really love that person. I put all this into the relationship and he still cheated on me. He still did this and he still did that. And I even paid for my own dates. I paid for my drink. I did everything I was supposed to do, but he still went out and cheated. He didn't want to marry me. He didn't do this. He didn't do that. That's the guy I get with. I'm going to have him pay for everything. He's going to buy me expensive gifts. This isn't that to prove to me that he's serious about me because I'm not going to waste my time anymore with losers. So that's how women start thinking after the age of 25 because they've been dissed by men. Men who say, oh, women need to do this and women need to do that. And they just need to think about love, love, love. Y'all aren't thinking about love. So why should we? You know, men are not thinking about love. They're thinking about sex and who's going to pay the bill, sadly. And these days, I think more men want to be like women. I mean, we have more transgender people right now, men changing into women because they want what we have. They want our benefits. They want the attention. I saw this video on Facebook. This beautiful transgender, like drag queen guy was driving and blogging and he had like a really deep voice. But he was beautiful. He looked like a tikka sumpter, tikka sumpter. And while he was driving, there was some thirsty guy in the car next to him just following him, looking all in the window because he looks like a beautiful woman. Just following him, stopping at every light. You know, just like a super thirsty dude. And so he's saying, you see how these guys are? You see how these guys are? And as a transgender male, female, he's getting that kind of attention. So what kind of attention do you think real women are getting? We have too many options to be with losers. You know, we have too many options. Too many. We got guys chasing them down the street, waving in the window at stop lights, trying to pull over and get your number. We have that at least once a week if you're out and about. Especially if you are in a place where there's lots of people your age. Yeah, you're going to get that. So, man, I don't know where y'all are getting this information from. That's why we're single. We're single because we don't want to deal with losers. We will rather wait and get the perfect man who is going, not even perfect. We will rather wait and get the man who's going to be a man. Single women, that doesn't mean they're lonely. They can go out every night with a different dude and get free dinner and free drinks. And stay single and go home and be fine. They can still get those guys to pay their bills. One guy for this bill, one guy for that bill, one guy for this bill. A lot of my friends did that. A lot of my friends had their cable bill paid by one guy. Their rent paid by another guy. Their water bill paid by the broken guy. But you know what I mean. They had all their bills paid by different men. And they would go out to lunch with them once or twice a month. This one would go out to lunch with them every week. They would take their girlfriends out to eat with them and stuff like that. They were single, but they had their stuff taken care of. They were never lonely. And the thing is, until they found the perfect man that could do all those things that all those different guys were doing, they did not settle down. Why? Because in this day and age, men want to be women. And it's not right. Y'all shouldn't want to be us. Y'all talk about it so bad, but y'all want to be us so bad. Y'all want to be invited out on a date and have the date paid for and catered to and giving medicures and pedicures and worshipped. But that's not for y'all. Y'all are supposed to be the strong, masculine, strength, not the soft feminine energy who is built physically for receiving. If I was a giver, I'd have something to give sexually. I don't have an outward extension. I'm not supposed to be a giver. I'm a receiver by nature. I am the outlet. You are the plug. It's even in nature. Women are not givers. Women are receivers. After we receive what we're supposed to receive, we create with it. We create life. You give women credit card. She'll create a wardrobe. You give women groceries. She'll create a meal. You give women a compliment. She'll take it to a whole other level and have people complimenting you for being with her. Women are the natural receivers. We're not supposed to give. We're not supposed to pay on dates. We're not supposed to do any of that. If we do, then we're devaluing ourselves. We're saying, hey, you're more feminine than me now because now I'm going to dig in my pocket, which is a masculine thing and pay the bill. If I was a woman and I ever found myself on a date when the man asked me to pay, I would make a scene. I'll be like, excuse me, man. Yes, my date wants me to pay. I really need to split this bill right down the middle. I don't know if he's going to leave you a tip or not. How much do you want? How much do you think that this combined with... I'm going to go ahead and leave you a tip because I'm not sure if he's going to pay the tip or not because he obviously doesn't really have enough money to pay for this date. I want to make sure, ma'am. Say it loud in the restaurant. I want to make sure, ma'am, that you're very well compensated for your wonderful service and I don't like to thank you so much. Don't even look at him. And she's going to laugh. My God, this is late a grave. Well, ma'am, it's about 18% if you want to tip generously or 10% if you want to. I'm going to go ahead and tip you generously, ma'am, because you did an outstanding job and, you know, I don't want you to suffer because of, you know, lack of planning on his part. So she's going to be like, okay, ma'am, thank you so much. And you're going to be like, no, thank you. And people are going to hear that the next table, you're going to look like a chump. He ain't ever going to do that again, I promise you, or he'll never call you back because you know you're not calling him back for sure. Okay, embarrass those people. If you ever find yourself on a date and somebody's looking at you to pay, embarrass them in public, teach them a lesson because they need to be taught, they need to be spanked. Okay, they're acting like children. They acting like females. They need to be checked. Okay, they need to be checked and they need to be checked frequently. If you don't check someone who does that to you, then he's going to keep doing it to other women and it's going to make the situation worse. So ladies, if you ever get asked out on a date, if he asks you, he's supposed to pay. If you don't pay and he looks at you for the money and embarrass him in public. Okay, I don't care. And then put it on YouTube so you can get a thousand, two thousand, three thousand hits and go viral and get paid still. Okay.