 So if you have all this knowledge, all right, let's, let's, let's analyze you for a second. So what I'm just really interested to know because even if you have a daughter, listen, it's the message right here. Black boy, tell me how you really feel because I just want to build with you. Black girl, tell me how you really feel. I want to keep it real with you. I want to live better, eat better. I want to love better, sleep better. Yeah. I think that's one of the downsides. That is actually one of the downsides to pretty privilege and I don't know if that people talk about it a lot. Talk to me. But I think that when you're an attractive person, especially if you didn't really have anyone there to mentor you, to cultivate skills and instill value in you, you rely on your appearance because that's the first thing that you get attention for from men, right? And so subconsciously you tell yourself, okay, my value is in how I look. And so women are leading with that. They're not developing their other skills. But then you have the plain Jane. She doesn't really have that privilege, right? So she got to prove herself. She has to be all these great things internally so that men, when they see her, she can be on an equal playing field as the attractive woman with the pretty privilege. And so I think that we acknowledge that as us having a lead or an advantage, but in the end it shoots us in the foot. And that's why there's so many Instagram models, very attractive women. Those are the ones who are single. And we're like, what the heck is going on? Why can't I find anybody? But the plain jeans are the ones getting wiped up. Listen, I tell women, men are smarter than we get credit for. We're smarter than sometimes we're able to even articulate. And the reality is, you know, going back to Kevin Samuels, he talks about, you know, the scale of one to 10. Most men, especially men who've been outside, they understand that nonsensitins are not wives. Maybe that would be the title. Nonsensitins are not wives. The wife's zone is like six to seven. Or five to seven. Let's say five to seven. Five to seven is the wife's zone. If God just loves you, he'll give you eight. If you're his chosen warrior, he'll give you a nine. But like, I remember there was a white dude who did some called the crazy hot matrix. And he was like, you know, as a woman gets higher and hot, she gets higher and crazy. Right. So men understand in life is trade-offs. On the low end, if she got big titties, she ain't gonna have an ass. She has an ass, she ain't gonna have big titties. Right. She has a face she might not have either one. If she has all three, she might be a man. So we understand, we understand his trade-offs in life. Right. And we, at some point, we've gotten, we sold our world, we got out of it, out of our system. We're thinking about a good long-term partner. I think because women haven't taken a time to really understand how men operate, they're still fixated on the high school boys and then the celebrities. So how can I compete for Chris Brown versus how can I compete for this good man in my town? Yeah. And thinking that what Chris Brown wants is reflective of what men want. No, it's reflective of what men will sleep with. It's not what men want. Men want you to be clean. Men want you to smell good. Men want you to move. And it's funny, like as I've matured in my pimping, as I've gotten older, gotten more refined, I can see two women, one that is drop dead gorgeous. But I can be turned off by when she opens her mouth, whether we're talking about a hygiene thing or whether we're talking about her ability to articulate her diction, you know, her movement. A lot of the different things that at 17, oh, man, fuck all that, look at her. Versus a woman here who might be, if we're just being objective, she's a five, but she moves like a motherfucker. And she sound like her voice sounds like Tweety Bird singing. And she just smell like daisies are supposed to because flowers don't smell. But you know what I'm saying? She is going to kill this woman five, ten days out of the week. But a lot of, I think a lot of our women are spending so much time and spending so much effort just trying to look like the bad bitch. Versus the soft, softer, what does your skin feel like? You know what I'm saying? We're not all blessed with bone structure. What does your skin feel like? What's your hygiene? How do you move? How do you talk? What's the volume, addiction? How well do you articulate? How well read are you? That's what's going to captivate somebody and be like, even if her vagina doesn't work, I want to be around her. Yes. But you over here relying on your WAP, that's cool. That's cool. I had WAP before. What happens when menopause hits and it dries up? You know. So yeah. So if you have all this knowledge, all right. What's wrong with you? Let's analyze you for a second then. So what? I'm just really interested to know because you met you have a daughter. So in the situation with her mother, do you feel like you understood the importance of a family unit at that time? Did you really make an effort to make it work? I just want to know a little bit more about that. Yes. Yes. The circumstances were interesting because we decided we weren't going to be together and then we thought I was just pregnant and then we tried to make it work. And we're still in the process of trying to figure things out. But I think also, I guess my problem. My problem is I am not as patient as people might think. I'm patient with strangers because I look at it purely from a like a research perspective and like a work perspective. But with people in my life, I think one of my shortcomings is I have really high expectations. And I'm like as much time as I spend talking about how things should be, a certain shit I shouldn't have to tell you. Is that a good thing? No. I'm working on it. And then also being 29, my priority right now, my priority right now is my daughter. But right after that is work and trying to try to create a future that can sustain the things and the people that I care about. And because of that, romantic investment is something that I don't want to do half asked. And because of what it is that I'm doing, I don't know if I have to band with to be able to do that. Now with my daughter's mom, it's a little different because we have a kid. And I understand the optimal situation is that we're together. And that's something that's tugging at me because I'm still idealistic. But I think what stopped me so far is the fact that my priority has just been I got to feed this girl. Do you think that you making things work with her mother can be linked to you prioritizing her though? I've thought about that. I've thought about that. I think my hesitation with that though is a lot of us, including myself grew up in situations where if our parents were being real, they were just together for us. And at some point you could sense it. You're like, man, I'm not really just go your separate ways because this shit is exhausting. So I never want it to be that. And we've had that conversation where it's like, I want to choose you because I chose you, not because of some sense of responsibility, because that's not sustainable. Because at some point either I will or you'll feel like I just did this. So I don't get fine. I just did this. So and then our kid is going to feel the same way. So it's best we take the time to, if we're going to choose each other, it's because we chose each other, not because of some sense of responsibility to her. And I think honestly, that's another part of the general hesitation with marriage these days, because a lot of us did grow up in a situation where, yeah, our parents were together, but they don't even know why they, you know what I'm saying? And I don't even know why. So I think our generation millennials are saying, I'm not going to just do this because it's the thing I'm supposed to do at 30 or the thing I'm supposed to do after I have a kid. Now, like I told her mom, they'll always be taken care of. I'm the patty. She's going to be straight regardless of how idealistic our situation is. But yeah, like I said, we're still, I guess she's two. We got time. Yeah, we got time.