 you know, close your eyes and imagine that you're actually approaching the person that you want something from and you pretend to go up to their ear in your mind and visualize it and actually whisper what you want them to do. So an example of this would be, say you want a promotion at a job. So you would close your eyes, go through the process, imagine going up to your boss and whispering in their ear, you were choosing me for this promotion. I am the one you're giving the promotion to in whatever language, you know, works best for you.