 We start with a sadiqa, complete honesty, sincerity, you see there's levels to this honesty and this truthfulness, there's narrating a fact, water is a liquid, okay you've been honest, there's a second level where everything that you say is a genuine fact is a truth and there's no nothing in between you'll never say something that's semi-grey line, you'll say water is a liquid and it's clear, air is a gas and it's clear and then there's the third level, there's the level of the one who's able to tell all these truths, who's able to narrate truth after truth, perfection after perfection but then act upon it, narrating the word and actually doing what it says, narrating truth and living what it means, this is one of the beautiful elements and initial depths of a sadiqa, truly one who was genuinely truthful, who never told lies, who conformed to everything that she said and of course to every world that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala she would abide by without any level of disagreement, with complete alignment, with complete conviction, with complete trust that Allah's word is the word and it's an assessment for myself and yourself, when it comes to this alignment just how aligned are we, is it on some roads we'll choose yes and in others no, is it that we're even narrates completely false things and try and pass them off as truth or are we even at that first level where we're just spewing complete and utter lies and perhaps that's part of your intention to be here tonight, if it's to connect with a lady like this who's on level three four and five and you're still struggling at level one maybe that's the first step