 The following is a clip from my popular YouTube live streams answering your questions. If you're brand new to my channel, don't forget to hit the subscribe button, hit the bell so you can be notified of new videos. And if any time this video resonates with you, please hit that like button so I can be seen in the YouTube algorithms. Really quickly, my coaching is what I call heart-centered radical honesty. It's direct, a little tough love, and a lot of heart. And occasionally I use expletives to enhance a sentence. So if an F-bomb or two isn't your cup of tea, I suggest logging off right now. Lastly, these are my thoughts, my perceptions, my opinions. By no means do I suggest this is the truth. You have to decide the truth for yourself. I'm a bit of a contrarian, so my advice goes contrary to public opinion and traditional expectations. All right, take it away, Jonathan. Claribel, if I said the right question, is it possible someone fall in love within a week? Claribel's so connected to me and saying he loves me. So I have a simple question for you. If you were going through chemotherapy right now for the next 30 days, would he be at the hospital bed by your side wiping the vomit from your face? If the answer is yes, then he loves you. But if he's not, and I know you can't test this, but sweetheart, excuse my term of endearment. You can't be in love with someone a week. You can feel lust or limerence. Look up the word limerence, extreme infatuation. Look up lust. Lust means I want to fuck you. That's what lust is. I want to fuck you. And limerence is I'm extremely infatuated. Yes, any person can feel that within nanosecond of meaning someone. Oh my God, if I told you how many times I've lusted over women or how many times, by the way, do you know 70? They did a study in England and at a college and asked 100 men went to 100 women and said, would you like to go on a first date with me? Question number one, would you like to go back to my dorm room number two, or would you like to have sex with me? 50% of the women would say yes to a first date. Smaller percentage even went back to the room and zero said sex. Now they did the reverse for men. And here's what happened. 50% of the men say they would go on a first date. 65 said they would go back to the person's room and 75% of the men would have sex with a woman right there in that moment. Do you see the difference between men and women? We'll have sex with you a stranger. We will have sex with a total stranger. Women are less likely to do that. So coming back to your question about true love, it's not love until he can be there for you through the storms. It's not love until he can wipe the vomit from your face if you're going through chemotherapy. Does this visualization sink in, ladies? Because you buy into this bullshit narrative. Men use fantasy to get you in bed and you have the fantasy that once you're in bed with a guy, he's serious. It's not true most of the time. There's always the exception to the rule. I can't generalize. I get it. But that's most of the time. Ladies, men are the gas, you're the brakes. By the way, right now, if I can encourage all women, fucking put a chassis belt on. By the way, if you really want to get men to shape up, every woman on the planet for the next three months wears a chassis belt. And you're going to see a whole, by the way, I know it sounds Puritan, but there was a real value to waiting for commitment to have sex. And now we're in a hook-up culture. I mean, it's sad. And I talk to millennials and I talk to Gen Zs and they're all just hooking up with one another. It's going to, for those of us baby boomers, Gen Xers, our children are fucked. That's how bad it's getting out there. I want you to be different. I want you to stand in your power. I want you to be intentional. I want you to start using radical honesty. I want you to start hardballing guys because this current methodology is so working in men's favor to get laid. And it's so easy. 75% of men will have sex with a stranger. I'm yelling because I'm yelling like you're all about to touch fire. And look, and I'm your big brother. If I could be there for you on the first date, I'd have the shotgun pointed that the guys face and say, what are your intentions with my little sister? But you have to do that for yourself because I can't be there.