 This 20-year-old Otaku is asking for advice on his dating profile. Let's see if we can help him Kevin We send you overseas to study not find a lady buddy But dad I want to live Anyways guys, this is a viral thread on reddit. There was a whole bunch of comments pouring in As advice and feedback on this guy's dating profile a lot of guys have been doing this lately David on reddit Do you think it's because more guys are what getting on the apps or they're at least asking the internet for advice? I think there's in a way more guys that live their life online But also still have a chance in real life, but their social circle is online Anyway guys make sure you like subscribe and turning notifications. We're gonna see if we can help Kevin from Hong Kong out But first check out small ass sauce Instagram at small ass sauce guys They are shipping out in mid November very very excited for everybody to get their order So orders are still going on, but yeah gonna be in a market soon. I'm very excited Um, I would say let's just pop up some photos of Kevin right here. He's talking about his glow up He goes to the Chalmers University of technology. That's gonna be relevant later But a long story short Andrew He does kind of look like a guy in an anime who used to be weak and he took some super serum and Got super ripped. He's he's been doing his push-ups man shout out to him He did the number one thing that everybody would say is Get fit. Yeah get fit. Um immediately. What are your thoughts Andrew because let's be honest his photo shoots They do look very anime twitch perhaps overseas. I believe he is a international student from hong kong So that may account so if you guys are at home right now being like What's going on the just the photo filters look kind of weird. He is from a different culture Right and also he's in sweden. I think that counts too because sweden is already a different culture than america It is a western Country still but it's not like a british country. So that's why I feel like his aesthetic is going super artsy real dark tones Kind of that purple vibe a lot of purple and blue colors Would you say almost it looks like an anime screensaver in some of the photos? Yeah, I thought I thought he would be He would make a great ai anime character. Right. Right. This is very gen z guys So I want everybody to be sure like and I think that this is going to be useful for everybody Even not in this situation because it's just teaching guys how to make reads, right? Yeah, and I think my first advice and we're going to get into all the comments Of other people but my first advice and I'm going to stand by this for all the videos that we do is like Take advice from the internet, but you need to cross reference it with real life advice You need a friend who has also used the dating apps and found some success in it that can actually help you in Real life. This is some dating and dating apps is one thing that when you have In-person help like a group of bros that are all on it together and you're kind of sharing feedback and sharing information That's really really important. Jump off fraternity camaraderie in person mentorship. Yes I'm not saying they have to be an expert. They don't have to be the most handsomest guy in the world They just have to have found some success on he did say I'm you know looking for Advices especially from the people who got a lot of matches or successes Yeah, so talk to the other guys at your school at your design school or that you meet and yeah Also get that advice and cross-reference it with stuff you hear on the internet based off kevin's profile from hong kong What do you think success is to him? I don't know But I think he needs to find that out for himself, right? Is it to date around? Is it just to get experiences and meet different types of women that he's never met before or is it to Have a lot of fun and go on dates and maybe get laid. We have to know what you're I or just get a girlfriend What is your idea of a success? I would say he's working with some decent cards, right? I mean, I probably got we got a cousin or something like that who totally has this aesthetic But like a little bit more of an Americanized version I mean this is this look if he's tall enough can even appeal to non-asian women who are into anime k dramas that type of shaggy hair I want to say this even leans more towards anime j drama j pop than even k pop possibly But I'm saying it's in the similar sphere in my opinion. So So he's got he's got some appeal, right? Is he trying to attract other international students from the same part of the world that hemisphere the here's from In sweden sweden is a very international place. Is he trying to attract a swedish milk maid with the blonde pigtails? No, but let's keep it real david. What are some archetypes of? Maybe women if we had to guess that may not be attracted to his pictures as much Girls who probably place a lot of sports or maybe listen to a lot of rap music or Like a lot of yeah, the little the ones that would date Bigger guys with tattoos or like an abg type girl might not be attracted to him That's okay. Because everybody everybody got a different lane. Everybody got a lane What do you think about niche maxing versus playing the universal lane? Which is trying to be like a seven out of ten to everybody versus being a zero out of ten to some lane And polarizing it to be ten out of ten to somebody else in a different lane It's so hard to tell because like he might rank Technically higher in his like anime photographer lane cosplay Then he then he ever could even if he tried to turn into a different lane. So possibly this is his lane This is his passion. This is his life. This is where his mind is at. That's okay He does got the asus falling down. That's like that's deep cut hk android. Yeah. Yeah, I mean Listen again, you need to find a group of guys in person. That's my advice to you Is not just to tell you what to do through the internet It's to go find a group of friends that you guys can talk about this kind of stuff in a healthy manner together Right. Uh, this is the first comment saying hey, man You are one of the few guys on here who actually has an appealing profile And you know how to appease the female gays other guys have no idea how to do this They're just thinking about what would impress other guys bravo to you Well, can I be honest if you go to a design school, he's probably spent quite a lot of time around Other women right at design school women who like design as well Yeah, women like who died dude like design So he I think he does have an idea of what at least that segment Of girl likes what do you think about the shirtless photo? I think ultimately if you work hard to get a six pack and you are that buff and you're that ripped and your Body five percentage is that low or maybe you're really skinny. So you had to build up the mass You should show it off I feel like this is an opinion of a guy to remove the shirtless photo who probably doesn't look that good with the shirt off Yeah, I would say keep the shirt photo shirtless photo, but put it at the bottom I think at the end of the day as much as some girls say, oh, I don't like the mirror selfie If you take a clean one, it's still at the end of the day showing off your body You're saying you're showing off the goods But maybe you don't have to put it as the first photo and throw it in people's face, right? Let them scroll down like your profile read through it and then be like, oh cool He's also fit, you know, and I think there's a way to take a shirtless photo by yourself and not make it so like Cringy, but you might it might take up many tries, right? You might have to take 50 to 100 photos to get that one He's a photographer. So he should he should know somebody say you look too pretentious Are you modeling for a magazine or trying to meet a partner? You look like you are trying to film a j-chow album cover. That's funny I think again, he has to define what is success to him on the dating apps What is success to you on the dating apps? Is it literally just going on dates with women? Is it getting laid? Is it finding a girlfriend that you actually like, right? Somebody said you're a look good. You're a good looking guy. So you got the main thing figured out already However, you don't show any sociality. Nobody knows if you have friends What you do in a group setting. How important is this? Yes, it looks Kind of depressive and it looks like you might be slightly anti-social or at least introverted Right, like you might not have a hyperactive social life That the girl's gonna be able to be a part of as well if you guys choose to date each other Yes Somebody said, uh, why are you on tinder and hinge aren't there better platforms for a college student in their 20s? Just go to the library or join some student groups. I don't really agree with this I just feel like as as messed up and as much as everybody hates online dating in 2023 That's where like everybody has shifted in terms of usage rate Yeah, I mean at the end of the day, I think online dating if he has a very specific image in mind Then the very specific type of girl is going to be attracted to him And he just needs to be on there long enough to cross pass with her Right, it depends on what pool you're fishing in and what lure you're using, right? You know how different lures. I I guess in fishing appeal to different types of fish, right? Yes, you're trying to get sea bass. You're trying to get a skinny fish Whatever thick fish. Anyway, somebody said, um You know, you just got to be uncomfortable for three minutes every week And ask your guy friends to take some photos of you while you guys are out. Yes. Yeah. Yeah You got having guy friends help dude other bros. You need them man. You need friends Um, a lot of people are talking about please get a haircut. Your pictures are too dark They don't show your face very well Perhaps is he going for too dark of an anime Brooding, you know, like final fantasy seven to eight to nine aesthetic Yeah, I personally think so, but you know, I'm maybe it's hard for me to put myself in the mind Of the type of girl that likes him. I know that there is a segment of Girls who are attracted to this they may not be in large numbers in sweden But they're probably international students. They might be international students They might be other international students. So in that case, they'll understand the vibe So I'm not sure about the tweaking the vibe things. That's actually not the biggest deal to me I actually don't think that's maker breaking it. Right somebody says, uh, you know, I just this guy said in america This would totally not work and someone said, oh, I don't know. You're a shredded k-pop max guy bros a model So it's interesting to see that people have different perceptions But they're probably like we said they're judging kevin from their world Dude and the circles that they inhabit not everybody's gonna live the same life on this earth guys Yeah, I just wish that more people would provide like what type of girl They're trying to attract or what they think they can do or the type of environment they're in that kind of detail Would be a lot more helpful. Is it a little bit like fighting like hey, man Should I grapple should I kick or should I throw a lot of heavy punches and you're like, dude, I don't know What one are you good at? Who are you fighting? Right? It matters a lot. What weight class are you in? somebody said, um You know Hey guys, kevin watch out because I know that I was being taken advantage of because I also am anime And otaku maxed don't get abused a lot of women dated me just for my body and my look and my vibe And they used me up and they just left me empty depressed and lonely Don't let it happen to you and this was coming from another guy who has the same aesthetic as kevin And said that women used him for his cosplay sexuality I did not expect his comment. I can't I think it makes sense because you know as people not in that world I think you tend to Forget how large that world is and how in that world girls are attracted to guys and girls want to get down to and Sometimes they have such a fetish for that that that that style that the anime guy Is a market a girl who just wants to Lay up with this dude. He looks like a protagonist in attack on titan. Yeah. Yeah, which is interesting and uh, I've seen it before but I always forget how big the market is but it's there guys. So yeah, do not get abused again What are you looking for? Do you have the mental fortitude the mental maturity to a handle? What is coming your way in case you get a lot of attention? You know to be fair andrew how many guys ever get used and abused like that for their sexuality in this life How many asian guys really do it really so i'm not saying whatever happened to this dude He didn't experience in it and it's not valid But yeah, i'm just saying a lot of guys would maybe want that They would maybe use and abuse me. All right. Listen guys, it's different for everybody Um, this per last comments there There was just a bunch of comments saying different girls like different things Who are you trying to appeal to if you are going to seattle? So you post a bunch of hiking photos because you think that everybody in seattle likes hiking Then you're gonna attract a girl that loves hiking and you guys are gonna go end up hiking together Even though you only put the photo there to attract the girls in the first place Maybe that's gonna be a nightmare for you because you're gonna get stuck in a cycle of doing things that you don't want to do That's really funny. Um and what are the different things that appeal to different people? Obviously, this guy's in sweden He's a design student. He's from hong kong. He's with the j-pop deep in the shinjuku harajuku aesthetic However, I mean do you think it's true? And how does one appeal to a girl in a csa or a ksa or a kd5 or a k-town abg Or a viet abg or a hipster girl that's part of the film program of the international international studies program Or she's part of the creative writing program. So she's in a different lane Everybody's in a different lane, right? Everybody's in a different lane. Everybody has their taste and I think the dating apps just expose you To as many people as possible and that's the point of it For you to figure out which lane you are in you're gonna find out by who likes you who likes you back You're gonna but you're just gonna deal with rejection and I think for him He's not in bad shape in his lane. He could become a chat of his lane His lane is not my lane That's not my lane and I think the types of girls that are attracted to him based off the photos are different than the ones You're not a maple story lane. I'm not in this lane I don't view myself that way and I don't think I've gotten that type of attention But what I'm saying is I think he's in a good situation. He's at a good starting point solid starting point But uh, he has to just not be a weirdo and also get some other bro friends around him Even other anime guys who are at least also dating Maybe a friend with a girlfriend too who can talk to you about his relationship with his girlfriend I think he should definitely hit up sweden's cosplay convention play as demon slayer separoth You know what? I mean, etc. Etc. You could go with the villain Antagonist or protagonist. You guys know animes. All right guys. Let us know if that video was helpful at all Please check out smaller sauce.com and check out the instagram right down below. Hopefully that video You know, I don't know. It's fun. I guess to judge people's pro. I'm not saying that I have all the answers That's just my opinion Anything can happen in this world But yeah, I do think there are general reads that you make just like when you watch a basketball player or football You go, you know, the general read would have been to do this in this situation. Anyway guys, let us know what you guys think about kevin's situation Advice for him not advice Just in general, do you guys like these videos? Let us know in the comment section below until next time We're gonna hop out boys. We out. Peace